The only other thing that I would advise to @PieFacEor any new Dad is based off some of my friends experiences and not to be worried if you don't bond with the baby straight away. Mum's seem to bond immediately but for Dad's it can take a while (up to 6 months apparently). Without the same rush of hormones our partners get it can be hard to see the attraction of a newborn which just lies still, screams, poops, vomits and interrupts your sleep. Nobody likes to mention it as it seems taboo but don't worry, that's normal and the bond will come if you work on it.