2 years since the last form of any kind at the end of an odd relationship.
However, the last two years ( well up till about 5 months ago ) were hell, so I'm not too bothered. But recently things have looked up onm that score. An increased ( ie return of an an actual ) social life, bit of confidence, greater sense of what I'm looking for has helped, and there's a couple of friendships brewing quite nicely. Still, no rush. what's a few more months when you've gone years?