Demitri_C Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 Heres a question for you guys in relationships. Do you still use rubbers or not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 2 minutes ago, Xela said: The longer I stay single, the less i'm bothered about sex. Don't get me wrong, if I met someone who I liked then i'd be going like the duracell bunny, but I'm not actively looking for it. If it happens, it happens. From what I read from your posts you do the single childless life pretty well. You don’t waste away your life getting pissed and wasted , you have a plan , you ain’t arsed about sleeping about which is a positive. You do your breaks and feel comfortable in your own company. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 Just now, Demitri_C said: Heres a question for you guys in relationships. Do you still use rubbers or not? No, even in my single days I rarely wore them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Rds1983 Posted October 2, 2023 VT Supporter Popular Post Share Posted October 2, 2023 2 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: Heres a question for you guys in relationships. Do you still use rubbers or not? Not after spending nearly £30k on unsuccessful IVF. 4 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 Me and my wife have not ever had unprotected sex as she doesnt want to have children and she doesnt want to take the pill. She had a coil but it gave her a terrible skin reaction. It works for us but i just couldnt pull it out quickly as i know some guys do that Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rds1983 Posted October 2, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted October 2, 2023 2 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: Me and my wife have not ever had unprotected sex as she doesnt want to have children and she doesnt want to take the pill. She had a coil but it gave her a terrible skin reaction. It works for us but i just couldnt pull it out quickly as i know some guys do that 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 Just now, Rds1983 said: Ill pass ! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 11 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: Heres a question for you guys in relationships. Do you still use rubbers or not? I haven’t worn one for about 20 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xela Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 12 minutes ago, Rugeley Villa said: From what I read from your posts you do the single childless life pretty well. You don’t waste away your life getting pissed and wasted , you have a plan , you ain’t arsed about sleeping about which is a positive. You do your breaks and feel comfortable in your own company. I am comfortable with my own company... helped no doubt by being an only child! I do have some close friends, but we don't need to see each other all the time. We can go a few weeks and then pick up where we left off. Some weekends I'm happy that I won't speak to another human. Other times I can get a bit lonely... mainly for companionship, rather than a physical relationship. I don't think i could ever live with anyone ever again! I'm too set in my ways now. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 3 minutes ago, Xela said: I am comfortable with my own company... helped no doubt by being an only child! I do have some close friends, but we don't need to see each other all the time. We can go a few weeks and then pick up where we left off. Some weekends I'm happy that I won't speak to another human. Other times I can get a bit lonely... mainly for companionship, rather than a physical relationship. I don't think i could ever live with anyone ever again! I'm too set in my ways now. I get that . I can go months without speaking or seeing friends not that I have that many these days . I’m not really a people person either. This one was an only child too. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomav84 Posted October 2, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted October 2, 2023 20 minutes ago, Rugeley Villa said: No, even in my single days I rarely wore them. same. consider myself lucky in hindsight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 15 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: Me and my wife have not ever had unprotected sex as she doesnt want to have children and she doesnt want to take the pill. She had a coil but it gave her a terrible skin reaction. It works for us but i just couldnt pull it out quickly as i know some guys do that Thing is blokes that pull out still get women pregnant. It’s called pre cum . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Demitri_C Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 10 minutes ago, Genie said: I haven’t worn one for about 20 years. I literally cannot remember what its like without one as its been that long Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rugeley Villa Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 Just now, tomav84 said: same. consider myself lucky in hindsight. I’ve caught a couple of unsavoury things but it’s part and parcel of the game . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Genie Posted October 2, 2023 Popular Post Share Posted October 2, 2023 5 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: I literally cannot remember what its like without one as its been that long About 50x better 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobzy Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 30 minutes ago, Demitri_C said: Heres a question for you guys in relationships. Do you still use rubbers or not? Nah, haven't ever used a rubber with the missus to be honest. But, as you say in follow up posts, if it's the contraception that works for you as a couple then so be it really. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tomav84 Posted October 2, 2023 VT Supporter Share Posted October 2, 2023 7 minutes ago, Rugeley Villa said: I’ve caught a couple of unsavoury things but it’s part and parcel of the game . no kids, no clap for me as i said, very lucky Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Zen Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 3 hours ago, Rds1983 said: No doubt each time also lasts a good 40 to 50 minutes and your Mrs can't get enough as you're so amazing but it's just so frustrating for you. Or was that some other Scandinavian poster who claimed that on here a while back? I have no idea if another Scandi VT’er made such claims or not, but f*** it, I’ll just go ahead and claim all of that except the bit about it being frustrating Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Zen Posted October 2, 2023 Share Posted October 2, 2023 3 hours ago, Demitri_C said: Heres a question for you guys in relationships. Do you still use rubbers or not? I hope, with some confidence, I’ll never have to wear one of those things ever again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Talldarkandransome Posted October 3, 2023 Share Posted October 3, 2023 This thread has gone a bit weird since yesterday. I tried using a rubber once when I was younger, didnt enjoy it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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