Si. Posted December 8, 2014 Share Posted December 8, 2014 Anybody got any helpful tips on moving on/letting go? Ive been split up with my long term partner for nearly 5 weeks now. At first i was ok, but as time has gone on and the more people tell me of what shes getting up to now, I feel broken. Ive started the gym again which has helped. But I've also been hitting the booze hard as well as A class drugs, which make everything better for so long then everything a million times worse when you wake up with a comedown the next morning. Im a mess and I really don't know what to do. I'd kill her so she can never be happy again. I jest, it's a tough one as everyone deals with it differently. I have been in the situation you have been in before and it is hard. I split up over Christmas and for a few months I thought she would come to her senses and get back with me... when i found out she was dating someone else I felt lower then ever. I got drunk, texted her some hurtful things and she responded by saying it would be for the best if we cut contact completely (we had kept some contact prior - odd text, email, etc) The complete lack of contact was a godsend as I moved on with life and started dating again. You have to accept she doesn't want to be with you anymore. Be grateful of the good times you had together and the memories, you will always have them but you need to look forward and not back. Do you think if she has moved on and is enjoying life and she knows you are getting drunk and high at home she is going to regret her decision? Hardly. What you need to do is stop drinking heavily and doing the drugs and get out with your mates for meals and social events. Surround yourself with good people and you won't mope so much. Keep in there pal, it will get easier with time Thanks Xela mate I just can't wait for 2015. Fresh start and all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 I don't know why I continue being surprised, but some women are a little bit mental. I've made no secret to this girl that I met recently that I'm interested in her, not that I think that I'd been laying it on too thick, but I guess she thought I had. Anyway, I've been ill the last few days and saw her today when I was feeling rough. She texted me a bit ago saying how I was 'kinda sexy' and 'smouldering'. Completely out of the blue. I just had a thick head and a cough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 She clearly wants your blood sausage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 smoulder (ˈsməʊldə) or smolder vb (intr) 1. to burn slowly without flame, usually emitting smoke 2. (esp of anger, etc) to exist in a suppressed or half-suppressed state 3. to have strong repressed or half repressed feelings, esp anger Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MakemineVanilla Posted December 9, 2014 Share Posted December 9, 2014 I don't know why I continue being surprised, but some women are a little bit mental. I've made no secret to this girl that I met recently that I'm interested in her, not that I think that I'd been laying it on too thick, but I guess she thought I had. Anyway, I've been ill the last few days and saw her today when I was feeling rough. She texted me a bit ago saying how I was 'kinda sexy' and 'smouldering'. Completely out of the blue. I just had a thick head and a cough. If your name is Boldwood and her name is Bathsheba, it is probably best ignored. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baselayers Posted December 10, 2014 Share Posted December 10, 2014 I don't know why I continue being surprised, but some women are a little bit mental. I've made no secret to this girl that I met recently that I'm interested in her, not that I think that I'd been laying it on too thick, but I guess she thought I had. Anyway, I've been ill the last few days and saw her today when I was feeling rough. She texted me a bit ago saying how I was 'kinda sexy' and 'smouldering'. Completely out of the blue. I just had a thick head and a cough. Maybe she has a phlegm fetish? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brommy Posted December 10, 2014 Share Posted December 10, 2014 I don't know why I continue being surprised, but some women are a little bit mental. I've made no secret to this girl that I met recently that I'm interested in her, not that I think that I'd been laying it on too thick, but I guess she thought I had. Anyway, I've been ill the last few days and saw her today when I was feeling rough. She texted me a bit ago saying how I was 'kinda sexy' and 'smouldering'. Completely out of the blue. I just had a thick head and a cough. Maybe she has a phlegm fetish? Or fancied the thick head? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 I suggest the firm hand of a dominatrix. or the wet hand of a squirter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted December 11, 2014 Share Posted December 11, 2014 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frobisher Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 I suggest the firm hand of a dominatrix. or the wet hand of a squirter. Just don't film it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted December 12, 2014 Share Posted December 12, 2014 very true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Davkaus Posted December 14, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted December 14, 2014 I had another first date last night. No nazi tattoos, and she isn't married, so far, so good. Went to the Christmas market, drank some mulled wine, both agreed it was disgusting, then went to a few bars and spent the evening chatting. Seemed to be a good night, but I probably had a couple too many. Talking to her this morning, she was a little...off, and then asked if I remembered the bit just before we called it a night when I told her I wanted to **** her right there in the bar. Oops. Still, we're meeting again, so I think she's a keeper. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 Well at least she knows you are attracted to her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djdabush Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 I had another first date last night. No nazi tattoos, and she isn't married, so far, so good. Went to the Christmas market, drank some mulled wine, both agreed it was disgusting, then went to a few bars and spent the evening chatting. Seemed to be a good night, but I probably had a couple too many. Talking to her this morning, she was a little...off, and then asked if I remembered the bit just before we called it a night when I told her I wanted to **** her right there in the bar. Oops. Still, we're meeting again, so I think she's a keeper. No wonder she was little off, you didn't tell her you wanted to DHUTWU right there in the bar. How shameful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 i remember pulling this bird a few years back and i was talking to her at the bar and for some strange reason i just dropped my jeans and boxers, she then threw her drink over me and told me to F off. next thing i know im brawling with the bouncers with my kegs around my ankles, alcohol does strange things to ones mind. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 i remember pulling this bird a few years back and i was talking to her at the bar and for some strange reason i just dropped my jeans and boxers, she then threw her drink over me and told me to F off. next thing i know im brawling with the bouncers with my kegs around my ankles, alcohol does strange things to ones mind. Sounds like a quiet Monday night for you mate Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 great days Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chrisp65 Posted December 14, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted December 14, 2014 great days great days indeed but the parent teachers fund raising evening in the main hall of St Josephine's Mixed Infants was neither the right time or place and you know it 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baselayers Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 i remember pulling this bird a few years back and i was talking to her at the bar and for some strange reason i just dropped my jeans and boxers, she then threw her drink over me and told me to F off. next thing i know im brawling with the bouncers with my kegs around my ankles, alcohol does strange things to ones mind. I reckon a night drinking with you would be amazing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted December 14, 2014 Share Posted December 14, 2014 Sounds like an offer there Ruge! So it appears I'm getting married in a Sikh temple in September. Providing the geezer in charge okays it. Should be fun. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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