Meath_Villan Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 Cheers guys, to me it isn't much of an issue but wanted to see other peoples perception of it. I'm more worried of her coming to the realisation I'm a miserable 28 year old going on 70 but so far so good and ginger Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 I think it depends on the girl. It's like anyone really, you can get very mature, intelligent 20-year-olds just like you can get extremely immature and stupid 40-year-olds. There's a 20-year-old daughter of one of my mum's friends who has a bit of a thing for me but she's like a child in a woman's body. Unfortunately for me, that body is fantastic, but I couldn't possibly go out with her, she drives me nuts and is very strange. She has a doll that she sleeps with every night and apparently the girl goes mental if she can't find the thing. Not worth it. I assume this girl you like is pretty normal and quite mature though, Ingram? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AVFCforever1991 Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 I think it depends on the girl. It's like anyone really, you can get very mature, intelligent 20-year-olds just like you can get extremely immature and stupid 40-year-olds. There's a 20-year-old daughter of one of my mum's friends who has a bit of a thing for me but she's like a child in a woman's body. Unfortunately for me, that body is fantastic, but I couldn't possibly go out with her, she drives me nuts and is very strange. She has a doll that she sleeps with every night and apparently the girl goes mental if she can't find the thing. Not worth it. I assume this girl you like is pretty normal and quite mature though, Ingram? Jimmy Savile like's this... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meath_Villan Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 A man cannot turn down a pair of twenty year old tittys Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 I could only date someone who would get my obscure references to early 90s morning T.V. cartoons. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8pints Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 A man cannot turn down a pair of twenty year old tittys She had her boob-job twenty years ago and is ready for you MV Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 She is mature, she likes game of thrones and plays final fantasy. I'm not sure I require anything else from her tbh. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted July 3, 2013 Share Posted July 3, 2013 (edited) I don't see the point in dating anyone until they are settled in their own lives. If said 20 year old has finished university or found herself in a job that has long-term career prospects, then I can see she may be worth the hassle, but at 20 there is too many variables and she could be a completely different person within five years. I mean, were you the same person at 20 and 25?* *But this is a problem I have with marriage and long term relationships generally. People are not fixed objects. They change and feelings are ultimately too fickle to bank on. Edited July 3, 2013 by CarewsEyebrowDesigner Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Avflife Posted July 4, 2013 Share Posted July 4, 2013 Don't believe in sex before marriage also believe one day a zombie apocalypse will take place Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 4, 2013 Share Posted July 4, 2013 Typical 'me' post for this topic: is going up town, having a wander round, grab a bite to eat, few drinks, sea life centre (she likes otters) or something ok for a low key/semi casual first meet up? My plan is to see how that goes then ask her out properly to dinner. Sounds ok right? [/over analysis] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8pints Posted July 4, 2013 Share Posted July 4, 2013 Sounds really good, don't get me wrong but quarter to two in the morning might not be the right time to do that, she may be a night owl and that'd be brilliant in a compatibility sense but, it's just, I'm not sure the sea life centre is open at this time, so you might be disappointed. Don't want to trample on your low key/semi casual love dreams or anything, just a heads up. Yes I am joking and not serious. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 4, 2013 Share Posted July 4, 2013 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
8pints Posted July 4, 2013 Share Posted July 4, 2013 I did say you'd be disappointed. Although, saying all this, well writing it, if you do conduct your plans at a social hour, as you may or may not have intended all along. It sounds like a great idea. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted July 4, 2013 Share Posted July 4, 2013 Indeed you did. Cheers bud, yeah won't be till Monday afternoon due to work but she is the first girl I've met in a while where I'm actually looking forward to seeing where it leads to and doing the whole first date thing rather than forcing myself to go through the motions and rigmarole of the initial dates. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted July 4, 2013 Share Posted July 4, 2013 ...she is the first girl I've met in a while where I'm actually looking forward to seeing where it leads to and doing the whole first date thing rather than forcing myself to go through the motions and rigmarole of the initial dates. Ah yes, those were the days, all that effort knowing that a roll in the hay was pretty unlikely. You should plan the first 5 dates to be all in the first week to try and get that phase over as soon as possible Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skarroki Posted July 10, 2013 Share Posted July 10, 2013 I've had a bit of an issue with a girl recently. I want to make it clear that I don't consider myself a cocky guy; quite the opposite. the problem I have is that despite liking her, I have this fear that if we start to get closer then another girl will come along who I prefer and I'll be "stuck" with the first girl. this probably sounds completely mad but I feel like a bit of a t0sser telling a friend or someone because I presume the reaction "who the f**k do you think you are" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Genie Posted July 10, 2013 Share Posted July 10, 2013 A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush You can't live your life on would could happen. If she's the kind of girl who will only make a move out of jealousy then you don't need her and it wouldn't work anyway. Go for the first girl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted July 10, 2013 VT Supporter Share Posted July 10, 2013 I've had a bit of an issue with a girl recently. I want to make it clear that I don't consider myself a cocky guy; quite the opposite. the problem I have is that despite liking her, I have this fear that if we start to get closer then another girl will come along who I prefer and I'll be "stuck" with the first girl. this probably sounds completely mad but I feel like a bit of a t0sser telling a friend or someone because I presume the reaction "who the f**k do you think you are" You're never stuck with someone. If you go out with her and someone better comes along then break up with the first girl. That doesn't make you a dick or anything, quite the opposite. With this attitude I'd say you're actually more likely to end up "settling". You'll shun any girl that comes along in case someone better is on the horizon and end up with nobody. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted July 10, 2013 Share Posted July 10, 2013 A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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