Mandy Lifeboats Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 Next week the Police will explain that her haemorrhoids had been bleeding a lot recently. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheltenham_villa Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 16 hours ago, Mandy Lifeboats said: Why have the Police chosen to release information regarding her problems with alcohol? If she has a problem it's not going to help that it's now public knowledge. Nor would it help find her. She is not a criminal. She is either missing or a victim. Disclosing this information is inexcusable. Its an egregious breach of privacy that is completely unjustified. Data Protection and Human Rights only apply to the living. By making this statement it makes me think that the Police are confident that she's dead. the idea seems to be that she has been labelled vulnerable and I suspect information was being disclosed about the visits from vulnerable services. My assumption is that the police were concerned that the public would interpret this as to do with other family members, she may be painted as a victim of domestic abuse. Its clear the attention and speculation from the public has been tough on the family and they were attempting to avoid more. Still, its weird that they are allowed to say it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post KentVillan Posted February 16, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted February 16, 2023 “We discreetly let everyone know that she was a suicidal alcoholic”… hmm. Nobody really comes out of this case well, it’s all very sad. The people I have at the bottom of the pile though are the ones who think they’re entitled to minute-by-minute police updates on any case they deem interesting. Can see why the police have lost patience. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidcow Posted February 16, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted February 16, 2023 22 minutes ago, Mandy Lifeboats said: Next week the Police will explain that her haemorrhoids had been bleeding a lot recently. Has anyone checked in on @Xela lately? 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Lifeboats Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 Several people have posted that the Police's disclosure was well intentioned in order to stop people jumping to conclusions, taking inappropriate actions and protect the family from further intrusion. Saying that she was a menopausal alcoholic has not removed the possibility that her husband killed her because she was a menopausal alcoholic. The Police are pretty certain that she went into the river and there was no foul play. Maybe she googled "Suicide methods" or "How long does it take to drown" before she left home that day. Who knows? I doubt that finding the body will do anything to establish why she ended up in the river. Did she jump? Was she pushed. Loons believe the world is flat, the King is a lizard, and SHA are a football team. There is ample evidence to the contrary. Loons will continue to be loons. The Police have achieved nothing other than telling the world personal information that was neither relevant or necessary. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sidcow Posted February 16, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted February 16, 2023 21 minutes ago, cheltenham_villa said: the idea seems to be that she has been labelled vulnerable and I suspect information was being disclosed about the visits from vulnerable services. My assumption is that the police were concerned that the public would interpret this as to do with other family members, she may be painted as a victim of domestic abuse. Its clear the attention and speculation from the public has been tough on the family and they were attempting to avoid more. Still, its weird that they are allowed to say it. I have to say as soon as I saw that "Vulnerable" tag bandied about, domestic issues was my first thought rightly or wrongly. Which shows they should never have made that statement in the first place. It's been like watching Uriah Rennie refereeing a game. He would make a stupid mistake then try and cover it up/rectify it by making an even more stupid decision later. They made a mistake releasing the vulnerable information and tried to correct it by making an even bigger mistake of releasing her alcoholism problem.........and doubled down with completely unnecessarily connecting it to menopause. it's quite breathtaking really, 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blandy Posted February 16, 2023 Moderator Share Posted February 16, 2023 1 minute ago, Mandy Lifeboats said: The Police have achieved nothing other than telling the world personal information that was neither relevant or necessary. Their problem is they're not used to the level of attention focused on this sad case. The media stuff they've done all along hasn't been very good, IMO. Rather than put things to bed, or calm them down, they've tended to fuel them and then have to react to that fuelling and how it has impacted on the family and on various tubes and whoppers on that internet and so on. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cheltenham_villa Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 7 minutes ago, sidcow said: I have to say as soon as I saw that "Vulnerable" tag bandied about, domestic issues was my first thought rightly or wrongly. Which shows they should never have made that statement in the first place. It's been like watching Uriah Rennie refereeing a game. He would make a stupid mistake then try and cover it up/rectify it by making an even more stupid decision later. They made a mistake releasing the vulnerable information and tried to correct it by making an even bigger mistake of releasing her alcoholism problem.........and doubled down with completely unnecessarily connecting it to menopause. it's quite breathtaking really, i agree, im sat hear trying to rationalise their stupidity. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rds1983 Posted February 16, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted February 16, 2023 24 minutes ago, Mandy Lifeboats said: The Police are pretty certain that she went into the river and there was no foul play. Maybe she googled "Suicide methods" or "How long does it take to drown" before she left home that day. Who knows? I doubt that finding the body will do anything to establish why she ended up in the river. Did she jump? Was she pushed. I might have missed it but I've not seen any evidence that anyone else (except the dog) was there to suggest she was pushed. If it was premeditated suicide then I have no idea why she dialled it to the work Teams call. Why bother? Suggests unfortunate accident. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreveryoung Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 Instead of releasing statements on her struggling with the menopause, which I do think is outrageous by the police, they could have gave information on, how she left the team meeting, which I'm sure would be good part evidence to what has happened. Did she just cut them off, ask to leave for 5 minutes, how did she react online, she was still connected was my belief?? This is typical information they usually release, although the media have heard nothing I guess. Also, do the police not generally hold a press conference by now with family members pleading for more evidence from the public, this may help, rather than the police flapping around the case behind the scenes so it seems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mandy Lifeboats Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 16 minutes ago, Rds1983 said: I might have missed it but I've not seen any evidence that anyone else (except the dog) was there to suggest she was pushed. If it was premeditated suicide then I have no idea why she dialled it to the work Teams call. Why bother? Suggests unfortunate accident. I am not suggesting she was pushed. I am saying that even if they find the body it will not stop loons coming up with bizarre theories. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LondonLax Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 20 minutes ago, Rds1983 said: I might have missed it but I've not seen any evidence that anyone else (except the dog) was there to suggest she was pushed. If it was premeditated suicide then I have no idea why she dialled it to the work Teams call. Why bother? Suggests unfortunate accident. Or an exceptionally dull teams meeting? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lupinthe5th Posted February 16, 2023 Author Share Posted February 16, 2023 Have they checked the local pubs? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chindie Posted February 16, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted February 16, 2023 Who hasn't wanted to drown themselves during a meeting? I know I do multiple times a week. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blandy Posted February 16, 2023 Moderator Share Posted February 16, 2023 3 hours ago, Chindie said: Who hasn't wanted to drown themselves during a meeting? I know I do multiple times a week. Me. It's other people I want to drown! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chindie Posted February 16, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted February 16, 2023 Just now, blandy said: Me. It's other people I want to drown! We should have a meeting and cure all our ills. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paddywhack Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 I knew something was very off with this case when I first read the thread title. How could she be walking a missing dog? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted February 16, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted February 16, 2023 28 minutes ago, Paddywhack said: I knew something was very off with this case when I first read the thread title. How could she be walking a missing dog? I thought the actress Nicola Walker was a missing dog bully. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperTed Posted February 16, 2023 Share Posted February 16, 2023 There was an old fella in Tamworth who went missing in 2021 around a large reservoir area called Cliff Lakes. Poor man still hasn’t been found. You wonder whether she will ever be found Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villan-scott Posted February 16, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted February 16, 2023 2 hours ago, SuperTed said: There was an old fella in Tamworth who went missing in 2021 around a large reservoir area called Cliff Lakes. Poor man still hasn’t been found. You wonder whether she will ever be found Quite an ironic name for how he met his end. Poor Cliff. RIP. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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