Popular Post paul514 Posted May 16, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2023 So this morning I have found out we are having twins. Me and the wife are bricking it, we haven't had a child before and it seems very scary all of a sudden. 11 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 24 minutes ago, paul514 said: So this morning I have found out we are having twins. Me and the wife are bricking it, we haven't had a child before and it seems very scary all of a sudden. That's some production Enjoy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NurembergVillan Posted May 16, 2023 Moderator Share Posted May 16, 2023 On 11/05/2023 at 10:56, StefanAVFC said: The mystery of the ever-changing gender. First we thought girl. 1st pre-natal scan, dr said likely boy. Confirmed 2 weeks after with our private doctor At 18 weeks, another check with our doctor, 100% girl. 2nd pre-natal scan, 100% boy. So I guess??? it's a boy But who knows. That's what you get for being a trans ally, unfortunately. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NurembergVillan Posted May 16, 2023 Moderator Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2023 1 hour ago, paul514 said: So this morning I have found out we are having twins. Me and the wife are bricking it, we haven't had a child before and it seems very scary all of a sudden. Congrats! As it's your first time parenting you should be relieved to learn that you're producing a spare in case you break the other one. Smart move. Jokes aside, a big positive I could see from having twins (although I don't have them) is that developmentally they'll be at the same stage. When your kids are different ages you have things like one eating baby food while the other is eating fish fingers or one wants to make a racket while the other is having a nap. An age difference makes double the work whereas with twins you should essentially be doing twice as much of the same thing. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreveryoung Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 On 11/05/2023 at 10:56, StefanAVFC said: The mystery of the ever-changing gender. First we thought girl. 1st pre-natal scan, dr said likely boy. Confirmed 2 weeks after with our private doctor At 18 weeks, another check with our doctor, 100% girl. 2nd pre-natal scan, 100% boy. So I guess??? it's a boy But who knows. According to some of your posts in other threads, sexual organs have nothing to do with gender, so why worry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 On 11/05/2023 at 10:56, StefanAVFC said: The mystery of the ever-changing gender. First we thought girl. 1st pre-natal scan, dr said likely boy. Confirmed 2 weeks after with our private doctor At 18 weeks, another check with our doctor, 100% girl. 2nd pre-natal scan, 100% boy. So I guess??? it's a boy But who knows. Sounds like it could be... gender fluid Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 Damn, i thought I was being original Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DCJonah Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 2 hours ago, paul514 said: So this morning I have found out we are having twins. Me and the wife are bricking it, we haven't had a child before and it seems very scary all of a sudden. Congrats. I still remember the shock when I found out it was twins. It's brilliant though. Instant family. It's ridiculously hard work in the beginning so I hope you've got lots of support from friends and family but once they get older its great. They're just best friends and you know that whatever they go through in the future they'll always have their best friend going through the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreveryoung Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 2 minutes ago, DCJonah said: Congrats. I still remember the shock when I found out it was twins. It's brilliant though. Instant family. It's ridiculously hard work in the beginning so I hope you've got lots of support from friends and family but once they get older its great. They're just best friends and you know that whatever they go through in the future they'll always have their best friend going through the same. He only posted it 2 hours ago. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Dodgyknees Posted May 16, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted May 16, 2023 Just saw my baby for the first time honestly feel so overwhelmed and all sorts, all good, just really emotional. Is that normal? 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 44 minutes ago, foreveryoung said: According to some of your posts in other threads, sexual organs have nothing to do with gender, so why worry. Eh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PieFacE Posted May 16, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted May 16, 2023 35 minutes ago, Dodgyknees said: Just saw my baby for the first time honestly feel so overwhelmed and all sorts, all good, just really emotional. Is that normal? Yup! Enjoy the ride! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dodgyknees Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 38 minutes ago, PieFacE said: Yup! Enjoy the ride! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 1 hour ago, PieFacE said: Yup! Enjoy the ride! That's how he got into this mess 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NurembergVillan Posted May 16, 2023 Moderator Share Posted May 16, 2023 4 hours ago, Xela said: gender fluid That's what you use to make babies. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dodgyknees Posted May 30, 2023 Share Posted May 30, 2023 As well as having one on the way, I’m step sad to two others. The youngest has been obsessing over Harry Kane, but I’ve been chipping away at him - now, Villa have finished Spurs and he’s already said he “likes Villa” - and today he’s says he might need another team if Kane leaves Spurs, “maybe I can watch Villa with you” come on!!!! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted May 30, 2023 Share Posted May 30, 2023 50 minutes ago, Dodgyknees said: As well as having one on the way, I’m step sad to two others. The youngest has been obsessing over Harry Kane, but I’ve been chipping away at him - now, Villa have finished Spurs and he’s already said he “likes Villa” - and today he’s says he might need another team if Kane leaves Spurs, “maybe I can watch Villa with you” come on!!!! Tell that gloryhunting little shit that you've **** his mum 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dodgyknees Posted May 30, 2023 Share Posted May 30, 2023 6 minutes ago, Davkaus said: Tell that gloryhunting little shit that you've **** his mum “You know how Kane goes down easily…” Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paul514 Posted May 30, 2023 Share Posted May 30, 2023 4 hours ago, Dodgyknees said: “You know how Kane goes down easily…” Well so does your mom on me! put him in his place, Spurs fan, the cheek. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paddywhack Posted May 31, 2023 Share Posted May 31, 2023 I was getting on the monorail at Alton Towers last week with Mrs P and the two little Ps and we were joined in the carriage by an Asian bloke. Just as we were about to get off, my 4 year old pointed at the man and said quite loudly, "Look at that brown face!" Mrs Ps reaction was to shush him, whilst I pretended I didn't hear and immediately asked him if he was looking forward to going on the Postman Pat ride (my son, not the man). For some reason, he's obsessed with the colour of people's eyes, hair and clothes and they teach them about diversity at nursery. I don't think either of our reactions were particularly helpful, but equally, I'm not entirely sure what we should have said in that situation to be honest. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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