mjmooney Posted July 12, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 12, 2013 The only rule is: There Are No Rules. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted July 12, 2013 Moderator Share Posted July 12, 2013 #1 - Old-school. Pre-girl power #2 - It might be a Sunday. Most of us are idle on Sundays and it might mean she's not religious, which is a bonus #3 - Piss off. Plenty of fish in the sea. #4 - She might be a looker so I can't comment All in all she seems a little on the old-fashioned side. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing either (although it can be). Could also be a drama-queen and high maintenance Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MMFy Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 Tough mate. Tough. But can I post this on Facebook? I have a feeling I'd be sleeping on the streets as soon as this evening if you did that Rob... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Voinjama Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 Oh she's definitely high maintenance. Or stuck up as I prefer to call it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skarroki Posted July 15, 2013 Share Posted July 15, 2013 MMFy, I would agree with BOF, seems like your mind is made up and you need to here it from someone else, it will obviously be difficult leaving someone after 4 years but it sounds like it will be for the best long-term. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ghost Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 I've had a bit of an issue with a girl recently. I want to make it clear that I don't consider myself a cocky guy; quite the opposite. the problem I have is that despite liking her, I have this fear that if we start to get closer then another girl will come along who I prefer and I'll be "stuck" with the first girl. this probably sounds completely mad but I feel like a bit of a t0sser telling a friend or someone because I presume the reaction "who the f**k do you think you are" You're never stuck with someone. If you go out with her and someone better comes along then break up with the first girl. That doesn't make you a dick or anything, quite the opposite. With this attitude I'd say you're actually more likely to end up "settling". You'll shun any girl that comes along in case someone better is on the horizon and end up with nobody. This is also also known as "pulling a Benteke." 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 16, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 16, 2013 I've had a bit of an issue with a girl recently. I want to make it clear that I don't consider myself a cocky guy; quite the opposite. the problem I have is that despite liking her, I have this fear that if we start to get closer then another girl will come along who I prefer and I'll be "stuck" with the first girl. this probably sounds completely mad but I feel like a bit of a t0sser telling a friend or someone because I presume the reaction "who the f**k do you think you are" You're never stuck with someone. If you go out with her and someone better comes along then break up with the first girl. That doesn't make you a dick or anything, quite the opposite. With this attitude I'd say you're actually more likely to end up "settling". You'll shun any girl that comes along in case someone better is on the horizon and end up with nobody. This is also also known as "pulling a Benteke." I wouldn't dump my girlfriend for Benteke... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 I was asked by a girl for the first time in my life yesterday if it was ok for her to call me her boyfriend and if I wanted to call her my girlfriend. Doesn't sound or feel weird at all either, probably because even though we have only been seeing each other for a few weeks we have actually been mentally ****ing each other for a few months. Its weird in a sense though as normally after two weeks of dating its the 'we're different people' speech that I get. I feel like I'm advancing as a person. Early days like but it appears I now have a girlfriend. Do I get a certificate or anything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 16, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 16, 2013 You get regular sex. Do you REALLY need a certificate? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tegis Posted July 16, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 16, 2013 Early days like but it appears I now have a girlfriend. Do I get a certificate or anything? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8pints Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 Do I get a certificate or anything? Ask the lady to make one for you. Although like 9+8+5=Stevo says, there are higher rewards on offer. Here you go, she doesn't even have to make one for you, just ask her to print this off-- Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 Early days like but it appears I now have a girlfriend. Do I get a certificate or anything? I like that, not ARF ARF ARF bad at all Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 Its proof out of disbelief for me really, to prove to myself that I am actually able to attract the opposite sex successfully now and again despite having the self esteem of a blobfish. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8pints Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rob182 Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 we have actually been mentally ****ing each other for a few months. How do mental people do it? In the street, covered in honey and broken biscuits, poking each other in the ear with a floppy disk? Am I close? *awaits the "that's what she said" comments*... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCforever1991 Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 ^ Tantra... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baselayers Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 Check this out for a reason to get dumped, 8 MONTHS AFTER GOING OUT. "Your boobs are too small" Hmm well they are exactly the same size as 8 months ago. Wall>Head>Bang Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Voinjama Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 Check this out for a reason to get dumped, 8 MONTHS AFTER GOING OUT. "Your boobs are too small" Hmm well they are exactly the same size as 8 months ago. Wall>Head>Bang Is this your ex or is it someone you know? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baselayers Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 Well he is my ex now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BOF Posted July 16, 2013 Moderator Share Posted July 16, 2013 Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Sorry to hear it nevertheless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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