yes, size 12 is considered normal now because too many people are overweight!
but i agree with you, in terms of a partner, size is irrelevant.
personality is much more important.
but this question is about how you like your women, personality being given as a constant.
Not sure the question applies to life partners who hopefully at least we all pick on personality.
However nobody looks across a room and says "phooorrr look at the personality on her" do they.