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Very unexpectedly - I'm back in the game.

Even more unexpectedly - it's someone who knows me and has done for 15 years.

All praise to the inhibition lowering powers of alcohol.

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36 minutes ago, Jon said:

You wanted her to put out on the 1st date?

Nah, wasn't expecting it. But she was very forward in our chats beforehand so it was funny to see her so reserved in person.

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  • 3 weeks later...

I'm feeling very meh about relationships lately.

I broke up with my ex 6 months ago and have had a few things since then, but with each of them, I've had a nagging doubt at the back of my mind that I'm making a mistake. I think it comes from that I rushed into things with my ex then wasted 2 and a half years with her, and I don't want to get in a relationship again and waste all that time again.

So the result is, I get close to a girl and then I have no interest in taking it further.

Anyone else had this? How did they sort their head out?

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7 hours ago, StefanAVFC said:

So the result is, I get close to a girl and then I have no interest in taking it further.

Anyone else had this? How did they sort their head out?

The last 20 years for me give or take!

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I used to hate getting close to girls. Didn't want to get hurt, and was too insecure for a proper relationship. Years of just having one night stands was great, and really made me feel good inside. I used to hate it when I fell for someone, because I felt so vulnerable. I've learnt so much from the relationship I'm in now.

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