Rds1983 Posted February 26, 2022 VT Supporter Share Posted February 26, 2022 34 minutes ago, El Zen said: We are gentlemen after all. Think I missed that announcement. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villan-scott Posted February 27, 2022 VT Supporter Share Posted February 27, 2022 On 26/02/2022 at 06:09, A'Villan said: To date, my romantic life has, for the most part, been non existent or tragic. About to leave for a date with a girl who seems great. It's always the one's who inspire hope that are the most challenging. Only because you begin to look at yourself in ways that perhaps you hadn't. I'm all good. Hopefully it's that way and even better by evening's end. Wish me luck. Hope it went well for you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post A'Villan Posted February 28, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted February 28, 2022 9 hours ago, villan-scott said: Hope it went well for you Thank you. Best date I've had. She said the same. 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villan-scott Posted February 28, 2022 VT Supporter Share Posted February 28, 2022 18 minutes ago, A'Villan said: Thank you. Best date I've had. She said the same. Good to hear man. Really good to hear! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted February 28, 2022 Share Posted February 28, 2022 1 hour ago, A'Villan said: Thank you. Best date I've had. She said the same. Does that mean DHUTWU for date number 2? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post lapal_fan Posted February 28, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted February 28, 2022 3 hours ago, A'Villan said: Thank you. Best date I've had. She said the same. 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted February 28, 2022 Share Posted February 28, 2022 6 hours ago, lapal_fan said: Brilliant 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A'Villan Posted March 5, 2022 Share Posted March 5, 2022 On 28/02/2022 at 18:55, Demitri_C said: Does that mean DHUTWU for date number 2? We'll see where it goes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Tegis Posted March 5, 2022 VT Supporter Popular Post Share Posted March 5, 2022 5 minutes ago, A'Villan said: We'll see where it goes. Blame it on poor aiming 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A'Villan Posted March 5, 2022 Share Posted March 5, 2022 On 28/02/2022 at 18:09, villan-scott said: Good to hear man. Really good to hear! Thanks for this. I don't want to make regular announcements or draw special attention but it's certainly nice to have people glad to see me have some success, regardless of how minor it may be. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
A'Villan Posted March 5, 2022 Share Posted March 5, 2022 1 minute ago, Tegis said: Blame it on poor aiming One thing is for certain, that VT will be appropriate in inappropriately seeing that anything said that can be possibly turned into comical innuendo, should and will. @rjw63 the magician is doing his Hudini act for the time being, perhaps. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villan-scott Posted March 5, 2022 VT Supporter Share Posted March 5, 2022 5 minutes ago, A'Villan said: Thanks for this. I don't want to make regular announcements or draw special attention but it's certainly nice to have people glad to see me have some success, regardless of how minor it may be. It’s no problem. I have read a lot of your posts and understand you’ve not had things easy. To read about you having this connection brings a smile to my face even though I’m the other side of the world! Good luck! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreveryoung Posted March 5, 2022 Share Posted March 5, 2022 On 28/02/2022 at 06:50, A'Villan said: Thank you. Best date I've had. She said she came. Fixed for you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rjw63 Posted March 5, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted March 5, 2022 2 hours ago, A'Villan said: One thing is for certain, that VT will be appropriate in inappropriately seeing that anything said that can be possibly turned into comical innuendo, should and will. @rjw63 the magician is doing his Hudini act for the time being, perhaps. Take any pics, he asked him knowingly? 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted March 8, 2022 VT Supporter Share Posted March 8, 2022 1 minute ago, El Zen said: So, anyone have any advice on how to give forgiveness? Or if one should? Asking for a friend Buying beer always works for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted March 8, 2022 Share Posted March 8, 2022 37 minutes ago, El Zen said: So, anyone have any advice on how to give forgiveness? Or if one should? Asking for a friend You’re gonna have to give us some more detail. Did she not tell you about the credit card bill or shag your brother? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted March 8, 2022 Share Posted March 8, 2022 1 minute ago, El Zen said: Considerably closer to the latter. (Just not my brother.) My life is in totalt ruins, tbh. I have no idea what to do. I’m really sorry to hear this buddy. All I can add is that whilst it undoubtedly hurts, your life isn’t in ruins. You’ll bounce back stronger. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted March 8, 2022 Share Posted March 8, 2022 3 minutes ago, El Zen said: We have a child and just learned we’re pregnant again. The shit happened a couple of years ago, but I only had confirmation of it last night. I have no idea how to deal with the situation. An old secret then. What's your biggest problem, the fact it happened or the fact it was covered up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted March 8, 2022 Share Posted March 8, 2022 10 minutes ago, El Zen said: I’m not sure if I should even talk about this. It’s extremely humiliating to type out all of this. I just need to vent, and this is the only place I can think of where I can talk about my pain without making my life worse. I just need as many people as possible to feel sorry for myself, I guess. She’s genuinely devastated, but I’m not sure I can forgive and fall back in love with someone who has betrayed me so brutally. But it’s either that or the end of my marriage, and all that involves for my kid(s). It’s all very raw, nobody expects you to just forgive and forget immediately. I’d suggesting just hanging in there for a little while. Distancing yourself from the OH and see how you both feel when the dust settles over the next days. Setup the TV and Xbox in the spare room and be there for the current child. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post WhatAboutTheFinish Posted March 8, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted March 8, 2022 I'm working off limited info here but for what limited worth my opinion holds...here it is! If she slept with someone once (drunk or at a work event etc) and immediately regretted it and tried to cover it up. My advice is to suck it up (even if its painful) and try to get over it. Particularly if all has been well between you since. People make mistakes, if you love her you can forgive her. The lies may well have been what she deemed the best course of action to protect you from the hurt as much as herself. If on the other hand she was involved in some huge long standing affair (months or years) behind your back, this may be a bigger problem as it reveals more about her true character. You have to ask yourself if this is really the type of person you want to be with. Finally, and this may be contrary to to other advice. Whatever you do, do it for yourself. Don't use the kids as a screen or reasoning for your decision making. Long term, what is best for you, will be best for the kids. 7 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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