El Zen Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 3 hours ago, TheAuthority said: Sitting at the hospital waiting for my wife. We were so excited as she had a positive pregnancy test about eight weeks ago. Sadly it had stopped growing and there was no heartbeat on the ultra sound. So now she has to have a "D & C" which is basically taking out what was there to avoid the risk of infection. I'm naturally disappointed, but it was heart wrenching to see her so upset. That's far worse than my sadness about what could have been. She's an amazing woman and I'm heartbroken for her. I know exactly how you’re feeling. People will tell you how normal it is and all that, but it certainly doesn’t feel normal. All I can say is that it will get better. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seat68 Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Big hug to your wife. You as well but hope she gets through this. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAuthority Posted March 9, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted March 9, 2018 (edited) 23 minutes ago, Michelsen said: I know exactly how you’re feeling. People will tell you how normal it is and all that, but it certainly doesn’t feel normal. All I can say is that it will get better. Cheers mate. Still waiting to see her as she's now in recovery waking up. Doc called and said everything went fine. Saw some ladies coming into holding after their ops and they were obviously upset. Not a fun day. Edited March 9, 2018 by TheAuthority Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PompeyVillan Posted March 9, 2018 Share Posted March 9, 2018 Hold in there chap. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 Saw this earlier and thought it might be good for some of the Villa fans on NYC https://www.hotukdeals.com/deals/one-way-flights-new-york-to-birmingham-72-primera-air-2907072 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dodgyknees Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 17 hours ago, TheAuthority said: Sitting at the hospital waiting for my wife. We were so excited as she had a positive pregnancy test about eight weeks ago. Sadly it had stopped growing and there was no heartbeat on the ultra sound. So now she has to have a "D & C" which is basically taking out what was there to avoid the risk of infection. I'm naturally disappointed, but it was heart wrenching to see her so upset. That's far worse than my sadness about what could have been. She's an amazing woman and I'm heartbroken for her. Mate. I am so so so sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post TheAuthority Posted March 10, 2018 VT Supporter Popular Post Share Posted March 10, 2018 Thanks for all of the messages of support. Everything seems to be ok or at least as it should be. There were a few tears but last night she sat on the couch all night watching the UK gardening tv show "Big Dreams Small Spaces." A California girl who loves shows about English provincial gardens - who would have thought it. 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xann Posted March 10, 2018 Share Posted March 10, 2018 Rough times. Best wishes to you both. My other half suffered some grimness that put life on hold for a spell. We had a fun year after the issues were resolved. Weekends away, couple of trips abroad and caught up with people. Would recommend it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paddywhack Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 On 09/03/2018 at 10:47, Paddywhack said: I'm going to be meeting one you guys for the first time in the next few days. You don't know who you are and you don't know when it'll be, but one you is going to bump into someone with a big yellow face and sunglasses. It was @darrenm. He was absolutely over the moon to meet me in person, obviously. Right, who can I stalk now? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tegis Posted March 11, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted March 11, 2018 27 minutes ago, Paddywhack said: Right, who can I stalk now? 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 Why were you stalking Darren? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 1 hour ago, Ingram85 said: Why were you stalking Darren? Darren McGavin? Kolchak? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paddywhack Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 4 hours ago, Ingram85 said: Why were you stalking Darren? I don’t question it, I just do what’s in my heart Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darrenm Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 4 hours ago, Paddywhack said: It was @darrenm. He was absolutely over the moon to meet me in person, obviously. Right, who can I stalk now? I now know Paddywhack's true identity and I'll sell it to the highest bidder. Top bloke, great to meet you. Sorry if I was a bit distracted, I'm an ignorant fkr when flapping. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paddywhack Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 7 minutes ago, darrenm said: I now know Paddywhack's true identity and I'll sell it to the highest bidder. Top bloke, great to meet you. Sorry if I was a bit distracted, I'm an ignorant fkr when flapping. Not at all, you were lovely. I think I’d been crying under the pressure of organising a parkrun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Xela Posted March 11, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted March 11, 2018 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paddywhack Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 1 minute ago, Xela said: So jel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheAuthority Posted March 11, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted March 11, 2018 17 minutes ago, darrenm said: I now know Paddywhack's true identity and I'll sell it to the highest bidder. Top bloke, great to meet you. Sorry if I was a bit distracted, I'm an ignorant fkr when flapping. Wait, you were fapping together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
darrenm Posted March 11, 2018 Share Posted March 11, 2018 1 hour ago, TheAuthority said: Wait, you were fapping together? Yes, that's why I was distracted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BillyShears Posted March 12, 2018 Share Posted March 12, 2018 Watched the Jamie Carragher spitting incident. What kind of a man spits in a young girl's face? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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