PongRiddims Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 And your points about Tinder, I'm not in the game so don't have first hand experience but I know plenty that have been down that road. My conclusion is that women in their thirties have lost the looks and vitality of their youth but are yet to get to their forties where they feel like they need to make up for lost time and put a lot of effort in. Effectively, 30something single women are rarely gonna be a good investment in time, either go up or down a bracket Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted December 23, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted December 23, 2015 Dem. Forget everything you read in "The Game". It's mostly bollocks. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 22 hours ago, Demitri_C said: So i have a lil story Man I got bitch shielded the other the night! Seen this girl 3-4 times. We went for a drink on Thursday and she says why dont you come round mind Friday for some baileys (As we had a conversation about a story of mine that included baileys) so anyways wasnt sure if she was serious but she calls me Friday night asking if I was coming round. She said that her friend was coming and if I could bring a mate. I scrambled around and managed to find someone. So we turn up there, around 1 hour in we all having a laugh then this girl just immediately starts putting her bitch shield up, throwing lil insults here and there at me. was thinking WTF is this about, but then I could see she was trying to get a reaction out of me. But I laughed it all off and remained cool. (her background is she was with an ex for 2 years cheated on her and he use to always put her down) she continued doing it all night and I didnt get angry. We ended up there until 3am (it could have been later if I didnt decide I wanted to leave) Thought you know what, I am not gonna bother messaging her. Then she messages me next morning saying i am really sorry about last night. She said I felt awkward and I am just not a good person to be around at the moment. She also said like she wouldnt get pissed off if I did things with other girls. But she has NOT said the old "nice guy but lets be friends line on me" So I suspect this is all one of those women shit tests to see if I can handle her or not. What does everyone think? I dont know why the hell I am attracted to this girl as she clearly has some issues she needs to address. The recommended response will be entirely dependent on your standpoint as regards taking shit from women. A blue pill would say it never happens and guys only imagine it because women are wonderful, blameless paragons and it was your fault anyway. A purple pill would say it happens and it is terrible but it is totally worth it. A red pill would say women will never love you, you are only a commodity and that women specialise in psychological manipulation and torture. An evolutionary psychologist would say that nature doesn't care as long as hostilities cease long enough for you to reproduce. A Freudian would say that for a successful relationship you should choose a partner who is no madder than your mother. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 (edited) Edit: I really need to check that I'm on the last page before I started replying to things posted weeks ago. Edited December 23, 2015 by Davkaus Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr_Pangloss Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 22 hours ago, Demitri_C said: So i have a lil story Man I got bitch shielded the other the night! Seen this girl 3-4 times. We went for a drink on Thursday and she says why dont you come round mind Friday for some baileys (As we had a conversation about a story of mine that included baileys) so anyways wasnt sure if she was serious but she calls me Friday night asking if I was coming round. She said that her friend was coming and if I could bring a mate. I scrambled around and managed to find someone. So we turn up there, around 1 hour in we all having a laugh then this girl just immediately starts putting her bitch shield up, throwing lil insults here and there at me. was thinking WTF is this about, but then I could see she was trying to get a reaction out of me. But I laughed it all off and remained cool. (her background is she was with an ex for 2 years cheated on her and he use to always put her down) she continued doing it all night and I didnt get angry. We ended up there until 3am (it could have been later if I didnt decide I wanted to leave) Thought you know what, I am not gonna bother messaging her. Then she messages me next morning saying i am really sorry about last night. She said I felt awkward and I am just not a good person to be around at the moment. She also said like she wouldnt get pissed off if I did things with other girls. But she has NOT said the old "nice guy but lets be friends line on me" So I suspect this is all one of those women shit tests to see if I can handle her or not. What does everyone think? I dont know why the hell I am attracted to this girl as she clearly has some issues she needs to address. Sounds like a word removed to me. Women who feel that they have to 'test' men, especially in that way, are untrustworthy game players, manipulators, stay away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Bonk and run. