lapal_fan Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 11 minutes ago, choffer said: I think it's similar (to an extent) to how we now understand depression. "The world is black, my life is black, there is no possibility of any joy in my life." That's your brain telling you lies. In the same way, a lot of people have a dysfunctional view of themselves aesthetically. Like Ben, my other half is attractive (more so than I'd ever had expected to bag) and very trim yet she genuinely has confidence issues with both aspects. She's able to objectively see that she is not unattractive and that she's not fat in any way but that doesn't stop her brain trying to convince her otherwise. I don't care what Ben says, she's a beauty. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted February 1, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted February 1, 2018 32 minutes ago, choffer said: Like Ben, my other half is attractive Thanks very much 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morley_crosses_to_Withe Posted February 1, 2018 Share Posted February 1, 2018 Humble brags galore! Pics or GTFO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choffer Posted February 2, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted February 2, 2018 10 hours ago, Morley_crosses_to_Withe said: Humble brags galore! Pics or GTFO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chindie Posted February 2, 2018 VT Supporter Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'd be somewhat worried if someone didn't find their partner attractive 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wazzap24 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Modesty is an endearing quality in a lady, providing it doesn't become prohibitive. My OH was working out in the lounge this morning and I don't know what the excercise was, but her backside was wiggling about like a beautifully ripe peach. You could have hammered nails with my knob after about 30secs watching. Whipped it out to show her and she couldn't believe it was turning me on. Most women don't see themselves as attractive, at least in my experience. There's a couple of 'confident' ladies at work and whilst they are attractive I'd imagine it isn't much fun if your their partner and they are off confidently sucking another man's schlong. Fit but they know it. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Mine is very confident with her looks. all women talk negatively about something about themselves (probably men do as well) in her case she says she dont like her feet (nothing at all wrong with them) like @wazzap24 mines got a banging body but you can turn a negative into a positive for example i said to her the other night as her foot touched my leg i said to her watch that razor sharp toe nail. toe nail cuts are the worst she thought it was hilarious 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wazzap24 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 (edited) I've been with my OH for 20 years, man and boy. Never got bored or founded her less attractive. Even now, my favourite noise of the morning is her underwear draw opening. It's the signal to roll over and wake up for a cheeky look at her bare ass, before a quick tug, then up for work! My view of body confident women had been tainted by working in the corporate world for too long. I've seen too many 'happily married' women, sloping off for a night in a co-workers hotel room. Even I've had the 'come on' and I look like a fat cousin of the steptoe family. Edited February 2, 2018 by wazzap24 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Got a date on Sunday - but she's 5'10! Not sure how I feel about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wazzap24 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 1 minute ago, StefanAVFC said: Got a date on Sunday - but she's 5'10! Not sure how I feel about it Why, how tall are you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 1 minute ago, wazzap24 said: Why, how tall are you? 6'3. Just never really been with any women as tall as that! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HanoiVillan Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 1 hour ago, Demitri_C said: Mine is very confident with her looks. all women talk negatively about something about themselves (probably men do as well) in her case she says she dont like her feet (nothing at all wrong with them) like @wazzap24 mines got a banging body but you can turn a negative into a positive for example i said to her the other night as her foot touched my leg i said to her watch that razor sharp toe nail. toe nail cuts are the worst she thought it was hilarious 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wazzap24 Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 Just now, StefanAVFC said: 6'3. Just never really been with any women as tall as that! 5'10 isn't that tall! I thought you were going to be about 4ft or something. Now ive gone and googled this image for nothing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodders Posted February 2, 2018 Share Posted February 2, 2018 I'm 6ft and have dated someone taller than me, whilst another partner was bang on 5ft. It's nice having someone to rest your elbows on I must be honest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 Has anyone either been a disastrous double date? My god I did it for the missus and her mates partner was a right wierdo. talking about his foot fetish and over a dinner table? He don't like sports, he dont like the news, he hates social media and has zero interests. The only thing he wanted to talk about was fecking feet. The worst thing about is she wants me to go again!! How the hell do I get out of this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 (edited) 11 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: Has anyone either been a disastrous double date? My god I did it for the missus and her mates partner was a right wierdo. talking about his foot fetish and over a dinner table? He don't like sports, he dont like the news, he hates social media and has zero interests. The only thing he wanted to talk about was fecking feet. The worst thing about is she wants me to go again!! How the hell do I get out of this? kill yourself. Edited February 9, 2018 by lapal_fan Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 14 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: The worst thing about is she wants me to go again!! How the hell do I get out of this? "No." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 (edited) 2 minutes ago, Jon said: "No." You think I haven't tried this. She has come on about 6 or 7 doubke dates for me this is first for me. Im screwed Edited February 9, 2018 by Demitri_C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted February 9, 2018 Share Posted February 9, 2018 2 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: You think I haven't tried this. She has come on about 6 or 7 doubke dates for me this is first for me. Im screwed "No. He's a word removed". That should do it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chrisp65 Posted February 9, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted February 9, 2018 3 hours ago, Demitri_C said: Has anyone ever been a disastrous double date? I agreed to go blind double date for a friend on his first date. The actual dating couple, well it turned out they had nothing much to say to each other. Me and the girl I met that evening have been married for 27 years now. (not really a disaster, she's a bit awesome) 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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