Follyfoot Posted September 21, 2021 VT Supporter Share Posted September 21, 2021 Asking for a friend....... He is in a loving caring relationship and really happy. His wife has just gone through the change and is on tablets for it and as a combination of the two has completely lost her sex drive. They have discussed the situation and she has no objection to him getting it elsewhere until her libido returns as long as he is discreet and careful and it is not with her younger sister (sigh) or one of her friends. He feels even though she has been so understanding it would be an act of betrayal to take her up on her offer but needs his release. Has anyone been in this situation or could maybe offer some advice I can give him as I am at a loss as to what to say. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Silvers Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 2 minutes ago, Follyfoot said: Asking for a friend....... He is in a loving caring relationship and really happy. His wife has just gone through the change and is on tablets for it and as a combination of the two has completely lost her sex drive. They have discussed the situation and she has no objection to him getting it elsewhere until her libido returns as long as he is discreet and careful and it is not with her younger sister (sigh) or one of her friends. He feels even though she has been so understanding it would be an act of betrayal to take her up on her offer but needs his release. Has anyone been in this situation or could maybe offer some advice I can give him as I am at a loss as to what to say. Just wait ya selfish ******* 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 1 minute ago, Follyfoot said: Asking for a friend....... He is in a loving caring relationship and really happy. His wife has just gone through the change and is on tablets for it and as a combination of the two has completely lost her sex drive. They have discussed the situation and she has no objection to him getting it elsewhere until her libido returns as long as he is discreet and careful and it is not with her younger sister (sigh) or one of her friends. He feels even though she has been so understanding it would be an act of betrayal to take her up on her offer but needs his release. Has anyone been in this situation or could maybe offer some advice I can give him as I am at a loss as to what to say. If he loves her lots, I'd tell him to get a fleshlight and a bigger computer monitor. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Follyfoot Posted September 21, 2021 VT Supporter Share Posted September 21, 2021 If Carlsberg did expected responses by poster..................................... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 1) it’s a trap 2) just wait / do it yourself a bit more often Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted September 21, 2021 VT Supporter Share Posted September 21, 2021 9 minutes ago, Follyfoot said: Asking for a friend....... He is in a loving caring relationship and really happy. His wife has just gone through the change and is on tablets for it and as a combination of the two has completely lost her sex drive. They have discussed the situation and she has no objection to him getting it elsewhere until her libido returns as long as he is discreet and careful and it is not with her younger sister (sigh) or one of her friends. He feels even though she has been so understanding it would be an act of betrayal to take her up on her offer but needs his release. Has anyone been in this situation or could maybe offer some advice I can give him as I am at a loss as to what to say. Take it from me, it's not worth it. Just have a wank ffs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Ingram85 Posted September 21, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2021 **** the sister. 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post theboyangel Posted September 21, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2021 1 minute ago, Ingram85 said: **** the sister. DTSUTWU! 1 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Genie Posted September 21, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2021 The fact she had to stipulate you can’t shag her sister or her friends says she has a very high opinion of you 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theboyangel Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 Looking elsewhere will undoubtedly lead to some resentment by your ‘friends’ wife. Its not worth it - go and knock one out! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 I'm not sure "but you said it was ok" is going to go down if (when) she changes her mind and feels betrayed, so the safest bet is taking her up on it but lying about it, not only getting his end away but appearing to be a caring and considerate husband. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 18 minutes ago, Follyfoot said: Asking for a friend....... He is in a loving caring relationship and really happy. His wife has just gone through the change and is on tablets for it and as a combination of the two has completely lost her sex drive. They have discussed the situation and she has no objection to him getting it elsewhere until her libido returns as long as he is discreet and careful and it is not with her younger sister (sigh) or one of her friends. He feels even though she has been so understanding it would be an act of betrayal to take her up on her offer but needs his release. Has anyone been in this situation or could maybe offer some advice I can give him as I am at a loss as to what to say. You could also play "Cock Hero" and see how long you can last. Plenty of videos are available (I think). Google is your friend if you are puzzled. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 Also, if “his mate” starts shagging some other woman there’s a fair chance he’ll start to get feelings for her. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Silvers Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 Call Delboy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 How does "your mate" know anyone else is gonna want to shag him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Seat68 Posted September 21, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted September 21, 2021 It feels, if what Follyfoot is describing is to be took as true, my wife has been going through the change for the last 18 years. 1 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Follyfoot Posted September 21, 2021 VT Supporter Share Posted September 21, 2021 7 minutes ago, Wainy316 said: How does "your mate" know anyone else is gonna want to shag him? Successful guy, good looking has turned down dozens of offers from female staff (And the fact his misses was a co director) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 6 minutes ago, Seat68 said: It feels, if what Follyfoot is describing is to be took as true, my wife has been going through the change for the last 18 years. Cos you’ve been shagging her sister? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HanoiVillan Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 56 minutes ago, Follyfoot said: Asking for a friend....... He is in a loving caring relationship and really happy. His wife has just gone through the change and is on tablets for it and as a combination of the two has completely lost her sex drive. They have discussed the situation and she has no objection to him getting it elsewhere until her libido returns as long as he is discreet and careful and it is not with her younger sister (sigh) or one of her friends. He feels even though she has been so understanding it would be an act of betrayal to take her up on her offer but needs his release. Has anyone been in this situation or could maybe offer some advice I can give him as I am at a loss as to what to say. The key is in bold. If the situation has been really and frankly discussed (not one person hinting at it but not really and trying to maintain plausible deniability later, but actually cards-on-the-table discussed) then this person has permission, and should feel free to use it. Slightly disappointed at the number of responses saying this person shouldn't go through with it. Real relationships are complicated, and lifelong monogamy isn't for everybody. The wife may be doing the best that she can to help preserve the long-term future of the relationship by giving permission, and the long-term future of the relationship might be better secured if the husband does have sex with others, as long as they are clear and upfront about what they are doing. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seat68 Posted September 21, 2021 Share Posted September 21, 2021 16 minutes ago, Genie said: Cos you’ve been shagging her sister? I shudder at the thought. She has three sisters, all younger, all ropey. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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