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When I went to see him in the Glee club in Cardiff a few years ago I got put directly under a speaker which was so loud I had ringing in my ears for 2 days afterwards. I considered leaving but as Id not bought earplugs I sat and watched him with my fingers in my ears. I know he saw me. I often wonder what he made of it.

I think I'm really clumsily saying we can't change the past but we can affect the future or something like that.

Existance can be bleak at times for sure. For things/issues/problems you can identify, perhaps there's also a little hope. Identifying what the thing nagging away at you is ultimately the first step in doing something about it - and we do have some agency in affecting our futures. We're not powerless against unfulfilled ambitions. I hope my joke in another thread didnt land too harshly the other day btw and I don't want to sound all sanctimonious or preachy etc. But to me the scars of trauma and the realities of society/existance are often things we need to find a way to carry with us in some way, because we are powerless to change them - the futility of war for example, childhood trauma and so on. But you're worthy of love. You could absolutely find companionship. The bad bit is you have to keep putting yourself out there and as someone who struggles with self worth and with motivation at times I empathise with the things that ultimately lead to inaction. I find myself frozen at times over the most seemingly mundane of things, but the crippling anxeity is very real when it hits. I don't know you or your circumstances, I have known friends to have crazily high expectations of perfect relationships and I don't know what the perfect companion is in your head, but lots of people are looking for companionship. If it's important to you, you'll find it, I reckon. I always um and ahh about posting these in a doubting myself kind of way. All I'm really trying to convey is hang in there mate. Things can be less shit.

I'm not sure on the rugby playing glory hunter, I think she can do better.

Am I right in thinking he'd primarily be in competition with Ramsey for that left sided position but can play the Bailey/Diaby role also?

Friday night game, didn't realise.Be nice to just keep beating Chelsea for a while tbh.

Welcome. See you in a bit now.

anyone checking for re-animation?

Bit windy. Leak in the flat. Thankfuly away from stuff.

34's no age, really, as someone fast approaching their 50's I'd say you have at least a couple of olympics left in you.

Watching the PM laugh in the face of a voter is just another example to me of how they/we've stopped trying to maintain the illusion as Zappa might say. What a nice man that Rishi is.

When did bias present with a sliding scale, surely it's binary? It's either biased or it's not.

Had a night out for the 15 year old nephew's birthday this week and we all went out to Cardiff's very own board game cafe/bar Chance and Counters. Great stuff, nice and friendly staff and a good way to while away a few hours with a beer and a burger which were alright.

So last night a friend I haven't seen for a while was telling me a story about how they got sent up to Liverpool with their elderly mother for her to see a specialist in something medical. Only I kinda zoned out a bit after the bit about how this taxi driver "Didn't seem to like John Lennon very much!". "What's he ever done to get his own airport?" was heard, apparently. Obviously my mind kinda wondered towards what shirt a certain poster was wearing that day

5star will always trigger the memory of the Going Live phone in featuring 5star

No blue 0/10 wnb

Never heard of her I have really

every time the giant douche/turd sandwich gets rolled out (sometimes by me) I always think people react to it in a way that they forget not to take the ongoing 20 odd year old joke off south park too seriously.

The Sparrowhawks aren't

Everyone's already covered it but my heart goes out to you @Seat68. Big hugs n that.

Went up Pen y Fan today. Dusting of snow on the top and a fair bit of ice in places, but a really nice clear winters day on the way up. As we approached the top we could see lots of dark clouds rolling over. Was icy cold and rather windy all of a sudden in the middle of a cloud. That windchill was brutal.

I hope the A44 is pleased with itself. Look at the mess it's made. Hiliaeth yn hiliol.

The one where they go to burning man and they think hal is performance art is one of my favourite episodes of any tv show ever made. Hugely underrated show.

picard applause gif

I did manage to still look like an escaped window licker though in said passport photo, so that's ok then