chrisp65 Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 Ingram, that is so disgraceful it made me laugh out loud AND despair of us all, at the same time. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 I'm in a mess. The sensible thing to do for everybody is to end my current relationship but the short term will suck. silly question but are you in love with her, or do you at least think you could be? Yeah but love doesn't come into it. I can't afford to support another person at 23. Had a big chat and basically told her that she'll need to get a job for it to work. She wants to study over here. No chance of her studying without me supporting her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 its a tough one that stefan because when your in love its the best feeling in the world but i see your logic. cant she get a job and try and save a few pennies then study? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 **** me, it's like a shit version id Dawsons Creek in here! If there is such a version as a good Dawsons Creek. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 its a tough one that stefan because when your in love its the best feeling in the world but i see your logic. cant she get a job and try and save a few pennies then study? Got to go with my head here to be honest Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Ingram85 Posted June 7, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted June 7, 2015 Penile or noggin? 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 I do of course realise I've been of no help whatsoever thus far Stefan. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troon_villan Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 Slip three knuckle deep in her fart pipe then dump her after. It makes me sad that he probably won't take this advice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 **** me, it's like a shit version id Dawsons Creek in here! If there is such a version as a good Dawsons Creek. i can confirm there is nothing good about Dawsons Creek. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 Slip three knuckle deep in her fart pipe then dump her after. Giving by the reaction of the school girls who have been reading over my shoulder on the train this response is "bear jank" I have no idea what this means but I doubt they felt it would assist the situation. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Folski Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 If it's meant to be you'd make it work Stefan, if not then you won't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 Yeah. The whole issue is: I'm leaving Poland on Thursday. She's 20, dropped out of university (nothing to do with me), not got a job or anything over here, never lived anywhere but her parents house, in less than a year out of high school (they finish at 19 in Poland) If she stays in Poland, she'll have wasted a year but she can study starting September and it's free over here. The other option (and what we've talked about a lot) is her coming over to England and going to college. However, we're miles away with regards to maturity (i've lived on my own for 4 years), qualifications (I don't want to support somebody at 23) and she'll be living in a foreign country having only been together for 6 months. In addition to that, we argue over ridiculous shit. We fell out today because I wanted a day to myself because we're spending the next 3 days solid together. Tough conversation next time I see her. Her dropping out of university is not a very good sign. In this day and age no one can expect someone else to keep them, and making someone dependent on you is not doing them any favours. Partners cannot be equal if one is financially dependent on the other. If she needs this explaining to her, she has already failed the interview; relationships these days are totally geared to both partners working because the massive cost of housing. Love has nothing to do with it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Risso Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 Two people can live as cheaply as one, and how hard would it be for her to find a job? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 I'm 100% down for her to find a job (which she'd get) but she's intent on studying, which will mean me supporting her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 Okay, she's planning to apply for a private uni in Lodz that is mostly online with occasional lectures on weekends. With that, she can work. I'd rather make it work but my head is still ruling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 If you're not 100% committed to making it work then you need to tell her asap. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 give love a chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kingman Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 I'm in a mess. The sensible thing to do for everybody is to end my current relationship but the short term will suck. silly question but are you in love with her, or do you at least think you could be? Yeah but love doesn't come into it. I can't afford to support another person at 23. Had a big chat and basically told her that she'll need to get a job for it to work. She wants to study over here. No chance of her studying without me supporting her. You could do more overtime/weekend work. Even get a second job Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bunnski Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 You would plan on making it work no matter what if you were truly in love with her, give her the bullet and keep searching. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted June 8, 2015 Share Posted June 8, 2015 You would plan on making it work no matter what if you were truly in love with her, DHUTWU, give her the bullet and keep searching. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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