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I think you're reading too much into it! She wouldn't have sat outside with you for a couple of hours after the bar shut if she didn't like you on some level.

Do you want to see her again? If so, reply saying you had a nice time as well and how do you fancy meeting up again? Try not to overthink it :)

i may be reading too much into perhaps. I did text her back yesterday saying i had a nice time and threw in a couple jokes that we had. But i havent had a text back although i didnt ask any questions in that text. So i am debating whether to text or wait and see if she mesaages back (she has in the past taken a while to get back some days) i dont want to come acrosa keen with this chick :-)

She's probably on a womens forum now (shoppingtalk) and is wondering why you have texted her a couple of times today without asking her out! She probably thinks you don't like her!

Don't complicate things.. text her and ask if she wants to meet up again this week :D

its her birthday as well tomorrow so i have to message tomorrow regardless. Think i might leave it and not message her tonight as stevo says don't want it to come across clingy the last thing i would want

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I hope you are not referring to what I think...

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not really spoke all week because there are trust issues again, and friday night was something that had to be done.

Are you behaving yourself RV? 

yeah but lately shes saw glimpses of the old me apparantly. was no angel when it came to the opposite sex early in the relationship but the other week when we went out she said i was blatantly flirting with this other girl, which i was not and its brought back some bad memories and has messed her head up a bit. the last week has not been good.

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So I went out with this girl last night, went well I think although she seemed very shy to begin with but came out of her shell. we went for a drink bar closed at 12am but we sat outside until about half 2. we didnt kiss because I think she was a bit sceptical about what I was after. when i get home and I get a text from her saying "thanks for a nice evening nice to meet you disney(this was a reference i used for banter for something on the date) and she put a x for first time as we never did before this date.Do you think "this nice to meet u" is a negative as in it was nice but she just being nice and she does not want to see each other again?? or do you think it implies it actually was a nice meeting  as I have never heard that expression before said to me believe it or not! 

Genuinely, treat every stage of a relationship as though you don't give a ****, they're all animals mate, the second you lap it up, it's all over. Pretend you **** hate her and you'll be balls deep in no time and she'll be screaming your name in her dreams, turn up tomorrow with expensive flowers and chocolates and you'll be the creepy fella she never wanted. Save her number as 'shithouse 1', don't text her, and wait for her to text again, you win, a happy relationship. There are few (no?) women these days that enjoy a pussyboy fella, serious.

Tremendous post.

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So I went out with this girl last night, went well I think although she seemed very shy to begin with but came out of her shell. we went for a drink bar closed at 12am but we sat outside until about half 2. we didnt kiss because I think she was a bit sceptical about what I was after. when i get home and I get a text from her saying "thanks for a nice evening nice to meet you disney(this was a reference i used for banter for something on the date) and she put a x for first time as we never did before this date.Do you think "this nice to meet u" is a negative as in it was nice but she just being nice and she does not want to see each other again?? or do you think it implies it actually was a nice meeting  as I have never heard that expression before said to me believe it or not! 

Genuinely, treat every stage of a relationship as though you don't give a ****, they're all animals mate, the second you lap it up, it's all over. Pretend you **** hate her and you'll be balls deep in no time and she'll be screaming your name in her dreams, turn up tomorrow with expensive flowers and chocolates and you'll be the creepy fella she never wanted. Save her number as 'shithouse 1', don't text her, and wait for her to text again, you win, a happy relationship. There are few (no?) women these days that enjoy a pussyboy fella, serious.

Tremendous post.

High praise banked, have a beautiful evening fella

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So I went out with this girl last night, went well I think although she seemed very shy to begin with but came out of her shell. we went for a drink bar closed at 12am but we sat outside until about half 2. we didnt kiss because I think she was a bit sceptical about what I was after. when i get home and I get a text from her saying "thanks for a nice evening nice to meet you disney(this was a reference i used for banter for something on the date) and she put a x for first time as we never did before this date.

Do you think "this nice to meet u" is a negative as in it was nice but she just being nice and she does not want to see each other again?? or do you think it implies it actually was a nice meeting  as I have never heard that expression before said to me believe it or not! 

