Xela Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 20 hours ago, Shropshire Lad said: I've mentioned it previously but I went out with a girl from work. Beautiful, sweet girl, about 8 years younger than me (I was 29 at the time). We worked in the same building, different departments. Lasted around 6 months, then she ditched me and it went sour. I found out a few months afterwards that she was seeing some other colleague, had to hear the news second hand from a mutual friend. Anyway I ended up leaving shortly after. Probably for the best, I was fed up of the work anyway. But it wasn't the best circumstances to leave under. Having said all that, I'm glad it all happened. Had some good memories and the bad stuff never seems as bad in retrospect. Depends how robust you are with your feelings and how attached you are to your job I guess. Not everyone is a complete wuss like me. Foreveryoung's experience with his girl beats mine. Just take it as an ego boost that a hot younger girl wanted to play hide the sausage with you. You can always take that with you! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 Bah, dumped less than two weeks before Christmas. At least there's time to return all of the presents, and use it to buy shit to cheer myself up, **** yeah. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 Sorry to hear that mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maqroll Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 6 minutes ago, Davkaus said: Bah, dumped less than two weeks before Christmas. At least there's time to return all of the presents, and use it to buy shit to cheer myself up, **** yeah. Sorry, fella. Chin up, there's like hundreds of millions of women out there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 (edited) There's quite a few bright sides, I won't have to meet her parents next week either. And she snores. Edited December 15, 2015 by Davkaus 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mark Albrighton Posted December 15, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted December 15, 2015 Sorry to hear that mate. Glad you're looking on the positive side of things. And yep, you're right Xela, that's how I look at it. Was nearly two years ago now, totally over it (I hope!) just bringing it up as an experience of a work place romance. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maqroll Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 (edited) 20 hours ago, foreveryoung said: I dated a girl from work, the typical one everybody wanted, was great at the time. She just seemed to have an amazing personality, also being 10 years younger than me (when I was 31) probably flattered me a bit. Cut a long story short, she had a bit of a shitty upbringing and was very black and white. Found out she suffered from bipolar, though would never admit it. She made her psychologist break down, was insane on drunken nights out, but still probably still the most amazing person I ever met, taught me big life experiences. She went from working a crap office job, to working in marketing for Microsoft Europe, then touring America, to a grey 3 months at Spearmint Rhino's, when she fell at a all time low. How it lasted 5 years I do not know, Guess it only ended too, cause we decided to leave it all an go live with her family in New Zealand, though at the last minute I bottled it. Crazy crazy times for me. The first two "relationships" I had were with girls who were totally mental. But they were both beautiful and talented, and smart. The first one was 4 years older than me, (I was 20), and she had gone to university in NYC. I was a carpenter's apprentice in suburban Boston, just kind of going in circles with kids I grew up with. My world was very small until I met her, she really opened up the world to me (books, music, other cultures, etc.) But she was crazy and didn't treat me well, so I ended up dumping her and she threatened to kill herself for 3 months afterwards if I didn't take her back. The other one was better looking, hotter in bed, but just as crazy, if not more. Troubled childhood, drug issues. I left her too. She didn't threaten suicide, but I found out that she actually did commit suicide a few years ago. Edited December 15, 2015 by maqroll 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Davkaus Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 Why are mental women always the most fun and better in bed? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 7 minutes ago, Davkaus said: Why are mental women always the most fun and better in bed? yep i can relate to that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foreveryoung Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 19 minutes ago, maqroll said: The first two "relationships" I had were with girls who were totally mental. But they were both beautiful and talented, and smart. The first one was 4 years older than me, (I was 20), and she had gone to university in NYC. I was a carpenter's apprentice in suburban Boston, just kind of going in circles with kids I grew up with. My world was very small until I met her, she really opened up the world to me (books, music, other cultures, etc.) But she was crazy and didn't treat me well, so I ended up dumping her and she threatened to kill herself for 3 months afterwards if I didn't take her back. The other one was better looking, hotter in bed, but just as crazy, if not more. Troubled childhood, drug issues. I left her too. She didn't threaten suicide, but I found out that she actually did commit suicide a few years ago. I can totally relate to this. Imagine 5 years of it chap. The problem was her parents did not live here in the UK, an these girls are extremely vulnerable. I probably realised I could not handle it anymore at the most 3 years in, but what could I do? I couldn't really finish it and leave her on her own from what I had experienced, she probably would have ended up dead in the kerbside somewhere, something she continually thought herself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 45 minutes ago, Davkaus said: Bah, dumped less than two weeks before Christmas. At least there's time to return all of the presents, and use it to buy shit to cheer myself up, **** yeah. That's nazis for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post V01 Posted December 15, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted December 15, 2015 39 minutes ago, maqroll said: Sorry, fella. Chin up, there's like hundreds of millions of women out there. Yeah buddy, plenty more fish in the sea 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexbelowsound Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 If it makes you feel any better when I was 19 I was also dumped two weeks before Xmas whilst I had severe tonsillitis followed by my Dog dying a week later. Demz were hard timez. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 3 hours ago, Davkaus said: Bah, dumped less than two weeks before Christmas. At least there's time to return all of the presents, and use it to buy shit to cheer myself up, **** yeah. Gutted dude. Chin up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted December 16, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted December 16, 2015 17 hours ago, Davkaus said: Bah, dumped less than two weeks before Christmas. At least there's time to return all of the presents, and use it to buy shit to cheer myself up, **** yeah. Sorry to hear that. But return the presents and spend the cash on strip clubs and drugs. You'll feel better 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Davkaus Posted December 16, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted December 16, 2015 Fortunately, she's a gamer, so it turns out that I bought myself some brilliant presents. 16 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted December 16, 2015 Share Posted December 16, 2015 1 hour ago, Davkaus said: Fortunately, she's a gamer, so it turns out that I bought myself some brilliant presents. Book yourself a trip to Thailand thats what I did 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted December 16, 2015 Share Posted December 16, 2015 6 hours ago, Demitri_C said: Book yourself a trip to Thailand thats what I did Yep I went travelling for 6 months Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ismail-villa Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 Book yourself a trip to Thailand thats what I did Yep I went travelling for 6 months I think he did a lot more then just travelling! Especially in Thailand! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 3 hours ago, ismail-villa said: I think he did a lot more then just travelling! Especially in Thailand! Haha ladyboys? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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