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 15 hours ago, PongRiddims said: And your points about Tinder, I'm not in the game so don't have first hand experience but I know plenty that have been down that road. My conclusion is that women in their thirties have lost the looks and vitality of their youth but are yet to get to their forties where they feel like they need to make up for lost time and put a lot of effort in. Effectively, 30something single women are rarely gonna be a good investment in time, either go up or down a bracket This is actually a very good point mate. i have noticed this. I have had alot of 39-42 year old women message me and they seem more open about what they want without going down the mind fck route. Women mags are to blame for this shit. They print all this garbage in there of how to manipulate men making all this dating shit more complicated than what it needs to be. Back in my school days it was man likes girl, girl likes man go on date. simples Does not happen like that these days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choffer Posted December 23, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted December 23, 2015 4 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: Back in my school days it was man likes girl, girl likes man go on date. simples Does not happen like that these days I know someone that could help: 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Just now, choffer said: I know someone that could help: Haha funny you mention that choffer. My cousin talked me into applying for this and I did few weeks ago. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 4 hours ago, Demitri_C said: Haha funny you mention that choffer. My cousin talked me into applying for this and I did few weeks ago. When you going to be on? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 20 minutes ago, mikeyp102 said: When you going to be on? Haven't had a call yet I will of course let everyone know if that changes so you can all laugh at my ilines haha 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PongRiddims Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Does anyone know Paddy the villa fan that went on Dinner Date? That bloke was a legend Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 14 hours ago, PongRiddims said: Does anyone know Paddy the villa fan that went on Dinner Date? That bloke was a legend haha why? anywhere to watch? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PongRiddims Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 Does anyone know Paddy the villa fan that went on Dinner Date? That bloke was a legend haha why? anywhere to watch? It was on again the other week, he was proper funny, see if you can obtain it from somewhere mate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreveryoung Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 On 12/22/2015 at 12:21, Demitri_C said: So i have a lil story Man I got bitch shielded the other the night! Seen this girl 3-4 times. We went for a drink on Thursday and she says why dont you come round mind Friday for some baileys (As we had a conversation about a story of mine that included baileys) so anyways wasnt sure if she was serious but she calls me Friday night asking if I was coming round. She said that her friend was coming and if I could bring a mate. I scrambled around and managed to find someone. So we turn up there, around 1 hour in we all having a laugh then this girl just immediately starts putting her bitch shield up, throwing lil insults here and there at me. was thinking WTF is this about, but then I could see she was trying to get a reaction out of me. But I laughed it all off and remained cool. (her background is she was with an ex for 2 years cheated on her and he use to always put her down) she continued doing it all night and I didnt get angry. We ended up there until 3am (it could have been later if I didnt decide I wanted to leave) Thought you know what, I am not gonna bother messaging her. Then she messages me next morning saying i am really sorry about last night. She said I felt awkward and I am just not a good person to be around at the moment. She also said like she wouldnt get pissed off if I did things with other girls. But she has NOT said the old "nice guy but lets be friends line on me" So I suspect this is all one of those women shit tests to see if I can handle her or not. What does everyone think? I dont know why the hell I am attracted to this girl as she clearly has some issues she needs to address. Send us a picture and I will let you know 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Xela Posted December 24, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted December 24, 2015 Has dating got harder in the last ten years or is just me? Women seem to be more baggage laden nowadays and seem more self obsessed. Also many spend a large proportion of their day cultivating their social media image. Meh, I'll stick to masturbating. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troon_villan Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 There's a pun somewhere in that last sentence. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted December 25, 2015 Share Posted December 25, 2015 7 hours ago, Xela said: Has dating got harder in the last ten years or is just me? Women seem to be more baggage laden nowadays and seem more self obsessed. Also many spend a large proportion of their day cultivating their social media image. Meh, I'll stick to masturbating. It is indeed... But we're getting older dude and don't put up with so much bullshit Happy Christmas though 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seat68 Posted December 25, 2015 Share Posted December 25, 2015 I genuinely couldnt start again, I could catch my wife with my brother and I would shrug it off as the fear of starting again would override everything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stuart_75 Posted December 25, 2015 Share Posted December 25, 2015 2 hours ago, Seat68 said: I genuinely couldnt start again, I could catch my wife with my brother and I would shrug it off as the fear of starting again would override everything. Careful what you wish for bro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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