StefanAVFC Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Bickering. So much bickering. I still love her to pieces but did anyone else start seeing every little annoying thing around 4/5 months in? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 How long you been seeing her? Only a couple of months, but was totally smitten to be honest. Thought she was a corker. But as with all women its just a smokescreen, absolute head case I think. So do I go back to get my sack emptied, or do I run for the hills? DHUTWU The reason I got binned is a classic to be honest, you lot will love it. I got hold of some viagra and dropped half a tablet before going round her gaff for a bit of leg over. Anyway, smashed it into bits, like a cheap garden shed. She asked in the morning after being rodgered countless times "were did that come from?" I admitted the extra help I had. She went nuts and threw me out, said she was sick of "lies and deceit". I thought most birds would give a pat on the back and say "good well done stud" I'm not saying I have some Mel Gibson like insight into the female mind here but, to be fair to her what you've basically said (in female speak) is: "to be honest love you're not that fit and I can't find it in myself to give it my all for sexy time so I needed a bit of chemical support." and from that point of view shes probably a bit hurt, pissed off and insecure. Had she known about the V before she may have been ok. If you like her.... go back, if you don't **** her off and move on. Up to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Bickering. So much bickering. I still love her to pieces but did anyone else start seeing every little annoying thing around 4/5 months in? strange. this experience must be unique to you. usually the more time you spend around someone, the less irritating they become. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Bickering. So much bickering. I still love her to pieces but did anyone else start seeing every little annoying thing around 4/5 months in? strange. this experience must be unique to you. usually the more time you spend around someone, the less irritating they become. Ha bloody ha. I'm asking because in my previous long term relationships, 1 we never argued and the other was just a bitch so we argued all the time. I know my current isn't a bitch but we still bicker so asking for experiences now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Mrs E and I have always low level bickered. Dont over think stuff Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted March 17, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted March 17, 2015 Depends on your personalities doesn't it. Some people bicker all the time, some people don't. If they're full on arguments then it's different. Like Eames says, don't overthink it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 How long you been seeing her? Only a couple of months, but was totally smitten to be honest. Thought she was a corker. But as with all women its just a smokescreen, absolute head case I think. So do I go back to get my sack emptied, or do I run for the hills? DHUTWU The reason I got binned is a classic to be honest, you lot will love it. I got hold of some viagra and dropped half a tablet before going round her gaff for a bit of leg over. Anyway, smashed it into bits, like a cheap garden shed. She asked in the morning after being rodgered countless times "were did that come from?" I admitted the extra help I had. She went nuts and threw me out, said she was sick of "lies and deceit". I thought most birds would give a pat on the back and say "good well done stud" I'm not saying I have some Mel Gibson like insight into the female mind here but, to be fair to her what you've basically said (in female speak) is: "to be honest love you're not that fit and I can't find it in myself to give it my all for sexy time so I needed a bit of chemical support." and from that point of view shes probably a bit hurt, pissed off and insecure. Had she known about the V before she may have been ok. If you like her.... go back, if you don't **** her off and move on. Up to you. Mr E is wise. You've basically treated her like a bit of a prostitute. Wimmin want to feel special, not some kind of sex whore who is there for when you've popped a V and want to go and f*** her all night long. The fact you weren't open and honest about if beforehand makes it worse. It's not the worst crime in the world from our POV, but from hers, it's pretty bad. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Depends on your personalities doesn't it. Some people bicker all the time, some people don't. If they're full on arguments then it's different. Like Eames says, don't overthink it. They're very small arguments. Over stupid shit. We're over it within 10 minutes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eames Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Depends on your personalities doesn't it. Some people bicker all the time, some people don't. If they're full on arguments then it's different. Like Eames says, don't overthink it. They're very small genitals. stupid shit. its over within 10 minutes. FXD 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
islingtonclaret Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 When you are told "I'll text you" after a successful but brief date on Thursday, and nothing up to Tuesday, are girls being actually correct when they say, "I'll text you" or do they mean "I'll keep you waiting until you debate whether to text me instead, and it makes you look too clingy?" Because for all these tactics and etiquette, I can't fathom for the life of me why we do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Everyone plays games at the start of a relationship. Don't over think it and text her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 When you are told "I'll text you" after a successful but brief date on Thursday, and nothing up to Tuesday, are girls being actually correct when they say, "I'll text you" or do they mean "I'll keep you waiting until you debate whether to text me instead, and it makes you look too clingy?" Because for all these tactics and etiquette, I can't fathom for the life of me why we do it. without sounding harsh, it sounds to me like she's not that interested. How do you know the date was successful (to her)? You said it was brief, which suggest lack of success of said date? She said she'd text you, which could easily be seen as a fob off. I think you'll have to text her and arrange a new date. If she's not interested, she'll fob you off again. Then call it a day. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jon Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Everyone plays games at the start of a relationship. Not strictly true. Especially for the more 'mature' amongst us. generalising, I tend to find the 'game playing' is more prevalent amongst the younger generation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
islingtonclaret Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Well, not to go into finer detail but its pretty certain she's interested in me, so I dunno. I'll wait till tomorrow, then send if nothing comes. It could have been a fob off, which would be pretty disappointing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 Everyone plays games at the start of a relationship. Not strictly true. Especially for the more 'mature' amongst us. generalising, I tend to find the 'game playing' is more prevalent amongst the younger generation. I disagree to an extent. Maybe game playing is the wrong phrase, but people are rarely direct with those they want to be with at the start. And islington, just text her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlwaysAVFC Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 I recently text a girl after a good date, heard nothing for a couple of days so thought I'd try one more just to see if there is anything, after nothing back for most the day I deleted her off my phone as I thought that was that. Low and behold she gets back to me after I'd given up. Texting is a minefield, I hate it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 but people are rarely direct with those they want to be with at the start. I've found that one of the benefits of getting older is that people do become more direct. No time for bullshit. I like it. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
islingtonclaret Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 These 'games' are the first time I've encountered any of this nonsense. I'm too old now to be gambowling around with "2 day rules" or any of that cack. I don't get it...if you like me, you like me, surely that's all there is to it? I'll ask how the week is going tomorrow or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted March 17, 2015 Share Posted March 17, 2015 (edited) Playing games just means she gets ignored from me. Stefan, me and her argue like troopers but then we laugh about it, go at it for a bit then it'fine for a few days. Don't worry about it, most couples argue, some don't, just don't worry, if its meant to be it'll work. Edited March 17, 2015 by Ingram85 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stevo985 Posted March 17, 2015 VT Supporter Share Posted March 17, 2015 The missus and I almost never argue. But I'm not always sure that's a good thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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