mjmooney Posted February 10, 2011 VT Supporter Share Posted February 10, 2011 That sums me up I guess... without the good looks! That was what made it so odd. This guy was like a **** Greek god, I couldn't believe he would have trouble with women. I guess in the long run he didn't, because they were willing to make ALL the running, and to hell with their reputations. Lucky bastard. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 I'm shit at talking to people face to face, unless I've known them a while. Confidence is a big big problem of mine. It holds me back a lot. Everyone gets it on here because I deliver it flawlessly in print, and most people have the same sense of HUMOUR () as me! Flawlessly? And you say you have no confidence. You're just over thinking it. Or is it the same as the above story and we just need to get a girl to drag you to bed? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiggyrichard Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 I'm shit at talking to people face to face, unless I've known them a while. Confidence is a big big problem of mine. It holds me back a lot. Everyone gets it on here because I deliver it flawlessly in print, and most people have the same sense of HUMOUR () as me! Flawlessly? And you say you have no confidence. You're just over thinking it. Or is it the same as the above story and we just need to get a girl to drag you to bed? Talking to someone face to face and writing them are letter are miles apart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theunderstudy Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 Probably the latter! As I said, I have minimal confidence in social situations - as anyone who's met me in real life on here can testify.... And I can write for England Scotland Ireland and the Outer Hebrides! I can't talk in front of loads of people. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted February 10, 2011 VT Supporter Share Posted February 10, 2011 Perhaps the Victorian art of letter writing had its place? Arguably, the internet has seen a revival of correspondence as a basis for developing relationships. There are probably thousands of couples by now who first "met" on the internet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theunderstudy Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 The internet does help you establish relationships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 I'm shit at talking to people face to face, unless I've known them a while. Confidence is a big big problem of mine. It holds me back a lot. Everyone gets it on here because I deliver it flawlessly in print, and most people have the same sense of HUMOUR () as me! Flawlessly? And you say you have no confidence. You're just over thinking it. Or is it the same as the above story and we just need to get a girl to drag you to bed? Talking to someone face to face and writing them are letter are miles apart. This is where I think I stop understanding. I get the rejection part. I get the feeling like a jackass part. Or not knowing how to approach the situation even. But talking to someone is nothing to me. It's just as easy as writing on here. In fact reading about how picky you guys are about certain topics gives me a slight with hold that I wouldn't have in person. It's just a person guys. Either they become someone who you can enjoy. Or they don't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theunderstudy Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 You're a woman! You love to talk! Anyway, must be off. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 The internet does help you establish relationships. Well this is definitely true. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted February 10, 2011 VT Supporter Share Posted February 10, 2011 Actually, if my club is anything to go by, joining a running club is a very good idea. When I joined six years ago, it was 60-40 men to women (and the women tended to be middle-aged). Since then, there has been a boom in womens' running, and the ratio has probably reversed, with a HUGE influx of young women. Most of whom are - virtually by definition - "fit". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted February 10, 2011 VT Supporter Share Posted February 10, 2011 I'm shit at talking to people face to face, unless I've known them a while. Confidence is a big big problem of mine. It holds me back a lot. Everyone gets it on here because I deliver it flawlessly in print, and most people have the same sense of HUMOUR () as me! Flawlessly? And you say you have no confidence. You're just over thinking it. Or is it the same as the above story and we just need to get a girl to drag you to bed? Talking to someone face to face and writing them are letter are miles apart. This is where I think I stop understanding. I get the rejection part. I get the feeling like a jackass part. Or not knowing how to approach the situation even. But talking to someone is nothing to me. It's just as easy as writing on here. In fact reading about how picky you guys are about certain topics gives me a slight with hold that I wouldn't have in person. It's just a person guys. Either they become someone who you can enjoy. Or they don't. Yeah, I agree. Like I said, that was never a problem for me, it was just not knowing how to get from the "amazing conversations" to the "amazing sex"! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wiggyrichard Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 I'm shit at talking to people face to face, unless I've known them a while. Confidence is a big big problem of mine. It holds me back a lot. Everyone gets it on here because I deliver it flawlessly in print, and most people have the same sense of HUMOUR () as me! Flawlessly? And you say you have no confidence. You're just over thinking it. Or is it the same as the above story and we just need to get a girl to drag you to bed? Talking to someone face to face and writing them are letter are miles apart. This is where I think I stop understanding. I get the rejection part. I get the feeling like a jackass part. Or not knowing how to approach the situation even. But talking to someone is nothing to me. It's just as easy as writing on here. In fact reading about how picky you guys are about certain topics gives me a slight with hold that I wouldn't have in person. It's just a person guys. Either they become someone who you can enjoy. Or they don't. I agree with you and i myself have never found it hard speaking to people, but a lot of people crumple when stood in front of someone but maybe able to put it into words on paper so very easily. Its strange, i suppose its all to do with personal comfort zones. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 Oh and Wiggy, yes. I do think if you ask 30 hot women if they will have sex with you, at least one will. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjmooney Posted February 10, 2011 VT Supporter Share Posted February 10, 2011 Oh and Wiggy, yes. I do think if you ask 30 hot women if they will have sex with you, at least one will.Which one is it? :winkold: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 *whispers* The slutty one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PompeyVillan Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 I had a mate that swears by the 'one in ten' rule. He'll walk around the night club mostly getting politely rejected and occasionally slapped, but more often than not he'll find himself a lady who is game. Not how you're going to find 'the one', but it'll get you laid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milfner Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 mjmooney is bang on. ME, if women had to do all the running then you'd be saying the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ME Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 mjmooney agreed with me. And according to you, the women do have to come to you. So they probably do feel the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Awol Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 I had a mate that swears by the 'one in ten' rule. He'll walk around the night club mostly getting politely rejected and occasionally slapped, but more often than not he'll find himself a lady who is game. If (moderately attractive) women did that it would be called the 'one in one' rule. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milfner Posted February 10, 2011 Share Posted February 10, 2011 mjmooney agreed with me. And according to you, the women do have to come to you. So they probably do feel the same. In a roundabout way, yes he did. Touché, but it's not like it happens all the time however. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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