Stevo, i get the worried smiley you posted, im not sure how I'd feel if a gf started doing pole fit classes, obviously its getting more popular amongst ladies as a fun and 'harmless' way to keep fit but I'd always have a niggling feeling in the back of my mind about the potential pathways it may lead to. I'm not sure I'd like it tbf but I wouldn't want to come across as controlling so wouldn't stop her. Bit of a weird one that.