il_serpente Posted March 3, 2019 VT Supporter Share Posted March 3, 2019 12 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: I’ve officially set a wedding date, venue booked today. I don’t know if to be excited or scared Both are appropriate. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 9 hours ago, il_serpente said: Both are appropriate. Well it's not until next year so I have nothing to worry about this year. I just hope it's nit going to be too stressful I want as minimal stress as possible Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 1 minute ago, Demitri_C said: Well it's not until next year so I have nothing to worry about this year. I just hope it's nit going to be too stressful I want as minimal stress as possible Will you be accepting video messages from VT on the day? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Demitri_C Posted March 4, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted March 4, 2019 (edited) 1 hour ago, chrisp65 said: Will you be accepting video messages from VT on the day? Maybe written messages which I expect will be like 'Cnogratulations dme' from you lot! Edited March 4, 2019 by Demitri_C 2 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted March 4, 2019 VT Supporter Share Posted March 4, 2019 Dearly beloved, Demitri has written his own vows which he'd like me to read on his behalf... ...erm... ...oh, er ... is that a "p"? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlwaysAVFC Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 9 hours ago, Demitri_C said: Well it's not until next year so I have nothing to worry about this year. I just hope it's nit going to be too stressful I want as minimal stress as possible Thankfully our planning has been relatively easy going, all the big stuff sorted. There's a few things on the to do list which are a bit of a pain in the arse but it's been stress free so far, with 7 months to go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 8 hours ago, Stevo985 said: Dearly beloved, Demitri has written his own vows which he'd like me to read on his behalf... ...erm... ...oh, er ... is that a "p"? It'll be like Joey's best man speech on friends Guaranteed. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted March 4, 2019 Share Posted March 4, 2019 2 hours ago, AlwaysAVFC said: Thankfully our planning has been relatively easy going, all the big stuff sorted. There's a few things on the to do list which are a bit of a pain in the arse but it's been stress free so far, with 7 months to go. Congratulations. We have done a lot band, venue, photographer, videographer, flowers and arranged someone for cake. Just got to survive the stag... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AvfcRigo82 Posted March 9, 2019 Share Posted March 9, 2019 On 28/02/2019 at 04:30, Villan_of_oz said: I waited 39 years to get married and it really upsets to me think it will last a couple of years. I'd have waited another 39 years! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AvfcRigo82 Posted March 9, 2019 Share Posted March 9, 2019 On 04/03/2019 at 19:33, Demitri_C said: Congratulations. We have done a lot band, venue, photographer, videographer, flowers and arranged someone for cake. Just got to survive the stag... Yeah, **** wedding cake. Cannibalism all the way! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted March 9, 2019 Share Posted March 9, 2019 On 04/03/2019 at 19:33, Demitri_C said: Congratulations. We have done a lot band, venue, photographer, videographer, flowers and arranged someone for cake. Just got to survive the stag... **** that, I didn't have one. I'm not one for being a sheep and doing what everyone else does. I insisted I wasn't going anywhere so we stayed at mine, played card games, and got drunk. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted March 9, 2019 VT Supporter Share Posted March 9, 2019 49 minutes ago, rjw63 said: **** that, I didn't have one. I'm not one for being a sheep and doing what everyone else does. I insisted I wasn't going anywhere so we stayed at mine, played card games, and got drunk. Same. I spent a few days in London at my best man's place, and we went out for a few pints every night, but nothing silly. The night before the wedding (in a Devon village) we did a pub crawl round the only three pubs, starting at about 6.00 pm, finishing at 2.00 am. But just steady drinking, so never got really shitfaced. Over the course of the evening we got joined by various guests and family (including the missus). Next morning I felt fine - had a full English, and a mate handed me a large Scotch just before we went into the church. All very enjoyable, tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted March 9, 2019 Share Posted March 9, 2019 3 hours ago, rjw63 said: **** that, I didn't have one. I'm not one for being a sheep and doing what everyone else does. I insisted I wasn't going anywhere so we stayed at mine, played card games, and got drunk. Lucky sod my friends just like ruining each other so I won’t be fun for me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PompeyVillan Posted March 9, 2019 Share Posted March 9, 2019 4 hours ago, rjw63 said: **** that, I didn't have one. I'm not one for being a sheep and doing what everyone else does. I insisted I wasn't going anywhere so we stayed at mine, played card games, and got drunk. I didn't have one either. I'm not a boring sod by any means, I have had my share of piss ups and didn't think it would be fun. We did quite a few things different in our wedding day, not to be contrary, but because we wanted to enjoy it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AvfcRigo82 Posted March 9, 2019 Share Posted March 9, 2019 2 hours ago, Demitri_C said: my friends just like ruining each other 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
il_serpente Posted March 9, 2019 VT Supporter Share Posted March 9, 2019 (edited) Drinks at the hotel, dinner at a nice restaurant, followed by my only ever lap dance at the legendary Condor Club in SF. Doesn't quite compare to my friends' 15 years earlier when we were "escorted" out of Billy's Topless in NYC by Puerto Ricans wth baseball bats after the handcuffed (another friend was an FBI agent) bachelor tripped and stumbled into the entry to the strippers' dressing room. Luckily, his uncle, a retired New Jersey cop was able to explain things and broker a calm eviction out the back door. Edited March 9, 2019 by il_serpente rearrange 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kurtsimonw Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 God that was brutal. It's been 9 weeks since the breakup and her key was still at mine, I had some stuff at hers. I finished work early today and finally messaged her about sorting it out. There had been no contact of any kind for nearly 2 months. She came to the door and I said "You alright?" She just said "I've just come to give you this", and I said "thanks" and gave her her key and she just left. The whole thing lasted about 5 seconds, but it was devastating. I didn't expect small talk, but I thought she'd give a shit how I was doing. The worst part, she didn't even look at me. I feel worse now than I ever have. How can I spend a year with someone and make such little impact on their life, that they truly just don't give a shit. I am really struggling to cope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 Would it really have changed your thinking if she had bothered to make some shitty small talk? It’s probably just as hard for her as well, hence why she dropped it off and went as quick as she could without saying a word. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Zen Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 42 minutes ago, kurtsimonw said: How can I spend a year with someone and make such little impact on their life, that they truly just don't give a shit. Do you really think any of that is true? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted April 19, 2019 Share Posted April 19, 2019 48 minutes ago, kurtsimonw said: God that was brutal. It's been 9 weeks since the breakup and her key was still at mine, I had some stuff at hers. I finished work early today and finally messaged her about sorting it out. There had been no contact of any kind for nearly 2 months. She came to the door and I said "You alright?" She just said "I've just come to give you this", and I said "thanks" and gave her her key and she just left. The whole thing lasted about 5 seconds, but it was devastating. I didn't expect small talk, but I thought she'd give a shit how I was doing. The worst part, she didn't even look at me. I feel worse now than I ever have. How can I spend a year with someone and make such little impact on their life, that they truly just don't give a shit. I am really struggling to cope. You might not think it now, and I know this might sound simplistic, but YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS. Love hurts mate and we all handle things different. I’m like you in the sense that the no small talk or even the no how are you kind of thing would hurt me. I’d want conversation just to be able to hold on to something. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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