Demitri_C Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 2 hours ago, choffer said: Not really. Started very positively. Very quickly descended into a mountain of sulks, "why is watching the football more important than spending time with me?"*, "I don't think you're as committed to this as me" and a mass of insecurities. I don't have a problem with the insecurity, who doesn't need a bit of a boost every once in a while? What I do have an issue with is manipulating every situation to make her feel better about herself and being dragged to a variety of places where we were guaranteed to bump into people she knew, just so she could show off the fact that she had a boyfriend now. I was expected to give up every moment of spare time and when I didn't, I'd get another massive sulk. (* The Wales match on Friday was the killer - I've missed pretty much every weekend match to spend time with her up until then but I had to put my foot down on that one) Sounds like my ex damn you did the right thing eventually she would try get you to cancel your sky sports! guys its been emotional...but I've deleted my tinder 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
V01 Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 bet you kept grinder though... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 2 hours ago, Demitri_C said: Sounds like my ex damn you did the right thing eventually she would try get you to cancel your sky sports! guys its been emotional...but I've deleted my tinder Getting with that one in America? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 27 minutes ago, mikeyp102 said: Getting with that one in America? Potentially if all goes well. 1) she has told me she is coming back as hasn't worked out as she would have liked and she has already planned our first date, she is coming round to cook for me, then we are watching finding nemo ( god help me) 2) was going to delete tinder anyway too many wierd women on there recently need a break from it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted July 4, 2016 Share Posted July 4, 2016 10 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: Potentially if all goes well. 1) she has told me she is coming back as hasn't worked out as she would have liked and she has already planned our first date, she is coming round to cook for me, then we are watching finding nemo ( god help me) 2) was going to delete tinder anyway too many wierd women on there recently need a break from it Good lad, good luck. "Cook for you" yeah yeah Fining nemo is ace anyway, I'm more disgusted that you haven't seen it!!! Yep I had a few months off from it, it can be crap at times Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zak Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 11 hours ago, Demitri_C said: Potentially if all goes well. 1) she has told me she is coming back as hasn't worked out as she would have liked and she has already planned our first date, she is coming round to cook for me, then we are watching finding nemo ( god help me) 2) was going to delete tinder anyway too many wierd women on there recently need a break from it Thought it was all about Bumble these days anyway, and before that it was Happn? Seemed to me, the crazys take longer to sign up to these apps and thus moving to whichever new platform comes about was the best option. Im out the game now (probably forever), but I will thank Tinder (and Happn) for many great memories and stories. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 16 hours ago, Xela said: They're all various kinds of mental I said this year I would get back in the dating scene, but at the moment I just can't be bothered. I don't know what's the matter with me! Impotence? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 17 hours ago, Xela said: They're all various kinds of mental I said this year I would get back in the dating scene, but at the moment I just can't be bothered. I don't know what's the matter with me! You could just have been confronted with overwhelming evidence and had the good sense not to ignore it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 (edited) On 7/4/2016 at 22:13, mikeyp102 said: Good lad, good luck. "Cook for you" yeah yeah Fining nemo is ace anyway, I'm more disgusted that you haven't seen it!!! Yep I had a few months off from it, it can be crap at times Haha she better do I want the food first! As for nemo I cant believe I agreed to this and she said exactly what you said about not seeing it!. I think at least will help me sleep I would rate in this order of sites for dating 1) tinder 2)wish 3)POF (the worst) have not used match, eharmony etc Edited July 6, 2016 by Demitri_C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted July 6, 2016 Moderator Share Posted July 6, 2016 @Demitri_C and to prove to her what a sensitive soul you really are, you could show her this thread. They dig all that kinda crap 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted July 6, 2016 Moderator Share Posted July 6, 2016 On 04/07/2016 at 18:38, Frobisher said: I met my wife on Match. I'd always be terrified of that happening. Oh wait, she wasn't your wife at the time. Gotcha. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 (edited) 6 minutes ago, BOF said: @Demitri_C and to prove to her what a sensitive soul you really are, you could show her this thread. They dig all that kinda crap Better not, she might see some of the pics i uploaded of some of the girls i was seeing prior Otheriwse would be happy to Edited July 6, 2016 by Demitri_C Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 8 hours ago, Demitri_C said: Better not, she might see some of the pics i uploaded of some of the girls i was seeing prior Otheriwse would be happy to Does that mean we get pics of this one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
V01 Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 She looks like my ex, she was proper mental but loved it utwu. Oh wait, he hasn't posted the picture yet. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
V01 Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 (edited) . Edited July 6, 2016 by V01 double post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choffer Posted July 6, 2016 VT Supporter Share Posted July 6, 2016 On 4 July 2016 at 18:38, Frobisher said: It was a while ago now, pre-Tinder days, but I met my wife on Match. After going out with a bunch of nutters first, admittedly. Show off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 3 hours ago, mikeyp102 said: Does that mean we get pics of this one? No pics of this one I'm afraid this ones got something about her that I like 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted July 28, 2016 Share Posted July 28, 2016 Have any of you been on tinder recently? They have this new social aspect where you can go out as groups instead of as a pair. Me and two of mates tried it out and we are meeting a group of chicks tonight. Quite a good idea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Mark Albrighton Posted July 29, 2016 VT Supporter Popular Post Share Posted July 29, 2016 13 hours ago, Demitri_C said: Have any of you been on tinder recently? They have this new social aspect where you can go out as groups instead of as a pair. Me and two of mates tried it out and we are meeting a group of chicks tonight. Quite a good idea. You and two mates, you say? You're going with @mikeyp102 and @Xela aren't you? I can picture the scene now.... Spoiler 13 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted July 29, 2016 Share Posted July 29, 2016 Not on tinder anymore Not sure how a date with mates there would work, surely you're just to trying to out do each other and embarrass the others? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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