Xela Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 Xela how old are you? Not being rude, just curious because before I met my current gf, I thought the same. 34 last week fella. Been single for a good few years... a lot of it is self inflicted as i've had the opportunity to date people at work or friends of friends. However I'm just not prepared to give up my single life for anymore.. or maybe I am waiting for 'the one'. Its not as though I lead a playboy life as a single bloke! Its pretty much work and relax/watch tv/go out for beers. I'm finding it more difficult as a lot of my mates are not only settling down but they are getting married and kids. The lads holidays are becoming less and less now, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Voinjama Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 Most of my friends or people in my age group have been having kids, starting families since their early to mid 20s. I sometimes feel like I am getting left behind but theres no point having kids to keep up with others, have them when you are ready. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Voinjama Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 I have a question, as a 26 year old what is the lowest acceptable age to date? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 42. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted June 24, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted June 24, 2013 Villa Talk Relationship advice thread, where everyone is a relationship expert. Bit rich coming from mr "PUA" I have a question, as a 26 year old what is the lowest acceptable age to date? Half your age plus 7. So 20. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frobisher Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 Villa Talk Relationship advice thread, where everyone is a relationship expert. Bit rich coming from mr "PUA" I have a question, as a 26 year old what is the lowest acceptable age to date? Half your age plus 7. So 20. Don't hate, a bro has to keep his hareem in check. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morley_crosses_to_Withe Posted June 24, 2013 Share Posted June 24, 2013 I'm finding it more difficult as a lot of my mates are not only settling down but they are getting married and kids. The lads holidays are becoming less and less now, I can only refer to some of my mates in this, but some of them wind me up no end. I'm talking about the ones who used to love lads holidays -still do & would love to go - but wouldn't even dare suggest to their wives that they want to have a time away with the lads. I just wouldn't be with someone who wouldn't allow me to do something I enjoy. It's a tiny percentage away from each other out of the total time spent together FFS. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted June 25, 2013 Share Posted June 25, 2013 People are selfish, it's just a part of who we are. We want to do our own thing. It's a 2 way street in a relationship. I wouldn't be in one where I was being walked over and put on a leash so to speak. I get to do my own thing sometimes, and she'll get to do her own thing sometimes. It's just gone are the days where I'd come home from work, cook a tea, have a shower and then have a good 5 hours to do what I wanted before bed. The selfish bit of me would love to do it everyday, however my compromising bit will say "Well to be fair you did have a few hours on the XBox yesterday and she did let you lie in, so buck up and have an afternoon shopping".. etc.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted June 25, 2013 Share Posted June 25, 2013 People are selfish, it's just a part of who we are. We want to do our own thing. It's a 2 way street in a relationship. I wouldn't be in one where I was being walked over and put on a leash so to speak. I get to do my own thing sometimes, and she'll get to do her own thing sometimes. It's just gone are the days where I'd come home from work, cook a tea, have a shower and then have a good 5 hours to do what I wanted before bed. The selfish bit of me would love to do it everyday, however my compromising bit will say "Well to be fair you did have a few hours on the XBox yesterday and she did let you lie in, so buck up and have an afternoon shopping".. etc.. Shopping is pure hell though and physically putting you out. Playing on the X-Box doesn't put her out. For every hour spent shopping, the missus has to watch an hour of Villa. New rule! Thanks for inspiring it Dante I'm sure she'll see the fairness that, no? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted June 26, 2013 Share Posted June 26, 2013 I'm finding it more difficult as a lot of my mates are not only settling down but they are getting married and kids. The lads holidays are becoming less and less now, I can only refer to some of my mates in this, but some of them wind me up no end. I'm talking about the ones who used to love lads holidays -still do & would love to go - but wouldn't even dare suggest to their wives that they want to have a time away with the lads. I just wouldn't be with someone who wouldn't allow me to do something I enjoy. It's a tiny percentage away from each other out of the total time spent together FFS. I can relate to this as well Some of my mates wouldn't even dare suggest it, let alone go ahead with it. I've never been with anyone who has stopped me doing what I wanted. The last time i was in a relationship I told the lady I was going away for a week with the lads across Eastern Europe (i'd discussed it with the lads prior to meeting the girl, a few months previous) and was that ok? I wanted her to be comfortable with it but the truth is, I was going anyway and if she had kicked off or said no then she wouldn't have been the type of girl I wanted to be with and I'd have dumped her. That may sound harsh but it wasn't as though i was taking all my holiday with the guys... me and the missus ended up going away three times in 6 months anyway. God... that year I had 6 overseas holidays! Them days are long gone! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 As a 28 year old is it ok to date a 20 year old? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tegis Posted July 3, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 3, 2013 YES!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 As a 28 year old is it ok to date a 20 year old? Of course. I reckon you should tell her you love her on the first date. Get the awkward stuff out the way early on. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 As a 28 year old is it ok to shag a 20 year old? If you DHUTWU, yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCforever1991 Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 Yes.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Voinjama Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 According to some it's half your age plus 7 - so the answer to your question is NO *Does baby rocking motion* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tegis Posted July 3, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 3, 2013 (edited) edit: I'M AN IDIOT Edited July 3, 2013 by Tegis Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 As a 28 year old is it ok to date a 20 year old? Yep thats the gap between me and my gf... Infact was those ages when got together, nearly 3 yrs now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 Cheers guys, to me it isn't much of an issue but wanted to see other peoples perception of it. I'm more worried of her coming to the realisation I'm a miserable 28 year old going on 70 but so far so good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 Cheers guys, to me it isn't much of an issue but wanted to see other peoples perception of it. I'm more worried of her coming but so far so good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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