Rugeley Villa Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 8 hours ago, mikeyp102 said: What's her thoughts now? Has she changed since her initial return? Obviously a joint membership is a good step in the right direction. We've spoke and both agreed that neither of us was happy. We both need to start putting a lot more effort in to the relationship. I have been warned any further relapses and that will be it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Villan_of_oz Posted June 28, 2017 VT Supporter Popular Post Share Posted June 28, 2017 (edited) Hey @Rugeley Villa, I haven't said anything till now as I don't know you and didnt know what to say, but from one guy to another that has a few issues to sort out, I care mate and I check on here regularly hoping to see good news. You're doing well fella, just keep it simple one foot in front of the other. Edited June 28, 2017 by Villan_of_oz 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 14 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: This forum has gave me extra strength and I honestly mean that. This is about me and my family, but when I succeed I will always remember the support I had on here. My missus always moans about the time I spend on here, but she don't realise what a great place it is. Forever thankful. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xann Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 Taking a girl out in town this weekend. She's much younger than I and very pretty with it, but the intention is not to get into her pants. She's lived within the M25 for 4 years and done nothing. Not been to Soho, Camden, Greenwich, Shoreditch, Notting Hill, Brixton, Borough, any of the parks, museums or markets. She's been to Westfield in Hammersmith and Oxford St - That's it! Unreal. She's from the sticks and not big on self confidence. So I'm taking her out for a good time. Hopefully it'll be a wake up call for her fecking useless bloke. He seems to just use her as a caterer for his video game nights and drags her off to stay with his parents at the weekends. She's lovely and quite wasted on him. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 6 minutes ago, Xann said: Taking a girl out in town this weekend. She's much younger than I and very pretty with it, but the intention is not to get into her pants. She's lived within the M25 for 4 years and done nothing. Not been to Soho, Camden, Greenwich, Shoreditch, Notting Hill, Brixton, Borough, any of the parks, museums or markets. She's been to Westfield in Hammersmith and Oxford St - That's it! Unreal. She's from the sticks and not big on self confidence. So I'm taking her out for a good time. Hopefully it'll be a wake up call for her fecking useless bloke. He seems to just use her as a caterer for his video game nights and drags her off to stay with his parents at the weekends. She's lovely and quite wasted on him. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xann Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 She's not that young Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted June 28, 2017 Moderator Share Posted June 28, 2017 7 minutes ago, Xann said: Taking a girl out in town this weekend. She's much younger than I and very pretty with it, but the intention is not to get into her pants. She's lived within the M25 for 4 years and done nothing. Not been to Soho, Camden, Greenwich, Shoreditch, Notting Hill, Brixton, Borough, any of the parks, museums or markets. She's been to Westfield in Hammersmith and Oxford St - That's it! Unreal. She's from the sticks and not big on self confidence. So I'm taking her out for a good time. Hopefully it'll be a wake up call for her fecking useless bloke. He seems to just use her as a caterer for his video game nights and drags her off to stay with his parents at the weekends. She's lovely and quite wasted on him. You're taking a girl out who isn't big on self-confidence but already has a bloke? How'd that come about? The two seem contradictory. EDIT : To clarify, I don't mean people lacking confidence can't go out. Just that someone in a relationship and lacking confidence doesn't seem the person to then go on an extra-curricular date. You old giggety. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 4 minutes ago, BOF said: You're taking a girl out who isn't big on self-confidence but already has a bloke? How'd that come about? The two seem contradictory. I was just wondering this. How long until you are carrying her bags around westfield? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xann Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 6 minutes ago, BOF said: You're taking a girl out who isn't big on self-confidence but already has a bloke? How'd that come about? The two seem contradictory. They're both from the Isle Of Wight, and been going out since they were at school together. 1 minute ago, Demitri_C said: I was just wondering this. How long until you are carrying her bags around westfield? Hahaha - I've never been to either Westfield, can't see me starting now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 2 hours ago, Xann said: Taking a girl out in town this weekend. She's much younger than I and very pretty with it, but the intention is not to get into her pants. She's lived within the M25 for 4 years and done nothing. Not been to Soho, Camden, Greenwich, Shoreditch, Notting Hill, Brixton, Borough, any of the parks, museums or markets. She's been to Westfield in Hammersmith and Oxford St - That's it! Unreal. She's from the sticks and not big on self confidence. So I'm taking her out for a good time. Hopefully it'll be a wake up call for her fecking useless bloke. He seems to just use her as a caterer for his video game nights and drags her off to stay with his parents at the weekends. She's lovely and quite wasted on him. Naughty Naughty I thought you had a missus, but obviously not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 Just wondering, how do you feel about taking a girl out who you know already has a fella? Not that I'm knocking you for it, but just wondered. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
V01 Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 1 hour ago, Rugeley Villa said: Just wondering, how do you feel about taking a girl out who you know already has a fella? Not that I'm knocking you for it, but just wondered. Relax Ruge, none of us are gonna date your missus... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 15 minutes ago, V01 said: Relax Ruge, none of us are gonna date your missus... Good luck with that, she's bloody hard work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xann Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 2 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: Naughty Naughty I thought you had a missus, but obviously not. 2 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: Just wondering, how do you feel about taking a girl out who you know already has a fella? Not that I'm knocking you for it, but just wondered. Ha ha - She's a smashing girl Ruge, but I'm not out to smash her. As for the geezer, he's hitting above his weight and taking her for granted. She's my Mate, he needs to up his game. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted June 28, 2017 Moderator Share Posted June 28, 2017 3 minutes ago, Xann said: Ha ha - She's a smashing girl Ruge, but I'm not out to smash her. As for the geezer, he's hitting above his weight and taking her for granted. She's my Mate, he needs to up his game. Then may I say good lad* * That's you, not the 'taker for granted' 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 21 minutes ago, Xann said: Ha ha - She's a smashing girl Ruge, but I'm not out to smash her. As for the geezer, he's hitting above his weight and taking her for granted. She's my Mate, he needs to up his game. Got ya! Good tactic by the way. Does he know you're taking her out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xann Posted June 28, 2017 Share Posted June 28, 2017 No idea Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xann Posted July 1, 2017 Share Posted July 1, 2017 She and I had a great day. He rang and had a hissy fit. It didn't spoil dessert. Japanese shaved ice pudding, really good. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tegis Posted July 1, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted July 1, 2017 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Xann said: He rang and had a hissy fit. Result Edited July 1, 2017 by Tegis 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 1, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted July 1, 2017 On 28/06/2017 at 09:49, Rugeley Villa said: Just wondering, how do you feel about taking a girl out who you know already has a fella? Not that I'm knocking you for it, but just wondered. Assuming I didn't know the fella, then it would depend on the relationship. Just bf and gf: not bothered. Married: would probably say no Married with kids(s): absolute no no Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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