Popular Post CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted August 8, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted August 8, 2015 100% she is seeing someone with a bigger cock than you. Just buy Football Manager & forget about ever finding happiness. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 Never dip your pen in the office ink. That way madness lies. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted August 10, 2015 Share Posted August 10, 2015 I did briefly work in the same building as my missus. We were already together when I got a job for the same company as her. Different work, different department, different floor. But yeah, there's nothing quite as exciting! Long time ago. I wonder who's got that desk now? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PieFacE Posted August 17, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted August 17, 2015 Went on a date last night which is quite a rare thing for me! Had a really good time, 4 hours just flew by and had a good chat, only problem is... I don't really find her all that attractive She's a really nice girl and we got on really well, but I don't know if I want to see her again which is incredibly shallow of me. I'm not exactly an oil painting myself but I think I can do better So I really don't know what to do.. Has VT ever been in this situation before? What did you do? I don't know whether to just be honest now and say I'm not all that interested, but if you lose a little bit of weight I might be Or Go on a second date and decide again Or Just wait til I try to DHUTWU and judge her by that response! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 Went on a date last night which is quite a rare thing for me! Had a really good time, 4 hours just flew by and had a good chat, only problem is... I don't really find her all that attractive She's a really nice girl and we got on really well, but I don't know if I want to see her again which is incredibly shallow of me. I'm not exactly an oil painting myself but I think I can do better So I really don't know what to do.. Has VT ever been in this situation before? What did you do? I don't know whether to just be honest now and say I'm not all that interested, but if you lose a little bit of weight I might be Or Go on a second date and decide again Or Just wait til I try to DHUTWU and judge her by that response! I think you know the answer already. Just own your own shallowness and learn to live with the guilt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PieFacE Posted August 17, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted August 17, 2015 Yeah you're probably right. She keeps messaging me all the time. Think she might be a bit of a freak. I'm scared. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bunnski Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 (edited) Yeah you're probably right. She keeps messaging me all the time. Think she might be a bit of a freak. I'm scared.If you got on really well with her the other night then why not get to know her a bit better and see what happens, she sounds keen on you so nothing to lose either way. Edited August 17, 2015 by Bunnski Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PieFacE Posted August 17, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted August 17, 2015 Because she's got really manky teeth 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 So she's a biffa with manky teeth? Poor girl! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PieFacE Posted August 17, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted August 17, 2015 But has a really nice personality! Life just isn't fair to me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RimmyJimmer Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 But has a really nice personality! Life just isn't fair to me... Ain't fair to her by the sounds of it 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 politely say goodbye and move on. when you know you know, you know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 **** me what's wrong with you?! Pics man, we can judge better then. Does no one do pics anymore? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PongRiddims Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 Just nail it you bloody pussy, deal with the consequences after. Women love being treated like that, it'll 100% make her fall in love with you. If that doesn't work, show her your ergonomic management keyboard. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troon_villan Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 Was it a blind date? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeadlyDirk Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 You seem somewhat undecided! See her again, see what happens! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AvfcTheObsession Posted August 19, 2015 Share Posted August 19, 2015 I definitely wouldn't see her again, women should seem most attractive at the early dating stage, the thrill of the chase etc. If on date 1 she doesn't seem that attractive to you, imagine how she'll appear further down the line. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PieFacE Posted August 19, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted August 19, 2015 (edited) It wasn't a blind date! She has just mastered the art of taking a selfie. I've decided to see her again on Sunday. I will decide after the next meet. We've been chatting on WhatsApp all week and we get on really well which is rare for me. So, if I can come round to the idea of kissing her on Sunday I might keep seeing her. I think it's unlikely though! Being quite shallow sucks, I have no right to want better.... But I do! And hahaha, no pics, could be your sister for all I know Edited August 19, 2015 by PieFacE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villaglint Posted August 19, 2015 Share Posted August 19, 2015 I don't think it's shallow to want to be attracted to someone you are going to spend a lot of intimate time with. One thing I would say though is that believe it or not attraction can happen through the ears as well as the eyes. A good friend of mine met a girl, far from an oil painting but they were made for each other personality wise. It's their first wedding anniversary next week! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
robitee Posted August 19, 2015 Share Posted August 19, 2015 Split with the girlfriend of 12 years just before Christmas, she said things had changed for her! I'd put it down to her new job and work xollegues although I was and am sure she wasn't screwing anyone else. I tried to put us back together but she said no so I bought myself a new house and had the kids as much as posible with the lingering hope we'd be able to reconcile!. We've always been on speaking terms and I've always made the effort to help as much as I can financially etc. The last few months she seemed to be warming to me and I really thought when she gets back from holiday with the kids we'd be getting back together!. I ran into a mutual friend last week who proceeded to inform me me that she's been shagging a bloke from her work the last few months!!! The friend knows cos she told her! I've been there for the ex all the time through problems she's had this year including her father dying! I've asked her and Shea denied it but everything I've suspected but tried to ignore adds up and I'm 110% convinced. Funnily enough I'd still take her back if she was honest-what does that say? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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