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Marka Ragnos

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10 minutes ago, villa4europe said:

The meltdown my 1 year is having because his new shoes are still too big to wear is so absolutely **** mental it's crossed over in to being impressive 

My 8 year old is refusing to wear his new school trousers because they are not as soft as his old ones. I told him, if he wants to wear trousers about a inch too short that's fine, he dont care though. 😆

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We’re slowly adding solids to our 5 month old’s diet. He’s had carrot and pumpkin which he hated. A mix of carrot and apple was a little better but so far the best was @lapal_fan’s favourite food, mashed potatoes mixed with breast milk. He actually ate some of it. 

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14 minutes ago, Davkaus said:

In fairness to social services, I'm bloody impressed, within half a day they've called both of us, asked a lot of questions, reviewed the evidence of medical documentation we've got, confirmed there's no case to answer, and have given the nursery manager a bollocking for not only frivolous complaints but also not bothering to refer us months ago when they started writing this stuff down .

"lots of bruises to her forehead" - she has cerebral palsy and a wooden specialist highchair that physio have provided and agreed it's the lesser evil to have the odd boing to the head than never work on her head control/abdomen muscles

"She has been brought in covered in vomit" - she's literally just been hospitalised due to severe reflux requiring a surgical fix, and you know she vomited several times a day. Yes, she sometimes vomits in the car.

"She has nappy rash frequently" - and has short bowel syndrome and liquid stools, this is why she comes in covered in barrier cream and we provide some in the bag.

I don't object in principal - they have a duty to safeguard, and if it'd happened months ago I'd have said fair enough, but they've seen this stuff, done nothing about it, and then the day after we complain they refer us? Nothing else has triggered this, they've not even seen her in 3 weeks while she's been an inpatient. Vindictive bastards.

They sound like absolute words removed.

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Genuinely sorry to hear you (and more importantly, your daughter) are going through this.

As long as she is happy (as she can be, given her struggles in and out of hospitals), that's the main thing 😔

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16 hours ago, Davkaus said:

For about 2 months (hospital admissions excepted) one of me or the other half have had to take time out from work to feed our kid at nursery each day because their only member of staff trained to use her feed pump is on long term leave and they're had such little urgency over the last year in getting someone else trained, there's now nobody to do it.

Yesterday we started throwing around terms like "reasonable accommodations" and "equality act" to try and get them to get a move on.

This morning they reported us to social services with 2 pages of "concerns" dating back to August that they've sat on for 6 months, but suddenly feel are a safeguarding issue. The words removed just find us enough of a pain they want us to leave. I'm absolutely livid.

Fair play to social services for following it up quick but **** me that’s disgusting from the nursery 

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On 06/04/2024 at 15:13, PieFacE said:

My kid has started to like watching Mr Tumble and I don't know how I feel about it. Dude freaks me out.

stop freaking out Pieface @lapal_fan!

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