b6bloke Posted March 4, 2011 Share Posted March 4, 2011 Right Lads, need some advice. Ive got a gf who I have been with for around 4 months, everything is fine between us and I trust her. But there is this guy who she considers a "friend" that really fancies her. She is a beautiful looking girl and its obvious she is going to get male attention, so I have resigned myself to this. But today shit has hit the fan when this friend posted this on her fb wall "One day you will realize that we should be together and run of into the sunset and live happily ever after :)" What should I do? He knows shes with me yet he talks like this to her? I thought about msgn him telling him to stay the **** away but i know my mrs will go ape if I do. She says that hes only messing around but Ive known for ages that he fancies her. I also know that she does not like him in "that way" because she had the opportunity to get with him before she met me but didn't because she only likes him as a friend. Am I over thinking the situation? In all seriousness, do not speak to the guy! If you go behind your gf's back and tell him to stay the **** away, then she won't like that, and you know he'll tell her about it even if you ask him not to. Speak to your gf. Tell her you trust her but him writing stuff like that is crossing the line and you're not comfortable with it. Ash her how she'd feel if a girl was writing that on your wall. Don't piss her off. If she really is friends with this guy then she'll be annoyed if you're too aggressive about it. Just let her know it makes you uncomfortable. Then do her up the wrong 'un This, its what he wants. If you cant then just ring him up and tell him what she does to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alf_stewart Posted March 4, 2011 Share Posted March 4, 2011 Do him up the wrong 'un. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted March 4, 2011 VT Supporter Share Posted March 4, 2011 In all seriousness, do not speak to the guy! If you go behind your gf's back and tell him to stay the **** away, then she won't like that, and you know he'll tell her about it even if you ask him not to. Speak to your gf. Tell her you trust her but him writing stuff like that is crossing the line and you're not comfortable with it. Ask her how she'd feel if a girl was writing that on your wall. Don't piss her off. If she really is friends with this guy then she'll be annoyed if you're too aggressive about it. Just let her know it makes you uncomfortable. Then do her up the wrong 'un That bolded bit my good friend is all you need to read, if she doesnt act on something that is clearly upsetting you then she aint worth your time. Fixed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theunderstudy Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 "How would you like to run away into the sunset with two broken legs?" This. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Right Lads, need some advice. Ive got a gf who I have been with for around 4 months, everything is fine between us and I trust her. But there is this guy who she considers a "friend" that really fancies her. She is a beautiful looking girl and its obvious she is going to get male attention, so I have resigned myself to this. But today shit has hit the fan when this friend posted this on her fb wall "One day you will realize that we should be together and run of into the sunset and live happily ever after :)" What should I do? He knows shes with me yet he talks like this to her? I thought about msgn him telling him to stay the **** away but i know my mrs will go ape if I do. She says that hes only messing around but Ive known for ages that he fancies her. I also know that she does not like him in "that way" because she had the opportunity to get with him before she met me but didn't because she only likes him as a friend. Am I over thinking the situation? It's disrespectful to you!!!!!! I'm shocked at your girl honestly. She should tell him he can't say things like that. But since she hasn't I would *calmly* tell her that it was just uncalled for, joking or not. And you obviously aren't stopping them from being friends but you would appreciate it if that sort of thing didn't happen anymore. She wouldn't like it if some girl was posting stuff like that to you. I promise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theunderstudy Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Also if you are going to beat him to a pulp, whilst your doing that teach him the difference between "of" and "off". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GarethRDR Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Also if you are going to beat him to a pulp, whilst your doing that teach him the difference between "of" and "off". Is there any more gratifying a combination than brutal vigilante justice and grammar lessons? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Also if you are going to beat him to a pulp, whilst your doing that teach him the difference between "of" and "off". Beating someone to a pulp for using poor grammar whilst using poor grammar yourself, FTL. :oops: :winkold: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theunderstudy Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 That was the point Jonathan! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Also if you are going to beat him to a pulp, whilst your doing that teach him the difference between "of" and "off". Is there any more gratifying a combination than brutal vigilante justice and grammar lessons? ^^^^^ This just made my day better!!! And.....no, there isn't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PompeyVillan Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Do him up the wrong 'un. Had to laugh at this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Si. Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Thanks for all the responces folks I talked to her about it and tbh she just finds it funny. Ive told her if he says anything like thst again he is in trouble n she says she will have a quiet word. She says she has been friends with him for years and she has knocked him back so many times that now she just finds him amusing. Still, I aint **** laughing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 As long as she knows your upset by it and she does summat about it then thats fine, id just leave it now. Good work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFC-Prideofbrum Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Why would you even post that on someone's FB wall when they are clearly not single, at least do it on chat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scottyav Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 my partner who dumped me in my hospital bed while ill after 20 yrs together 16 months ago has had a chap sniffing around and hes been told in no uncertain terms carry on and you will end up in a hole, i know i prob shouldnt have made him cry but hes got the point and has dissapeared now im still gutted 16 months on tbh and i should move on but she was my world Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Si. Posted March 5, 2011 Share Posted March 5, 2011 Why would you even post that on someone's FB wall when they are clearly not single, at least do it on chat.To get to me obv POB. Hoping id take it out on her when in reality, shes done nothing wrong. Clever **** when you think about it. But I wont let him cause shit between us. Bones will break if it happens again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guyavfc Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 Anyone had problems 'getting it up' when pissed? haha Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milfner Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 I take it you have then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonno_2004 Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 my partner who dumped me in my hospital bed while ill after 20 yrs together 16 months ago has had a chap sniffing around and hes been told in no uncertain terms carry on and you will end up in a hole, i know i prob shouldnt have made him cry but hes got the point and has dissapeared now im still gutted 16 months on tbh and i should move on but she was my worldIt's not his fault she dumped you though is it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guyavfc Posted March 10, 2011 Share Posted March 10, 2011 I take it you have then? Well last night i pulled a fit girl and went back to hers did a bit of this and that with her. I've heard lots of stories about mates who couldn't get an erection when pissed. Didn't help it was my first time, but she was doing everything to try and get it up but it just wouldn't haha. In fact tbh i wasn't even really pissed, felt a bit sick too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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