Eames Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 I don't mind marriage - I'm engaged. Just don't want hundreds of people at a gathering. Me no likey. So been putting it off. If we could go to Gretna on our own I'd be married already. you mean to say you would not invite the villa talk gang Whats the difference though? You've been together 4 years, you've got 2 kids, you live together. You are already married. You just don't have the bit of paper to prove it. I can't see what the additional commitment is that you are so opposed to? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wainy316 Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 Maybe it's because you get married, have sex on your wedding night, then neeeeeeeever have sex again by default. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 Maybe it's because you get married, have sex on your wedding night, then neeeeeeeever have sex again by default. bloody hell mate we hardly had sex anyway let alone if we got married I don't mind marriage - I'm engaged. Just don't want hundreds of people at a gathering. Me no likey. So been putting it off. If we could go to Gretna on our own I'd be married already.you mean to say you would not invite the villa talk gang Whats the difference though? You've been together 4 years, you've got 2 kids, you live together. You are already married. You just don't have the bit of paper to prove it. I can't see what the additional commitment is that you are so opposed to? trust 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baselayers Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 You proposed mid DHUTWU didnt you Rob? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 You proposed mid DHUTWU didnt you Rob? I don't do naughty things like that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morley_crosses_to_Withe Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 Whats the difference though? You've been together 4 years, you've got 2 kids, you live together. You are already married. You just don't have the bit of paper to prove it. I can't see what the additional commitment is that you are so opposed to? In a way, you've said it already for him. They're living together and have two kids, so why do they need the extra piece of paper to prove commitment? Rugeley, would she be willing to do a quick cheap ceremony down at the registry office or does she want the whole shebang? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 (edited) So the missus has been talking marriage. Just in general I think (I hope!). If I was Indian we would have been married ages ago where as im laid back and would quite happily give it a couple of years yet but out of respect for her & her parents I thought I'd compromise and give it a year or a bit longer. I'm thinking by her birthday this year we will have been going out for approx a year and a half. Its going down that road anyway (unless Jenny is leaving it to the last minute to knock at my door!) but is it too soon? Its weird, in her culture we would be married ages ago but normally, people take what? 2-3 years or even longer to ask? I am a tad confused. I'm not even sure in what context she brought it up. Edited March 21, 2014 by Ingram85 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 Once the M word has been mentioned, it is inevitable. Like a ship caught in the Death Stars' tractor beam. Like the slow slide to death in quicksand. Like the falling apart of wishy washy similies. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 Whats the difference though? You've been together 4 years, you've got 2 kids, you live together. You are already married. You just don't have the bit of paper to prove it. I can't see what the additional commitment is that you are so opposed to? In a way, you've said it already for him. They're living together and have two kids, so why do they need the extra piece of paper to prove commitment? Rugeley, would she be willing to do a quick cheap ceremony down at the registry office or does she want the whole shebang? the full hogg mate, thousands Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brommy Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 Maybe it's because you get married, have sex on your wedding night, then neeeeeeeever have sex again by default. It doesn't have to be like that though, does it? Find the right one and there's no reason not to be still getting it 2 to 5 times per week after 20 years of marriage. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowychap Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 (edited) Edit. Edited March 22, 2014 by snowychap Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 I'm to pissed to answer that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 Maybe it's because you get married, have sex on your wedding night, then neeeeeeeever have sex again by default. It doesn't have to be like that though, does it? Find the right one and there's no reason not to be still getting it 2 to 5 times per week after 20 years of marriage. Correct Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFC_Hitz Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 My sex life went up a notch when I got married. Mainly because we weren't allowed to live together before we did...that all ended. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted March 22, 2014 Share Posted March 22, 2014 So the missus has been talking marriage. Just in general I think (I hope!). If I was Indian we would have been married ages ago where as im laid back and would quite happily give it a couple of years yet but out of respect for her & her parents I thought I'd compromise and give it a year or a bit longer. I'm thinking by her birthday this year we will have been going out for approx a year and a half. Its going down that road anyway (unless Jenny is leaving it to the last minute to knock at my door!) but is it too soon? Its weird, in her culture we would be married ages ago but normally, people take what? 2-3 years or even longer to ask? I am a tad confused. I'm not even sure in what context she brought it up. 6 years together before we got married including 1 year of jointly owning a house then about another 4 or 5 years before we seriously considered making the little babies I consider that a fair innings Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 Just been informed that my ex is back on fb after years off it. I've never had an account and I never plan to. Thought she would of grew up a bit but obviously not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 . I think I need a drink Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted March 24, 2014 VT Supporter Share Posted March 24, 2014 My 71 year old Dad is on FB. Does he need to grow up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted March 24, 2014 Share Posted March 24, 2014 Did not mean everyone who uses it needs to grow up. She's gone on their for a reason, so she needs to grow up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted March 24, 2014 VT Supporter Share Posted March 24, 2014 (edited) Gotcha (and sorry, my post came off a lot more sarcastic than I intended!!) Edited March 24, 2014 by Stevo985 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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