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The first 12 months of our relationship I was constantly hard. No joke, my missus nicknamed me hard on. All day drink and drug sessions topped off with all night sex sessions where anything went. Giving me oral in pub beer gardens and also in the street once in broad daylight with people walking about. Then the arguments and fall outs take their toll and you start losing trust with each other which creates insecurities. Then before you know it your married with 3 kids. It wasn't all good in those first 12 months like it's not all bad now, but people change and you have to change, well I did anyway. Sometimes I look at my life and think, f*** I didn't sign up for this, but then where would I be without my wife and kids? Probably somewhere bad. 

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1 hour ago, Rugeley Villa said:

Good old days. We also put a show on for some gay bloke once :) 

They should make a movie about you, Rocco Siffredi will be Rugeley, sasha grey will be Mrs Rugeley

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1 hour ago, rjw63 said:

They should make a movie about you, Rocco Siffredi will be Rugeley, sasha grey will be Mrs Rugeley

He's already got his own TV show complete with US remake...

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Love you really, Ruge ;)

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1 hour ago, rjw63 said:

They should make a movie about you, Rocco Siffredi will be Rugeley, sasha grey will be Mrs Rugeley

If truth be told there would be too many boring bits. Had to google that dude. On the subject of porn I've got unlimited porn which gets updated every day with new scenes and movies on Kodi tv. Me and the wife had a bit of a session on it the other night. To our horror there was videos off cam 4 on there which we used to go on. Thank god we weren't actually recorded and put on this porn app which we've downloaded on the tv.

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17 hours ago, Rugeley Villa said:

If truth be told there would be too many boring bits. Had to google that dude. On the subject of porn I've got unlimited porn which gets updated every day with new scenes and movies on Kodi tv. Me and the wife had a bit of a session on it the other night. To our horror there was videos off cam 4 on there which we used to go on. Thank god we weren't actually recorded and put on this porn app which we've downloaded on the tv.

Haha, superb :)

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1 hour ago, Demitri_C said:

Hows the gangs dating life?! Any new stories to share. :) 

non existent, work opportunities but nobody anyone off here would touch. moving house to new county next month and joining either e harmony or match as know nobody there! wrote profile message already, had it checked by two female mates and they've given it the thumbs up! ready to go live in a few weeks, never done anything like it before, and dunno will feel weird! other than that, nowt! 

 

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You tinder blokes how often do you change your pictures and bios? Ive heard that if you havent been active on it your profile doesnt appear much on other womens (as in goes bottom of the pile) not sure how true that is. could explain lack of matches?

1 hour ago, Midfielder said:

non existent, work opportunities but nobody anyone off here would touch. moving house to new county next month and joining either e harmony or match as know nobody there! wrote profile message already, had it checked by two female mates and they've given it the thumbs up! ready to go live in a few weeks, never done anything like it before, and dunno will feel weird! other than that, nowt! 

 

Ive never tried eharmony or match before, I dont know why but i get impression its difficult on there (this is just a wild guess) let us know how you get on! good luck buddy! 

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2 hours ago, Midfielder said:

non existent, work opportunities but nobody anyone off here would touch. moving house to new county next month and joining either e harmony or match as know nobody there! wrote profile message already, had it checked by two female mates and they've given it the thumbs up! ready to go live in a few weeks, never done anything like it before, and dunno will feel weird! other than that, nowt! 

 

From experience, and this is only my experience, I found eHarmony better than Match. I think people on eHarmony were a little more serious about finding a "real" relationship. Though, the frustrating thing about eHarmony is that you can't search for people, you can only communicate with people who it matches you with. I purchased a 2 year account on some special offer thing on eHarmony, I was 26 for the first year, and found next to no decent matches at all. Thought it was a complete waste of money. I then stopped using it, and just before my subscription ran out (I was 28), I thought I may as well give it another go, and found that I was getting loads of matches to girls who I would actually want to see, and one of them being my current gf. It did kinda feel like more women were using sites such as eHarmony in the age bracket of upper 20's early 30's.  Mid 20's range was pointless. I'm not sure how old you are, but if you're in your early to mid 20's I'd probably stick with the free sites like PoF and Okc, however if you're 30 and above i'd use a pay site, people are a bit more serious about it on there, I guess people think about these things a little more seriously as they get older. (assuming you're looking for something semi-serious). 

 

Just my thoughts, could be complete BS :lol: 

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