To the people getting married in the near future enjoy it. I got married 5 weeks ago and it's been awesome. Amazing party with all my friends and family, 2 week holiday, loads of gifts to replace a lot of old home stuff which was pretty much knackered.
Nothing has changed between my wife and I, only difference is we get asked when are you going to have kids instead of when are you getting married/are you all set for the wedding. We tell them we are going to the rugby world cup in England next year and will consider kids beyond and then everything carries on as normal.
Certainly not the big deal people make it out to be and the day itself was best day of my life. I'm hope all the VTers getting married soon will find it the same