Rugeley Villa Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 1 hour ago, Paddywhack said: Were they on and was she expecting it? Nah, and yes! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 8 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: I need to make amends for my wedding day fiasco. I know sometimes I laugh about it, but it honestly broke her heart and ruined her big day. Now and again she mentions how much of a disaster it was, and how she wishes she could forget about it. Pretty shameful really. It would be nice to renew our wedding vows, and I know that would go a long way in making her feeling a lot happier. Could maybe do it on a holiday next year. Our wedding didn't cost a lot and I'm sure renewing our vows wouldn't either. That's a great idea chap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Xela Posted July 12, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted July 12, 2017 8 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: My wedding day included being absolutely hammered and coked out of my head. Then I decided to try and cop off with another woman and got caught by my wife. After at the hotel I put the hair straighteners up my wife's arse. I had no sleep and felt like shit, but very lucky that my wife of one day had not already started divorce proceedings. It's fair to say I was in the dog house for a bit. 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Xela Posted July 12, 2017 Popular Post Share Posted July 12, 2017 7 hours ago, Paddywhack said: Were they on and was she expecting it? Sounds like GBH with GHDs 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 7 hours ago, Stevo985 said: Indeed. Although, to give me some credit (I don't deserve a lot), if I was totally guided by THAT head then it would have already happened. It hasn't. I was fine when it was that head that was driving things. But now my actual head has joined in. On a serious note, do you see anything happening long term'? Or it is just lust/excitement? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 12, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted July 12, 2017 1 hour ago, Xela said: On a serious note, do you see anything happening long term'? Or it is just lust/excitement? Dunno. That's what I need to figure out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 12, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted July 12, 2017 2 hours ago, Ingram85 said: That's a great idea chap Yep I agree. And maybe try to keep it more low key. Only a few close family and not such a big party! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 I'm thinking just me the wife and kids. At most maybe a handful of other people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 20 minutes ago, Stevo985 said: Dunno. That's what I need to figure out. Do you already have a missus? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brumstopdogs Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 (edited) 10 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: My wedding day included being absolutely hammered and coked out of my head. Then I decided to try and cop off with another woman and got caught by my wife. After at the hotel I put the hair straighteners up my wife's arse. I had no sleep and felt like shit, but very lucky that my wife of one day had not already started divorce proceedings. It's fair to say I was in the dog house for a bit. Edited July 12, 2017 by Brumstopdogs 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avfc96 Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 11 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: My wedding day included being absolutely hammered and coked out of my head. Then I decided to try and cop off with another woman and got caught by my wife. After at the hotel I put the hair straighteners up my wife's arse. I had no sleep and felt like shit, but very lucky that my wife of one day had not already started divorce proceedings. It's fair to say I was in the dog house for a bit. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 13, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted July 13, 2017 (edited) 11 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said: Do you already have a missus? Yes. Believe me if I was single then this wouldn't even be a discussion! Which was why before I had made the obvious decision to ignore the advances of the new girl and stay with my missus. Who I love an absolutely massive amount. But the more time I spend with the new girl (at work mostly), the more I like her. And my head has gone from "You're already with the right girl" to "what if... she's not the right girl, and the new one is?" At the moment it's a bit like I want to have my cake and eat it. It'll pass. I hope. Edited July 13, 2017 by Stevo985 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 (edited) 1 hour ago, Stevo985 said: Yes. Believe me if I was single then this wouldn't even be a discussion! Which was why before I had made the obvious decision to ignore the advances of the new girl and stay with my missus. Who I love an absolutely massive amount. But the more time I spend with the new girl (at work mostly), the more I like her. And my head has gone from "You're already with the right girl" to "what if... she's not the right girl, and the new one is?" At the moment it's a bit like I want to have my cake and eat it. It'll pass. I hope. You gotta cut all ties with this other girl I think. My mate was in same position as you he had it all then got tempted and had those same thoughts ended it with his perfect girl went with this one and it lasted 2-3 weeks and he realised what a bellend he was to give in to temptation. He desperately tried getting back with his ex but she moved on and could not forgive. She is happy with some one knew and it is eating at him inside. Tread carefully pal. good luck Edited July 13, 2017 by Demitri_C 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 13, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted July 13, 2017 Just now, Demitri_C said: You gotta cut all ties with this other girl I think. My mate was in same position as you he had it all then got tempted and had those same thoughts ended it with his perfect girl went with this one and it lasted 2-3 weeks and he realised what a bellend he was to give in to temptation. He desperately tried getting back with his ex but she moved on and could not forgive. She is happy with some one knew and it is eating at him inside. Tread carefully pal. Could luck Yeah, that's what I need to do. It's kind of hard though Especially when I work with the new girl. I see her every day. But I know it has disaster written all over it, which is why I'm resisting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choffer Posted July 13, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted July 13, 2017 1 hour ago, Stevo985 said: Yeah, that's what I need to do. It's kind of hard though Especially when I work with the new girl. I see her every day. But I know it has disaster written all over it, which is why I'm resisting. Has disaster written all over it. Never date someone you have to work with. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 1 hour ago, Stevo985 said: Yeah, that's what I need to do. It's kind of hard though Especially when I work with the new girl. I see her every day. But I know it has disaster written all over it, which is why I'm resisting. Do you not have someone you could set her up with ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 11 minutes ago, choffer said: Has disaster written all over it. Never date someone you have to work with. Great advice, if goes tits up can get ugly quickly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFC_Hitz Posted July 13, 2017 Share Posted July 13, 2017 Been there, done that. Had me moving job and apartment. For the better as it turned out but that's besides the point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 13, 2017 VT Supporter Share Posted July 13, 2017 23 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: Do you not have someone you could set her up with ? The new girl? Funnily enough I don't fancy setting her up with someone at the moment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted July 13, 2017 Moderator Share Posted July 13, 2017 2 hours ago, Stevo985 said: And my head has gone from "You're already with the right girl" to "what if... she's not the right girl, and the new one is?" Ohhh, dayamnn. That, I didn't know. Well, then I'm afraid we can not advise you sir! Follow your .... heart (I was never going to say the other thing). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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