 

Genuinely, treat every stage of a relationship as though you don't give a ****, they're all animals mate, the second you lap it up, it's all over. Pretend you **** hate her and you'll be balls deep in no time and she'll be screaming your name in her dreams, turn up tomorrow with expensive flowers and chocolates and you'll be the creepy fella she never wanted. Save her number as 'shithouse 1', don't text her, and wait for her to text again, you win, a happy relationship. There are few (no?) women these days that enjoy a pussyboy fella, serious.

Chocolate, flowers? No chance I never do that crap not even for birthdays that a recipe for disaster! Rest of your post is spot on. 

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So I went out with this girl last night, went well I think although she seemed very shy to begin with but came out of her shell. we went for a drink bar closed at 12am but we sat outside until about half 2. we didnt kiss because I think she was a bit sceptical about what I was after. when i get home and I get a text from her saying "thanks for a nice evening nice to meet you disney(this was a reference i used for banter for something on the date) and she put a x for first time as we never did before this date.Do you think "this nice to meet u" is a negative as in it was nice but she just being nice and she does not want to see each other again?? or do you think it implies it actually was a nice meeting  as I have never heard that expression before said to me believe it or not! 

 

Genuinely, treat every stage of a relationship as though you don't give a ****, they're all animals mate, the second you lap it up, it's all over. Pretend you **** hate her and you'll be balls deep in no time and she'll be screaming your name in her dreams, turn up tomorrow with expensive flowers and chocolates and you'll be the creepy fella she never wanted. Save her number as 'shithouse 1', don't text her, and wait for her to text again, you win, a happy relationship. There are few (no?) women these days that enjoy a pussyboy fella, serious.

Chocolate, flowers? No chance I never do that crap not even for birthdays that a recipe for disaster! Rest of your post is spot on. 

Seriously, snakes with tits (copyright Xela)

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Whats everyones opinions on this myth (or non-myth) that if a woman plays with her hair while with you its a sign she likes you? Some say its a womans emotions getting the best of her getting turned on so its just a natural instinct for the woman 

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Whats everyones opinions on this myth (or non-myth) that if a woman plays with her hair while with you its a sign she likes you? Some say its a womans emotions getting the best of her getting turned on so its just a natural instinct for the woman 

The hair on her head?

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Whats everyones opinions on this myth (or non-myth) that if a woman plays with her hair while with you its a sign she likes you? Some say its a womans emotions getting the best of her getting turned on so its just a natural instinct for the woman 

The hair on her head?

yeah apparently if women play with their hair with their fingers its a sign they like you

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Whats everyones opinions on this myth (or non-myth) that if a woman plays with her hair while with you its a sign she likes you? Some say its a womans emotions getting the best of her getting turned on so its just a natural instinct for the woman 

The hair on her head?

yeah apparently if women play with their hair with their fingers whilst giving you a disgustingly sloppy chompjob its a sign they like you

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Whats everyones opinions on this myth (or non-myth) that if a woman plays with her hair while with you its a sign she likes you? Some say its a womans emotions getting the best of her getting turned on so its just a natural instinct for the woman 

The hair on her head?

yeah apparently if women play with their hair with their fingers its a sign they like you

But does the carpet match the drapes?

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Whats everyones opinions on this myth (or non-myth) that if a woman plays with her hair while with you its a sign she likes you? Some say its a womans emotions getting the best of her getting turned on so its just a natural instinct for the woman 

The hair on her head?

A better sign is if they play with their hair down below.

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Whats everyones opinions on this myth (or non-myth) that if a woman plays with her hair while with you its a sign she likes you? Some say its a womans emotions getting the best of her getting turned on so its just a natural instinct for the woman 

You're reading too much into stuff again.

If a girl likes you you don't need to rely on her playing with her hair to know or not.

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Whats everyones opinions on this myth (or non-myth) that if a woman plays with her hair while with you its a sign she likes you? Some say its a womans emotions getting the best of her getting turned on so its just a natural instinct for the woman 

The hair on her head?

A better sign is if they play with their hair down below.

That was kind of the joke. Guess I"m just too subtle for you all. ;)

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Whats everyones opinions on this myth (or non-myth) that if a woman plays with her hair while with you its a sign she likes you? Some say its a womans emotions getting the best of her getting turned on so its just a natural instinct for the woman 

You're reading too much into stuff again.

If a girl likes you you don't need to rely on her playing with her hair to know or not.

Hahaha Stevo this was just a hypothetical question on this occasion! 

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