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7 minutes ago, tonyh29 said:

My daughter does drama at some weekend theatre club and they put a play on end of each term in a local theatre for parents ,family etc  

The play was about an hour 15 mins long , seems that 90% of the parents can't  manage this without a glass of wine or a beer 

Don't get me wrong I'm not anti alcohol ,I don't get this notion that people have to drink the second they go anywhere  , more so if it involves supporting their children. 

 

My parents are dreadful. Always have, always will be. I was in the school play one year and managed to get them there to watch me, they hadn't done parents evenings so it was a shock that they were there. At the interval they popped to the pub, never to return. It was expected. 

 

My daughter many years later at the same school was in the chorus of Annie. I went to a all shows, it was **** dreadful but regardless I went to them all. No alcohol. 

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1 hour ago, tonyh29 said:

My daughter does drama at some weekend theatre club and they put a play on end of each term in a local theatre for parents ,family etc  

The play was about an hour 15 mins long , seems that 90% of the parents can't  manage this without a glass of wine or a beer 

Don't get me wrong I'm not anti alcohol ,I don't get this notion that people have to drink the second they go anywhere  , more so if it involves supporting their children. 

 

Alcohol at a children’s play would be completely unheard of in Norway. A complete non-starter. When and where alcohol is socially acceptable is such a defining distinction between the UK and Norway. It’s very fascinating. 

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24 minutes ago, El Zen said:

Alcohol at a children’s play would be completely unheard of in Norway. A complete non-starter. When and where alcohol is socially acceptable is such a defining distinction between the UK and Norway. It’s very fascinating. 

I bet you can drink in your seat at the football though

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I don't see the problem with enjoying a drink if you're going to be there for a while watching a performance, then having a chat with the other parents, etc.

I'd certainly not be having several, or putting going to the pub ahead of supporting my kid, but a pint as a bit of social lubricant doesn't strike me as a problem. I'm aided by being a beer snob though, most of the time I wouldn't touch the shit they serve at these kind of places anyway :)

It's something I'll have to be conscious of as a new parent rather than being a single, selfish bloke who can do what I want, but I think I'm comfortable that I can set a good example while occasionally having a drink with a meal or out doing something. I absolutely don't want her seeing me drunk though.

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5 minutes ago, Wainy316 said:

I bet you can drink in your seat at the football though

Nope! Can’t even buy a drink in the stadium. I had a brief chat with an English bloke before a game earlier in the year, it was his first ever game in Norway, who was in absolute disbelief at that fact. He just couldn’t wrap his head around not being able to get a beer at the football. 

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49 minutes ago, El Zen said:

You have to remember, this is a country that practiced prohibition in the 1920s. 

Before that you guys knew how to party .  Odin loved a drink.  

You should be able to get mead 24/7 ,  not pay for it and get the cashier pregnant in the process.

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4 hours ago, tonyh29 said:

My daughter does drama at some weekend theatre club and they put a play on end of each term in a local theatre for parents ,family etc  

The play was about an hour 15 mins long , seems that 90% of the parents can't  manage this without a glass of wine or a beer 

Don't get me wrong I'm not anti alcohol ,I don't get this notion that people have to drink the second they go anywhere  , more so if it involves supporting their children. 

A lad I used to work with was a big rugby player, he'd had a day at a rugby do followed by a night watching his missus doing some am dram event 

He got escorted out for heckling her thinking it was funny 

10 year relationship down the drain

Also in Germany you can get a bottle of beer just about anywhere, they'll also have radler (shandy) and 0% bottles but they'll drink it like it's an alternative to cola, 1 beer every 3 hours as a cold drink, wouldn't get drunk but they'd think nothing of drinking 

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5 hours ago, tonyh29 said:

Don't get me wrong I'm not anti alcohol ,I don't get this notion that people have to drink the second they go anywhere  , more so if it involves supporting their children. 

 

I always think the same about airports and planes. No real need to sell booze. I know its 'tradition' to neck 8 pints at 5am in the BHX spoons before flying to Alicante, but I'd ban it 

Maybe serve the odd drink on the flight at a push, but thats about it. 

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5 hours ago, El Zen said:

Alcohol at a children’s play would be completely unheard of in Norway. A complete non-starter. When and where alcohol is socially acceptable is such a defining distinction between the UK and Norway. It’s very fascinating. 

It’s money in the bank for the PTA. My ex had a kid and her school couldn’t organise enough parents-only events because they made a killing at the bar. 

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2 minutes ago, Xela said:

I always think the same about airports and planes. No real need to sell booze. I know its 'tradition' to neck 8 pints at 5am in the BHX spoons before flying to Alicante, but I'd ban it 

Maybe serve the odd drink on the flight at a push, but thats about it. 

That just reminded me of as story from a flight to America in the early '90s

Flight attendant comes around to see if we want a drink

"yeah sure, what beers have you got"

"We've got Z, Y and Z(American beers) or... we've actually got *revered tone* Heineken on board today"

"Anything but Heineken, thats stuffs awful, give me your favourite of the American ones"

Flight attendant looks crestfalled

It was explained to me later that Americans love a proper European beer and Heineken at the time was considered to be the best of the best

(I realised why after a few days of drinking pissy weak 3% beers everywhere I went)

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We're back to the 'two approaches to alcohol' debate again. 

Forgive me if I'm putting words in your mouth, @tonyh29, but you do seem to take the approach that routine consumption of small quantities of alcohol is a somehow a bad thing, while getting absolutely slaughtered in occasional massive binges is perfectly OK. I take the exact opposite view. A glass of wine or a beer with a meal, or at a social gathering (even a school play) seems perfectly natural behaviour to me. I'm not talking about getting drunk around kids, but then I don't drink to get drunk. I don't even like being drunk (after the first buzz), but I do love a nice wine, ale or malt whisky. 

(Personally, I'd ban the consumption of cola in front of kids, it's a far more pernicious habit).  ;)

 

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