One thing that I think most Villa fans seem to struggle with is that Manchester City are now much, much more likely to win things than Villa.
Yes, they may crash and burn in the long term. Yes, they may not even gel in the short term; Mancini may leave and they may remain trophyless for a couple of seasons. However, if they don't win anything, Villa probably won't be winning anything either - Manchester United, Chelsea, Arsenal, Liverpool and possibly Tottenham will be winning things.
That's not to say that Villa might not gain a League Cup, FA Cup or even Europa League trophy in the forthcoming seasons. It's just that, even if it is all down to £££, only one club out of ourselves and Manchester City stands any realistic chance of winning the Premier League for the remainder of James Milner's career, barring some unforseen heavy investment into Villa or a complete City collapse. By extension, it's possible that City may even win the Champions League at some point in the not too distant future. I hope they don't, and I'd rather see them crash and burn. I'd have loved to have seen Milner stay at Villa, just like I wanted Barry to stay.
But Manchester City are going to offer these players - these human beings - huge amounts of money to play for them, with a significantly greater chance of winning silverware. Yes, Milner may be more likely to be dropped at Man City, but I'm sure that's a risk that such a hard-working and confident young man is willing to take. He may lose his place in the England squad if he ever is dropped, something which may have been much less likely at Villa. But if he does blossom at City, it will probably carry both James Milner and Manchester City forward. He could end up England captain; I don't think that would have happened while he was playing for an Aston Villa side who aren't in the top four.
Sorry if I seem pessimistic, but to me this is just realism.
At the end of the day, we have an excellent player in Stephen Ireland and I'd love to see us push on. I just can't see us pushing ahead of Manchester City, unless we manage to do so in a one-off season. If we do though, and do it through doing things the proper way - the Aston Villa way - then I'll be as proud as anyone. And I'll support the team in that push.