Xela Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 (edited) I think the comments will always be skewed on here as it is a 99% male website. No doubt some men will play games as well. Edited July 7, 2019 by Xela Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RimmyJimmer Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 Villatalk is the home of the sweeping statement 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 34 minutes ago, Xela said: I think the comments will always be skewed on here as it is a 99% male website. No doubt some men will play games as well. Exactly. Yes there are some but I can guarantee the difference on the tinder would be significantly higher for women than men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 I've turned up at a gunfight with a knife, haven't I? I'll leave you boys to it. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 15 minutes ago, chrisp65 said: I've turned up at a gunfight with a knife, haven't I? I'll leave you boys to it. More like a spoon Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 2 hours ago, Demitri_C said: More like a spoon I was being nice. I knew you only had spoons. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A'Villan Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 Both sides make valid statements, from differing angles. @Demitri_C makes comment about tinder, well statistics show that he has a point. The most attractive men (I forget how that was measured) will still only receive a 'like' swipe on tinder from 20% of women. All women, even those that won't interest these men. Then, you take into a multitude of other factors and by the end of it all, long story short, even the best looking dudes are not getting laid as often as some may assume. I forgot the ins and outs of the article, but I do remember one clear point, and that was if you aren't that physically attractive on tinder, you're going to spend your time better elsewhere. Another focal point of the article was tinder was undoubtedly stacked in women's favour. Different ball game entirely. One has options in abundance, the other not so. You only have to look at instagram and the culture of young women on there to see his point. However placing a value judgement on their behaviour is one's own prerogative, that's how you feel about it and will only ever be as true as that. And that is where @chrisp65 comes in with a statement that should resonate with everybody. Unfortunately it doesn't. The angles are simply different, offering a perspective that reflects as much. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A'Villan Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 21 hours ago, AvfcRigo82 said: You bet. A bit of decency about her might have prompted a better txt to you but what do we expect from some females in this day and age. For the on looker shes not got off to the best of starts, okay shes gave some notice and in her defence it could have been family or work orientated. Wait to see what happens Tuesday, and if that doesn't happen then bye bye Sally imo. Oh you bet, as soon as it's clear she's not interested in a mutually beneficial dynamic, we're done. I just refuse to jump to conclusions, assume or pass judgement. Waste of my time. Intuition is telling me she will flake. Few signals have been there, but I've just contradicted my initial statement, ha! And that's why I can't pass judgement, I took a week to reply to one of her messages, I don't need to justify why, but it helps to understand how others perceive things. Relationship and feedback is what life is essentially, so a break down in communication, whatever the cause, I know can lead to preconceived notions getting the better of us. She was all about letting me know her values and mine aligned in the beginning. Instead of making value judgements or assumptions about women in general or this one in particular, however true, I would rather explore how she experienced things as well. That helps me to better understand myself and have a greater perspective. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Davkaus Posted July 8, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted July 8, 2019 I got engaged last night. It was as much a surprise to me as it was to anyone else. 20 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodders Posted July 8, 2019 Share Posted July 8, 2019 congratulations! Kids next 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 8, 2019 Share Posted July 8, 2019 2 hours ago, Davkaus said: I got engaged last night. It was as much a surprise to me as it was to anyone else. Congratulations brother... Although I'm guessing your other half proposed to you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Davkaus Posted July 8, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted July 8, 2019 31 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: Congratulations brother... Although I'm guessing your other half proposed to you? Not exactly. We just got very drunk in Brussels on some fine Belgian beer and had a very open conversation about how we thought things were going. This morning we nursed our hangovers and went ring shopping. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rjw63 Posted July 8, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted July 8, 2019 3 hours ago, Davkaus said: I got engaged last night. It was as much a surprise to me as it was to anyone else. I thought you didn't like her... 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tegis Posted July 8, 2019 VT Supporter Share Posted July 8, 2019 28 minutes ago, rjw63 said: I thought you didn't like her... I had to re-read the story, it's still epic 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFC_Hitz Posted July 8, 2019 Share Posted July 8, 2019 3 hours ago, rjw63 said: I thought you didn't like her... To be honest I 'kin would 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted July 9, 2019 Share Posted July 9, 2019 (edited) 14 hours ago, rjw63 said: I thought you didn't like her... What’s not to like . She’d be good for a piss or two. Edited July 9, 2019 by Rugeley Villa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AvfcRigo82 Posted July 9, 2019 Share Posted July 9, 2019 On 07/07/2019 at 17:55, A'Villan said: Oh you bet, as soon as it's clear she's not interested in a mutually beneficial dynamic, we're done. Did she turn up tonight? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted July 10, 2019 Share Posted July 10, 2019 Let’s hope he’s been too busy to let us know 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AvfcRigo82 Posted July 11, 2019 Share Posted July 11, 2019 On 10/07/2019 at 07:58, Rugeley Villa said: Let’s hope he’s been too busy to let us know Anyone seen @A'Villan? Wondering if he's been shagged to death or tied to some bedposts somewhere? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted July 11, 2019 Share Posted July 11, 2019 4 hours ago, AvfcRigo82 said: Anyone seen @A'Villan? Wondering if he's been shagged to death or tied to some bedposts somewhere? It’s a nice way to die that’s for sure. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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