mikeyp102 Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 9 minutes ago, Mantis said: It wasn't nasty per se but very cold and insensitive. Basically just sent me a message saying "This isn't working out for me. Best of luck, bye" and it was only because I was online at the time that we got into a discussion. But after a couple of minutes of talking and just trying to find out why she was doing this she just decided to defriend me and that was it. Once I know somebody's not into me that puts me off them but I did sent her a handwritten letter just telling her how I felt in the hopes of getting some "feedback" but she never responded. I haven't contacted her since and never will. I think what sticks in my craw is that she told me about two previous relationships where they broke up with her out of the blue and then she goes and does exactly that to me. What's even worse is that from what she said they treated her terribly while I actually made a real effort with her. Not to sound too bitter or anything, but I hope someone does to her exactly what she did to me. I can't stand people like that. When I was on tinder before, I went on a few dates with this one, arranged a meet up again and then a day before meeting up she text saying didn't think we should meet again. She refused to reply again when I asked why... The thing to remember is, the majority of them are nuts... Snakes with tits as my mate used to call them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stuart_75 Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 24 minutes ago, mikeyp102 said: When I was on tinder before, I went on a few dates with this one, arranged a meet up again and then a day before meeting up she text saying didn't think we should meet again. She refused to reply again when I asked why... The thing to remember is, the majority of them are nuts... Snakes with tits as my mate used to call them I've had a few off Tinder do exactly the same thing. I'm sure its just an ego boost for most of them. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HanoiVillan Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 12 hours ago, Mantis said: Is getting duped via text/messenger normal? My ex broke up with me a couple of months ago this way and not having had much experiences with relationships I don't have much to compare it to. To be fair, we'd only been together about a month but looking back on it now she was pretty nasty about it. Didn't even give me much of a chance to ask what exactly was going on. I had a girlfriend for a similar length of time who dumped me the same way . . . felt horrid at the time and wanted a face to face meeting to discuss it etc. But of course in the end it was for the best, was a hopeless relationship really. Then she moved back to the midwest and moved to a convent 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted September 17, 2016 Share Posted September 17, 2016 On 17 September 2016 at 12:28, mikeyp102 said: When I was on tinder before, I went on a few dates with this one, arranged a meet up again and then a day before meeting up she text saying didn't think we should meet again. She refused to reply again when I asked why... The thing to remember is, the majority of them are nuts... Snakes with tits as my mate used to call them I would have not bothered responding mate, they thrive on us asking why as shows we give a shit. If you act not bothered it bothers women. They are wierd 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted September 18, 2016 Share Posted September 18, 2016 There are a lot of messed up women out there with 'issues. Be it trust/family/ex/daddy ones. If you can find one that isn't batshit crazy then you are 75% there. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted September 18, 2016 Share Posted September 18, 2016 32 minutes ago, Xela said: There are a lot of messed up women out there with 'issues. Be it trust/family/ex/daddy ones. If you can find one that isn't batshit crazy then you are 75% there. Are you saying that the nawalt actually exists? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 18, 2016 Share Posted September 18, 2016 It pisses me off when they moan that your making no effort or don't give them enough attention. Most blokes I know suffer from this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lapal_fan Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 17 hours ago, Xela said: There are a lot of messed up women out there with 'issues. Be it trust/family/ex/daddy ones. If you can find one that isn't batshit crazy then you are 75% there. A lot of it stems from 0 - 18 girls are treated like princesses by their family (dads in particular). So the entitlement comes with that, but obviously a lot of people fail to realise that they're just "normal" people who have to work, eat, sleep and shit like the rest of us. So their perception is that very rarely will the find anyone ever "good" enough for them. Until they get to their mid 30s when there are the beginnings of physical decline, whereby they reassess their situation and try and grab the next best thing "normal". People are mental, not just women. Women only seem more mental to us because men generally want an easy life because most of us are bone idle. That, and people just don't know how to interact as much anymore. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choffer Posted September 19, 2016 VT Supporter Share Posted September 19, 2016 On 17 September 2016 at 12:53, stuart_75 said: I've had a few off Tinder do exactly the same thing. I'm sure its just an ego boost for most of them. That's all Tinder is for everyone - nothing more than an ego boost. Well, apart from me. My ego was well and truly dented by the experience Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 It seems generations ago women were strong and could handle anything. Now it just seems they are completely crazy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Have you and your missis sorted stuff out Ruge? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 2 minutes ago, mikeyp102 said: Have you and your missis sorted stuff out Ruge? We are ok at the moment. Sat in hospital at moment though because we think she's had or is having a miscarriage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikeyp102 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 3 minutes ago, Rugeley Villa said: We are ok at the moment. Sat in hospital at moment though because we think she's had or is having a miscarriage. Shit that's terrible news mate. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Yeah I got the call this morning just after I'd set off for work. Said she was bleeding and didn't feel right so I came back home. Went to hospital and they have done various tests but can't scan her until tomorrow which is ridiculous. We won't find out properly until tomorrow but we are both thinking the same. She's had 8 miscarriages in the past so she is prone. What will be will be I suppose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 1 hour ago, Rugeley Villa said: We are ok at the moment. Sat in hospital at moment though because we think she's had or is having a miscarriage. Ah mate thats awful, sorry to hear that. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theboyangel Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Fingers crossed for you ruge. Not a great place to be in 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 10 hours ago, lapal_fan said: A lot of it stems from 0 - 18 girls are treated like princesses by their family (dads in particular). So the entitlement comes with that, but obviously a lot of people fail to realise that they're just "normal" people who have to work, eat, sleep and shit like the rest of us. So their perception is that very rarely will the find anyone ever "good" enough for them. Until they get to their mid 30s when there are the beginnings of physical decline, whereby they reassess their situation and try and grab the next best thing "normal". People are mental, not just women. Women only seem more mental to us because men generally want an easy life because most of us are bone idle. That, and people just don't know how to interact as much anymore. Women in their 20's - "stop looking at me" Women in their 30's - "please look at me" I wouldn't say men are bone idle, I just think we are more realistic. You can guarantee that any drama in a relationship is more than certain going to come from a woman. Yes, there are mental men out there but not the same volume as women. I have zero tolerance to all that bullshit.. probably why I'm single! But I'd rather be that than treading on eggshells like I have done in the past. I'm prepared to wait and find that women who isn't a headcase. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 @Rugeley Villa hope everything works out OK pal 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Thanks people, love you all,man Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Fingers crossed for you mate. Hope you are both ok. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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