MakemineVanilla Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 Sounds to me like he's scared that he'll wind up alone, either that or he's a glutton for punishment. It is difficult to make a judgement because we don't know how miserable he was being single. A lot of guys just can't hack the single life and being alone makes them miserable and desperate. Guys in that sort of state would sign up for any deal no matter how unfair and imbalanced it was. Women talk about weddings and shit but I think guys are the real soppy bastards. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 There are some people out there who can't stand being single, you're right, but I think that's a symptom of a deeper problem and being in a relationship isn't necessarily the right answer. They should probably go and talk to someone about why they feel that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 He'll be the guy that was a timid little cuckold at home and looked like a beaten downtrodden loser. Imagine everyone's surprise when it turns out he was the local kinky escort serial killer. Just a theory Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8pints Posted October 2, 2014 Share Posted October 2, 2014 To get this thread back on topic, my friend with the girlfriend that is has cheated on him and has a kid that isn't his, are moving in the weekend. We all suspect she will be pregnant within 6-9 months time and his life is over. He's 25, she's 20 they've been going out on and off 2 years. I think part of the problem was she was so young and getting pregnant at 15 meant she never really had those wild nights out you do as as 16/17/18 year old but I think she has been making up for lost time since she started going out with my friend. She seems to have copped on a bit since her latest discretion when she went to Dublin for a marathon in April and ended up in bed with some fella she ran it with, my friend was devastated but told her if it happens again he was gone ( yeah right ) but since then she seems to have calmed down a bit, I think he thinks if they move in she won't be out as much and he won't have to worry. She's still taking him to the cleaners though, met him for lunch this week and he tells me that he's paying all the rent because she got some paint and bits and pieces for the house so has to fork over €560 tomorrow as a months rent and deposit, then trying to defend it goes she's getting all the food and stuff, but because he is finished at half 5 and she's not finished till 6 that he's doing all the cooking. Since leaving Limerick and getting a job at home he's been around a whole lot more and seemed to be coming round to the idea that his girlfriend wasn't all that but this latest news is a massive blow. He's a lost cause. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrackpotForeigner Posted October 3, 2014 Share Posted October 3, 2014 even if women have gained equality, as some claim on here, gay folk obviously have a long road ahead. Not necessarily a long road ahead, but certainly an uphill struggle. (too much?) 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Pangloss Posted October 6, 2014 Share Posted October 6, 2014 I lol'd Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyM3000 Posted October 7, 2014 Share Posted October 7, 2014 It genuinely amazes me when I read some of the posts in this thread, I just don't understand situations like that at all. Relationships are supposed to enhance your life, not destroy it. I can understand it more if she is a 9/9.5 and he's batting way out his league. Other than that though I can't think of a reason. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
YLN Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 (edited) I was seeing this girl. She was alright, but I dunno. And then she said she wasn't, so I thought. I text her asking her if she was alright, but she didn't reply and now I'm wondering if I should text her again, or maybe she's pregnant. Ah never mind. I'll just give her a ring. Edited October 17, 2014 by yillan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted October 17, 2014 Share Posted October 17, 2014 I bet she was a munter lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
samjp26 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 (edited) My missus broke up with me, seems permanent as well. Shit times indeed, especially when you haven't done anything wrong and everything seemed fine. Trying to remain focused on uni etcetera is pretty difficult right now. Edited October 19, 2014 by samjp26 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Pangloss Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 My missus broke up with me, seems permanent as well. Shit times indeed, especially when you haven't done anything wrong and everything seemed fine. Trying to remain focused on uni etcetera is pretty difficult right now. Sorry to hear that. You know at your age there's little point getting caught up in women, young women are emotionally immature and do not really know what they want, you're better of biding your time and playing the field. If that's any consolation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 I broke up with my missus and am enjoying Tinder and the like properly for the first time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 things are pretty good at the moment for me and a lot of that is down to the fact that her indoors is happy. were engaged now so she feels more secure etc etc, our sex life is still up and down but thats down to me but yeah were doing ok. be glad to get that spark back like we used to have in the early part of our relationship but im guessing that goes in a lot of relationships. the kids are happy which is great too which adds to the whole family life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 I only know one couple that survived uni. People change too much between 18-25 for long term relationships to make any sense imo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vive_La_Villa Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 My missus broke up with me, seems permanent as well. Shit times indeed, especially when you haven't done anything wrong and everything seemed fine. Trying to remain focused on uni etcetera is pretty difficult right now. Sorry to hear that. You know at your age there's little point getting caught up in women, young women are emotionally immature and do not really know what they want, you're better of biding your time and playing the field. If that's any consolation. Women will always be emotionally insecure. Only difference is their options become more limited as they get older. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 I broke up with my missus and am enjoying Tinder and the like properly for the first time I thought tinder was crap personally Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post MakemineVanilla Posted October 19, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted October 19, 2014 My missus broke up with me, seems permanent as well. Shit times indeed, especially when you haven't done anything wrong and everything seemed fine. Trying to remain focused on uni etcetera is pretty difficult right now. Sorry to hear that. You know at your age there's little point getting caught up in women, young women are emotionally immature and do not really know what they want, you're better of biding your time and playing the field. If that's any consolation. Women will always be emotionally insecure. Only difference is their options become more limited as they get older. I wouldn't put it quite like that. Modern women tend to ride the cock carousel while they get their degree and build a career, and then when they reach their thirties, they feel the biological clock ticking and they have to confront the problems associated with their hypergamy because the alpha males prefer younger women. So they usually have to settle for the sort of decent guy they had spent the previous two decades rejecting. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vive_La_Villa Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 My missus broke up with me, seems permanent as well. Shit times indeed, especially when you haven't done anything wrong and everything seemed fine. Trying to remain focused on uni etcetera is pretty difficult right now. Sorry to hear that. You know at your age there's little point getting caught up in women, young women are emotionally immature and do not really know what they want, you're better of biding your time and playing the field. If that's any consolation. Women will always be emotionally insecure. Only difference is their options become more limited as they get older. I wouldn't put it quite like that. Modern women tend to ride the cock carousel while they get their degree and build a career, and then when they reach their thirties, they feel the biological clock ticking and they have to confront the problems associated with their hypergamy because the alpha males prefer younger women. So they usually have to settle for the sort of decent guy they had spent the previous two decades rejecting. Beautifully put my friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 our sex life is still up and down 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCforever1991 Posted October 19, 2014 Share Posted October 19, 2014 (edited) My missus broke up with me, seems permanent as well. Shit times indeed, especially when you haven't done anything wrong and everything seemed fine. Trying to remain focused on uni etcetera is pretty difficult right now. Sorry to hear that. You know at your age there's little point getting caught up in women, young women are emotionally immature and do not really know what they want, you're better of biding your time and playing the field. If that's any consolation. Women will always be emotionally insecure. Only difference is their options become more limited as they get older. I wouldn't put it quite like that. Modern women tend to ride the cock carousel while they get their degree and build a career, and then when they reach their thirties, they feel the biological clock ticking and they have to confront the problems associated with their hypergamy because the alpha males prefer younger women. So they usually have to settle for the sort of decent guy they had spent the previous two decades rejecting. I always read your posts in Sheldon's voice Edited October 19, 2014 by AVFCforever1991 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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