Ginko Posted April 7, 2017 Share Posted April 7, 2017 (edited) She is very nice but totally in limbo regarding her life currently. Not that it matters, I don't have a choice in starting a relationship with her anyway. Like Alex said, moving to London will make things easier, though I will miss her a lot and hanging out with her. It's not the first time I've been in this sort of position though. I got past it once and I'll do it again I'm sure. Be nice to meet someone who had their shit together so we could just focus on getting it on but that's life I guess. Edited April 7, 2017 by Ginko 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Davkaus Posted April 17, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted April 17, 2017 On 3/14/2017 at 23:48, Davkaus said: I had a spare ticket to a comedy show tonight, that some woman listed as her favourite comedian. I thought **** it, and just invited her without talking to her much at all. For some reason, she said yes, and as well as being more stunning than she was in her photos, she's a midwife (career sorted in her twenties, smart girl!), from the same town as me a couple of hours away, knows some of my friends, and has agreed to a second date already. I'm not expecting much yet, I've got burnt by getting overly optimistic about women really quickly, but that was a surprisingly good night. Heh. It's only been a month...We've just booked flights and a hotel for a weekend in Venice. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted April 17, 2017 Share Posted April 17, 2017 This is no place for happy stories! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 21 hours ago, Davkaus said: Heh. It's only been a month...We've just booked flights and a hotel for a weekend in Venice. Will there be any ... (seeks @rjw63 catchphrase insertion here) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 Meh, it's not my thing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PieFacE Posted April 18, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted April 18, 2017 So..... has anyone ever had to deal with the issue of their other half putting on a bit too much timber at all? And how do you approach it? Ultimately, it's irrelevant and doesn't matter. But at 3 stone weight gain in 1 year is some going.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dom_Wren Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 3 minutes ago, PieFacE said: So..... has anyone ever had to deal with the issue of their other half putting on a bit too much timber at all? And how do you approach it? Ultimately, it's irrelevant and doesn't matter. But at 3 stone weight gain in 1 year is some going.... come on babe, its all muscle.....but ill try and shift soem for you xoxo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 1 hour ago, PieFacE said: So..... has anyone ever had to deal with the issue of their other half putting on a bit too much timber at all? And how do you approach it? Ultimately, it's irrelevant and doesn't matter. But at 3 stone weight gain in 1 year is some going.... It must matter or you wouldn't mention it here 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodders Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 1 hour ago, PieFacE said: So..... has anyone ever had to deal with the issue of their other half putting on a bit too much timber at all? And how do you approach it? Ultimately, it's irrelevant and doesn't matter. But at 3 stone weight gain in 1 year is some going.... Congratulations on triplets! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodders Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 But i do sympathise. My other half is already obese and I try to encourage her desires to be healthier but its tough when they continue to eat shit and find excuses to avoid walking more. Recently we went for a walk to visit a castle. Was no more than a 30 minute hike but it took over an hour to persuade her to get up there and even then she settled for reaching a peak. She refused to go any further to actually visit the castle. Really pissed me off. Also grating is then when she has tge nerve to complain about her weight. **** DO SOMETHING then 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HanoiVillan Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 2 hours ago, PieFacE said: So..... has anyone ever had to deal with the issue of their other half putting on a bit too much timber at all? And how do you approach it? Ultimately, it's irrelevant and doesn't matter. But at 3 stone weight gain in 1 year is some going.... Do you go to the gym? If not, I recommend joining and seeing if guilt drives her to join you. That's what my missus does to me, anyway Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 Maybe you guys should just swap partners 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HanoiVillan Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 50 minutes ago, Davkaus said: Maybe you guys should just swap partners Nah, mine's plump as well, she's just less lazy than me 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 3 hours ago, PieFacE said: So..... has anyone ever had to deal with the issue of their other half putting on a bit too much timber at all? And how do you approach it? Ultimately, it's irrelevant and doesn't matter. But at 3 stone weight gain in 1 year is some going.... "Put the pie down porky chops and have some celery" No? I guess I can see why I'm single! I jest of course, is conscious of it? Does she mention it to you? my weight fluctuates... i've been 15 stone (fatty) and i've been 9 and a half stone (AIDS victim)... within a year or two of each other as an adult. My best weight is about 12 stone but I'm over that at the minute. It does creep up on you. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 38 minutes ago, Xela said: "Put the pie down porky chops and have some celery" No? I guess I can see why I'm single! I jest of course, is conscious of it? Does she mention it to you? my weight fluctuates... i've been 15 stone (fatty) and i've been 9 and a half stone (AIDS victim)... within a year or two of each other as an adult. My best weight is about 12 stone but I'm over that at the minute. It does creep up on you. That proper cracked me up 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 Tell her your joining slimming world and maybe you could join together to encourage each other? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 5 hours ago, PieFacE said: So..... has anyone ever had to deal with the issue of their other half putting on a bit too much timber at all? And how do you approach it? Ultimately, it's irrelevant and doesn't matter. But at 3 stone weight gain in 1 year is some going.... Putting a lot of weight on quickly can have physiological causes (endocrines) but it can also be caused by emotional problems leading to comfort eating. It needs discussing but don't mention her weight, ask about how she is feeling, or its likely that she could be already telling you and you have to listen more carefully. I think nagging someone about their weight is emotional abuse and is always counterproductive. So I would say tread very carefully. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted April 18, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted April 18, 2017 Be honest. She probably hasn't noticed. That can happen. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stuart_75 Posted April 18, 2017 Share Posted April 18, 2017 (edited) Bin her and find a skinny chick. On the other hand, you can take the advice from @MakemineVanilla Edited April 18, 2017 by stuart_75 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TrentVilla Posted April 18, 2017 Moderator Share Posted April 18, 2017 7 hours ago, PieFacE said: So..... has anyone ever had to deal with the issue of their other half putting on a bit too much timber at all? And how do you approach it? With your arms open wide? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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