Again I'm torn for if/when I get married.
I want a big wedding because there's lots of people I'd like to invite. Mainly Irish family. I've been invited to pretty much all of their weddings (and there's been a lot) so I want them at mine.
But I also despise a lot of the traditions that come with weddings. Inviting people that you "have" to invite. Doing certain things, giving the right amount of money all that shite.
It's the OH's sister's wedding this weekend and it's driving me up the wall.
None of that shit at mine. I'll invite who I want and we'll do it how we want.