Eames Posted May 24, 2012 Share Posted May 24, 2012 Word. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted May 24, 2012 Share Posted May 24, 2012 Date night could be a good idea. Set aside one night a week where we just hang out and do something together rather than just coasting through the week making do. Would probably make me feel better and like I'm getting some attention. Can I have some testosterone whilst you're over there wiggy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted May 24, 2012 Author Share Posted May 24, 2012 Im going over to the testosterone shop...anyone want anything? I'll take a bucket! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted May 24, 2012 Author Share Posted May 24, 2012 Date night could be a good idea. Set aside one night a week where we just hang out and do something together rather than just coasting through the week making do. Would probably make me feel better and like I'm getting some attention. Can I have some testosterone whilst you're over there wiggy? Yup. I do 'Date night' great now it's summer as can sit outside in the pub and talk, walks, Orange Wednesday, Meal out, squash...my only advice would be get out of the house. Now Wiggy....hurry up with that **** bucket! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted May 28, 2012 Author Share Posted May 28, 2012 Dante, did you manage to sort everything out? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rjw63 Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 He's been attacked with a 7 inch stiletto Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 Dante, did you manage to sort everything out? Yeah, it's all good. She admitted she was a bit offish and she usually does it around that time into a relationship. Everything starts pissing her off about the person and then they get the hump and it ends. I sort of stuck around, kept asking her what was wrong, made an effort etc... She's apologised, is thankful that I'm awesome and we had a wicked weekend. Basically it was like we'd just started dating again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shillzz Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 Just celebrated being with my girlfriend for 6 months. Really nice weekend, couldnt be happier. We plan to ditch everything off (house, job, car, the lot) and go travelling next year, which is probably a stupid thing to do, but you only live once. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 I sort of stuck around, kept asking her what was wrong, made an effort etc... She's apologised, is thankful that I'm awesome and we had a wicked weekend. Basically it was like we'd just started dating again. wooooooaaaaahhh, they HATE that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted May 28, 2012 Author Share Posted May 28, 2012 Dante, did you manage to sort everything out? Yeah, it's all good. She admitted she was a bit offish and she usually does it around that time into a relationship. Everything starts pissing her off about the person and then they get the hump and it ends. I sort of stuck around, kept asking her what was wrong, made an effort etc... She's apologised, is thankful that I'm awesome and we had a wicked weekend. Basically it was like we'd just started dating again. Glad for you mate. It seems you are not the only one with insecurities in the relationship. I hope it works out, pal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted May 28, 2012 Author Share Posted May 28, 2012 Just celebrated being with my girlfriend for 6 months. Really nice weekend, couldnt be happier. We plan to ditch everything off (house, job, car, the lot) and go travelling next year, which is probably a stupid thing to do, but you only live once. Best time to do it. As no one is getting real good career progression in this market place. Just hope one of you has something to come back to. Go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shillzz Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 I sort of stuck around, kept asking her what was wrong, made an effort etc... She's apologised, is thankful that I'm awesome and we had a wicked weekend. Basically it was like we'd just started dating again. wooooooaaaaahhh, they HATE that. Would have to agree here. If you say it too often, then they'll start to ask themselves what's wrong, even if nothing was wrong in the first place. It's like you shouldn't natter on about your own imperfections too much, because whilst they probably would'nt have noticed it in the first place, you're just drawing more and more attention to it until it starts to bother them too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shillzz Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 Just celebrated being with my girlfriend for 6 months. Really nice weekend, couldnt be happier. We plan to ditch everything off (house, job, car, the lot) and go travelling next year, which is probably a stupid thing to do, but you only live once. Best time to do it. As no one is getting real good career progression in this market place. Just hope one of you has something to come back to. Go for it. Neither of us will have anything to come back to, which makes it a bit of a leap into the unknown, but what the hell. The actual plan is to rent my house out, and work my way back to being able to afford to pay for it myself when I come back. If it goes tits up, then I'll just sell it and pocket the profits. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dante_Lockhart Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 I sort of stuck around, kept asking her what was wrong, made an effort etc... She's apologised, is thankful that I'm awesome and we had a wicked weekend. Basically it was like we'd just started dating again. wooooooaaaaahhh, they HATE that. Would have to agree here. If you say it too often, then they'll start to ask themselves what's wrong, even if nothing was wrong in the first place. It's like you shouldn't natter on about your own imperfections too much, because whilst they probably would'nt have noticed it in the first place, you're just drawing more and more attention to it until it starts to bother them too! If I know something is wrong, then I'll ask. And I knew something was wrong. It's all good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shillzz Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 I sort of stuck around, kept asking her what was wrong, made an effort etc... She's apologised, is thankful that I'm awesome and we had a wicked weekend. Basically it was like we'd just started dating again. wooooooaaaaahhh, they HATE that. Would have to agree here. If you say it too often, then they'll start to ask themselves what's wrong, even if nothing was wrong in the first place. It's like you shouldn't natter on about your own imperfections too much, because whilst they probably would'nt have noticed it in the first place, you're just drawing more and more attention to it until it starts to bother them too! If I know something is wrong, then I'll ask. And I knew something was wrong. It's all good. In fairness, I'm the world's worst for asking. And my girlfriend actually seems to appreciate it, shows a caring side. It's certainly a fine line. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irreverentad Posted May 28, 2012 Author Share Posted May 28, 2012 I sort of stuck around, kept asking her what was wrong, made an effort etc... She's apologised, is thankful that I'm awesome and we had a wicked weekend. Basically it was like we'd just started dating again. wooooooaaaaahhh, they HATE that. Would have to agree here. If you say it too often, then they'll start to ask themselves what's wrong, even if nothing was wrong in the first place. It's like you shouldn't natter on about your own imperfections too much, because whilst they probably would'nt have noticed it in the first place, you're just drawing more and more attention to it until it starts to bother them too! Tis true. I have a hole in my belly button. Now she always mentions it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted May 28, 2012 VT Supporter Share Posted May 28, 2012 I sort of stuck around, kept asking her what was wrong, made an effort etc... She's apologised, is thankful that I'm awesome and we had a wicked weekend. Basically it was like we'd just started dating again. wooooooaaaaahhh, they HATE that. Yeah, but then they get super pissed off when you accept their answer that nothing's wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted May 28, 2012 VT Supporter Share Posted May 28, 2012 If you are a bloke and you have fallen into the "What's wrong?" trap, you have already LOST. Just accept it, and prepare to take your kicking. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 I sort of stuck around, kept asking her what was wrong, made an effort etc... She's apologised, is thankful that I'm awesome and we had a wicked weekend. Basically it was like we'd just started dating again. wooooooaaaaahhh, they HATE that. Yeah, but then they get super pissed off when you accept their answer that nothing's wrong. Disagree, she gets one chance to answer the "what's wrong" question honestly. If she says nothing then she's on her own. Not trying to sound like a nobhead. Its just how it works in our house. If she says nothing then I just give her a bit of space and leave her too it. 9 times out of 10 she'll then come and find me and let me know what's on her mind and we'll work through it. If she's in a mood and I keep asking what is wrong she gets her wish of someone to snap at. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted May 28, 2012 Share Posted May 28, 2012 Yes, space is the answer. Lots of space. Ideally the space between the house and the pub. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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