Popular Post Stevo985 Posted July 26, 2013 VT Supporter Popular Post Share Posted July 26, 2013 Stevo show us a pic of the one you were out with last weekend and maybe I'll oblige. Your move... 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 26, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 26, 2013 My question / need for advice is: Did i do the right thing with giving this another (third) go? And will my feelings of fear / jealousy fade over time as our relationship grows? First question, yes, I think you did. Second question, in my opinion that shit is never worth worrying about. If you're scared/jealous then maybe she's not right for you? My opinion has always been let her do what she wants. If she cheats on you or whatever then she's a prick anyway so just let her go. Obsessing and being jealous over your gf never looks good. You never hear anyone say "Aww he's so overprotective and paranoid about his gf, that's so nice" I say, give it a go. Chill out. If it works, great. If she **** you over then YOU be the one to end it and get on with your life. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCforever1991 Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 Stevo show us a pic of the one you were out with last weekend and maybe I'll oblige. Your move... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 26, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 26, 2013 I kind of what I should do, I have enough experience in the dating game at 26, but let me give you the scenario anyway. About 9 months ago I got a cute Indian girls number outside House of Fraser, next to the Colmore Business District, those of you from Brum will know where I'm on about. But she barely text back and rarely picked up the phone when I rang when I was trying to get with her. Claiming she was busy etc. So I deleted her number, and deleted her off my facebook. I didn't send any abusive texts or anything like that, I just deleted the number. Tonight out of the blue she has text me saying 'sorry for ignoring your text etc etc' Because I did not have her number anymore, I did not know who it was, so I was shocked when I asked who it was to discover it was her. She's now telling me shes back in Birmingham from Leicester uni for the summer, saying 'I'm only trying to be nice and things of that nature. In that scenario would you talk/text back to her, ignore her or something else? Don't really see any reason why you wouldn't text her back to be honest. Plus you've got the upper hand now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 (edited) Stevo show us a pic of the one you were out with last weekend and maybe I'll oblige. Your move... That is blatantly you in a wig and no 5 oclock shadow. Still would though. Edited July 26, 2013 by Eames Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 26, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 26, 2013 You got me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meath_Villan Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 Stevo show us a pic of the one you were out with last weekend and maybe I'll oblige. Your move... Nice ....she looks dirty in a good way ......does she even squat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 On a serious note....baked goods and lingerie? She's a keeper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PieFacE Posted July 26, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 26, 2013 Nice one Stevo! She's a hottie! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
privateer Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 I kind of what I should do, I have enough experience in the dating game at 26, but let me give you the scenario anyway. About 9 months ago I got a cute Indian girls number outside House of Fraser, next to the Colmore Business District, those of you from Brum will know where I'm on about. But she barely text back and rarely picked up the phone when I rang when I was trying to get with her. Claiming she was busy etc. So I deleted her number, and deleted her off my facebook. I didn't send any abusive texts or anything like that, I just deleted the number. Tonight out of the blue she has text me saying 'sorry for ignoring your text etc etc' Because I did not have her number anymore, I did not know who it was, so I was shocked when I asked who it was to discover it was her. She's now telling me shes back in Birmingham from Leicester uni for the summer, saying 'I'm only trying to be nice and things of that nature. In that scenario would you talk/text back to her, ignore her or something else? Third vote for sacking this off. As you have said, you know what to do. She's ignored you and you've moved on. She's now seeing if jerking the string will move you about and will just see how far and for how long she can do it if you. If you allow it you'll be her ego's summer holiday entertainment as she plays you for a clearing in the woods then she'll ignore you again. Do yourself a favour. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gillz Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 My question / need for advice is: Did i do the right thing with giving this another (third) go? And will my feelings of fear / jealousy fade over time as our relationship grows? First question, yes, I think you did. Second question, in my opinion that shit is never worth worrying about. If you're scared/jealous then maybe she's not right for you? My opinion has always been let her do what she wants. If she cheats on you or whatever then she's a prick anyway so just let her go. Obsessing and being jealous over your gf never looks good. You never hear anyone say "Aww he's so overprotective and paranoid about his gf, that's so nice" I say, give it a go. Chill out. If it works, great. If she **** you over then YOU be the one to end it and get on with your life. Cheers for the advice. This is kinda what of what i was thinking. I do trust her and she is always honest with me. I don't try and stop her going out or having fun and over time my stupid feelings get less and less. What happened did hurt and i guess when i fully get over that these feelings will stop too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 26, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 26, 2013 On a serious note....baked goods and lingerie? She's a keeper. Holy shit, I didn't even realise that was a victoria secrets bag I thought she'd sent me the pic because of the "Ben's Cookies" bag... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 On a serious note....baked goods and lingerie? She's a keeper. Holy shit, I didn't even realise that was a victoria secrets bag I thought she'd sent me the pic because of the "Ben's Cookies" bag... You dopey bastard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 26, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 26, 2013 To be fair I'd only seen it on my phone until I put it here, and it's really hard to make out the words on that bag. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 I zoned in on the cookies too, in fairness. I'm a greedy word removed though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 Yeah the fact that I noticed Stevo's girlfriend had posh knickers probably says more about me than the rest of you......... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 On a serious note....baked goods and lingerie? She's a keeper. Holy shit, I didn't even realise that was a victoria secrets bag I thought she'd sent me the pic because of the "Ben's Cookies" bag... You dopey bastard. Haha, did you reply, "can't wait to get stuck into those" or "my mouth is watering already" if you did, you might have gotten away with it 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Stevo985 Posted July 26, 2013 VT Supporter Popular Post Share Posted July 26, 2013 (edited) No, I said "I prefer mine with nuts in" Haven't heard from her since, now that I think about it... Edited July 26, 2013 by Stevo985 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morley_crosses_to_Withe Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 On a serious note....baked goods and lingerie? She's a keeper. Victoria Secrets lingerie AND Ben's Cookies. The girl has taste. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 Did you last hear from her before or after you posted her picture on a website full of suspect individuals? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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