NO, we are not. Have a look at Man City play and tell me they are not 'cheating' when they have lost the ball and ensure the other team do not counter effectively by cynically chopping, tugging. Every single time. The weakness they have is fast counter attacks as they pile forward, they know this so they will foul. We have just not been very good at this side of the game and if we want to compete we need to be just as good at the underhanded