There's no suggestion Benteke is forcing a move away. He's simply handed in a transfer request, which we'll accept if our conditions are met. That's how football works, and until he actually starts acting up, there's nothing to suggest he's forcing anything. What he's done is making his desires known, it's up to us to either allow the transfer to happen or not.
You could argue that Suarez us actually being a dick, not handing in a transfer request, while seemingly giving interviews to Uruguayan media, praising Madrid, and complaining about his reputation in England.
Yes I'd rather Benteke did that.