knoppy1987 Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 Go for it! You sound like you really like her and don't think about stuff like 'punching above your weight' or anything like that - she likes you and that is all that matters. Women are generally less shallow than men anyway! Haha they must be and some very good points made. The confidence prior to this had just taken quite a big dent but as you allude, nothing to hold back on. Cheers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrisp65 Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 enjoy it knoppy, if she's the one it'll be fantastic, if she isn't, well 5 years from now she'll be a funny anecdote have fun and enjoy life and don't make the love life more important than breathing in and out not until you're absolutely bang certain anyway 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 pack it in and dedicate your time to football manager. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morley_crosses_to_Withe Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 It's dificult to provide sound advice unless photos of the new woman are posted. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knoppy1987 Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 enjoy it knoppy, if she's the one it'll be fantastic, if she isn't, well 5 years from now she'll be a funny anecdote have fun and enjoy life and don't make the love life more important than breathing in and out not until you're absolutely bang certain anyway Well I've been there before haha. You're absolutely spot on mate; there is of course more to life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knoppy1987 Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 pack it in and dedicate your time to football manager. Hahaha I've fell into that trap far too many times. Wasted many years on that glorious game. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted May 26, 2015 Share Posted May 26, 2015 All the best knoppy! Good luck to you mate, even if it doesn't work out at least you get to smash her flaps for a while! Go for it chap 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
choffer Posted May 26, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted May 26, 2015 If you think she's so far out of your league, there'll be an obvious reason why she's slumming it with you. My guess would be that she's got a willy. Or maybe I'm just presuming that because it happened to me, it'll happen to you? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrackpotForeigner Posted May 26, 2015 Share Posted May 26, 2015 Men who marry women who aren't out of their league are making a terrible, terrible mistake. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
knoppy1987 Posted May 26, 2015 Share Posted May 26, 2015 All the best knoppy! Good luck to you mate, even if it doesn't work out at least you get to smash her flaps for a while! Go for it chap Haha amazing way of putting it. I'm on the case, Cheers pal. If you think she's so far out of your league, there'll be an obvious reason why she's slumming it with you. My guess would be that she's got a willy. Or maybe I'm just presuming that because it happened to me, it'll happen to you? That would be a travesty. How did you cope? Men who marry women who aren't out of their league are making a terrible, terrible mistake. I like this sentiment. I think the ex-wife to be was probably in my league - top six and I was mid-table. As a human being I was Maldini (sure he hasn't bolloxed much up) she was Maradona. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 Get your beak wet as many times as you can 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 if she pisses out of two holes shes a keeper. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 I'm in a mess. The sensible thing to do for everybody is to end my current relationship but the short term will suck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 Sounds like you already know what you should do, plus it wouldn't be fair on your current girlfriend to string her along. Just gotta man up and bite the bullet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 Yeah. The whole issue is: I'm leaving Poland on Thursday. She's 20, dropped out of university (nothing to do with me), not got a job or anything over here, never lived anywhere but her parents house, in less than a year out of high school (they finish at 19 in Poland) If she stays in Poland, she'll have wasted a year but she can study starting September and it's free over here. The other option (and what we've talked about a lot) is her coming over to England and going to college. However, we're miles away with regards to maturity (i've lived on my own for 4 years), qualifications (I don't want to support somebody at 23) and she'll be living in a foreign country having only been together for 6 months. In addition to that, we argue over ridiculous shit. We fell out today because I wanted a day to myself because we're spending the next 3 days solid together. Tough conversation next time I see her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post CrackpotForeigner Posted June 7, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted June 7, 2015 (edited) One possibility is to make her think it's her idea: Option 1: You've always been a secret Jehovah's Witness/Neo-Nazi/Chelsea fan, and can remain silent no longer Option 2: You're dreading going back home because you have to live with and look after your criminally insane 34 year old brother that you've always been too embarrassed to mention Option 3: You want kids immediately, and you've only been keen on her because you've decided she's good breeding stock [although this option could turn bad]. Edited June 7, 2015 by CrackpotForeigner 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 You're doing the right thing, the last thing you want to be doing is supporting someone at 23. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chrisp65 Posted June 7, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted June 7, 2015 I think you should have a massive dirty shag where you introduce lots of new weird stuff to your love making. Then sit down and have a serious talk about how you can't see a future together. It's important to do this in the correct order. 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 I'm in a mess. The sensible thing to do for everybody is to end my current relationship but the short term will suck. silly question but are you in love with her, or do you at least think you could be? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted June 7, 2015 Share Posted June 7, 2015 Slip three knuckle deep in her fart pipe then dump her after. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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