Ingram85 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 That the mahoosive giant spiders are getting more brazen and starting to run around my flat in the open more. I swear I've just had to get rid of someone's escaped bird eater!!!! Massive flipping thing, possibly THE biggest normal spider I've ever seen. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
V01 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 Come home from work this afternoon to the wife in tears, she's pregnant from the only time we've had sex in ages. She tries to push the decision on to me as I'm trying to be supportive and find out what she wants, eventually she comes out and says she doesn't want it. Fair enough, probably the best decision given the circumstances. I was 50/50 on it, maybe 60/40 against. Came to bed tonight and she asks if I'd leave her if she kept it. WTF we've been married 9 years and I've always been faithful so I don't know where she gets that idea and way to spin me through a loop when I've got an early start in the morning. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 I'm guessing she may be more than a little hormonal and emotional at the moment perhaps dude? Just be there for her chap. Just out of curiosity, and tell me to bugger off if you need to, why do you both not want to keep it? Why would she change her mind? You both happy together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PompeyVillan Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 The "Watches" and "Car" threads. To me, both functional pieces of technology , it perplexes me that folk would choose to spend such a large proportion of their hard earned money on stuff that impacts their quality of life minimally. So add to that my own hypocrisy as I consider spending a shed load of money on an electric guitar. Yeah...but I want it. 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phumfeinz Posted August 28, 2017 Share Posted August 28, 2017 3 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: The queuing at Alton towers today. I mean, it's a summer bank holiday. What did you expect? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
V01 Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 7 hours ago, Ingram85 said: I'm guessing she may be more than a little hormonal and emotional at the moment perhaps dude? Just be there for her chap. Just out of curiosity, and tell me to bugger off if you need to, why do you both not want to keep it? Why would she change her mind? You both happy together? Already have a 6 year old, We don't have room, I started a new job 6 months ago, She'll be 40 when it's due, We can't really afford another one, and all the upheaval that a pregnancy/another child brings. Don't know Things aren't perfect by any stretch but we're content. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted August 29, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted August 29, 2017 7 hours ago, PompeyVillan said: The "Watches" and "Car" threads. To me, both functional pieces of technology , it perplexes me that folk would choose to spend such a large proportion of their hard earned money on stuff that impacts their quality of life minimally. So add to that my own hypocrisy as I consider spending a shed load of money on an electric guitar. Yeah...but I want it. Ah, not just me, then. Totally agree (even down to the guitar). 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RimmyJimmer Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 1 hour ago, V01 said: Already have a 6 year old, We don't have room, I started a new job 6 months ago, She'll be 40 when it's due, We can't really afford another one, and all the upheaval that a pregnancy/another child brings. Don't know Things aren't perfect by any stretch but we're content. I'm no expert on these things but I don't think there ever is a perfect time to have a child. My first is due in 4 weeks, I'm 44, my mrs has 2 lads, we've just moved into a bigger house and the contract I've been working on finishes in october. I've got/had real concerns and sleepless nights. I think sometimes you have to take a leap of faith and hope things work out...bit nerve wracking I know but it's what life is sometimes. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 8 hours ago, Phumfeinz said: I mean, it's a summer bank holiday. What did you expect? Massive military blunder on the scale of Anzio. I should of known better. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 (edited) Never a right time to have kids really, although some would disagree. We were trying for ages but had no luck for whatever reason. We had broken up and had been apart for two weeks which was long for us. I'm on sofa chilling out at my mums and I get the phone call. 'Get you're ***** arse round here now' I thought eh up, what has she heard about me. To cut a long story short she was pregnant and the following day we were back together. Second one was planned so nowt to talk about there third came as a big shock and we was going to get rid, but in the end couldn't face it. We really didn't want no more because we were more than content with two. Anyway we wouldn't change it for the world and cannot imagine life without the little sod. House ain't big enough but it'll do, and yes it's more expense, but it's hardly bankrupting us. Enjoy it whilst it lasts. Edited August 29, 2017 by Rugeley Villa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 12 hours ago, V01 said: Come home from work this afternoon to the wife in tears, she's pregnant from the only time we've had sex in ages. She tries to push the decision on to me as I'm trying to be supportive and find out what she wants, eventually she comes out and says she doesn't want it. Fair enough, probably the best decision given the circumstances. I was 50/50 on it, maybe 60/40 against. Came to bed tonight and she asks if I'd leave her if she kept it. WTF we've been married 9 years and I've always been faithful so I don't know where she gets that idea and way to spin me through a loop when I've got an early start in the morning. Women are funny creatures at the best of times. Hope you make the best decision for yous as a couple whatever that may be. More so for women, but it's one hell of a rollercoaster pregnancy is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 14 hours ago, V01 said: Come home from work this afternoon to the wife in tears, she's pregnant from the only time we've had sex in ages. She tries to push the decision on to me as I'm trying to be supportive and find out what she wants, eventually she comes out and says she doesn't want it. Fair enough, probably the best decision given the circumstances. I was 50/50 on it, maybe 60/40 against. Came to bed tonight and she asks if I'd leave her if she kept it. WTF we've been married 9 years and I've always been faithful so I don't know where she gets that idea and way to spin me through a loop when I've got an early start in the morning. Is there a hint in there that you think she might have played away? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
V01 Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 Nope. Pretty stressed at the minute, not up to the sleepless nights et al that go with having a child. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nigel Posted August 29, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted August 29, 2017 On 27/08/2017 at 19:06, terrytini said: Wasp just landed in my coffee. This would be more applicable in a wasps version of villa talk! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted August 29, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted August 29, 2017 16 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: The queuing at Alton towers today. I love Alton Towers. But you couldn't pay me to go on a bank holiday Monday. Insanity. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 2 hours ago, Stevo985 said: I love Alton Towers. But you couldn't pay me to go on a bank holiday Monday. Insanity. It was a stupid idea tbf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 The fact people think you are a bit odd if you don't want to settle down and have kids. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 2 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: It was a stupid idea tbf. Maybe it was a cunning plan that you hoped everyone else would think it was insanity to go and it would actually be empty? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 1 hour ago, Xela said: Maybe it was a cunning plan that you hoped everyone else would think it was insanity to go and it would actually be empty? Give me some credit will you I'm not that bright. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jimzk5 Posted August 29, 2017 Share Posted August 29, 2017 The west indies beat england on day 3 of third test in the 5 game series in the T20 1 day international ashes. Ino other words England couldn't hit the the ball with a bat that isn't really a sport. I **** hate cricket Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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