StefanAVFC Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 I phrased it wrong. What I mean is that I'm settled in work, settled in lodgings, settled with friends and the only hole in my life is not having a missus. I've never had all those things at the same time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CarewsEyebrowDesigner Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 What makes it a 'hole'? (innuendo aside). I find it unsettling that people use such... materialist terms for human relationships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 It's not like that. Stop taking me literally! I can't even describe what I mean. Basically I have a really good life right now but having someone to share it with would be even better. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
islingtonclaret Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 Rob's bat signal has just been turned on... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ingram85 Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 It'll happen Stefan, just don't force it to happen or put too much pressure on yourself. Enjoy life single or not. Easier said than done but if you read my posting biography over the last 3 or 4 years in the relationship thread you'll see what not to do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted November 2, 2013 Share Posted November 2, 2013 It's okay Stefan, I know what you mean. It's not a checklist of things you think you must have in order to have a happy life, you just want someone special now that everything else in your life seems to be sorted out. No harm in seeing where things with this girl go. If you find out you really do have nothing in common with her then you probably know she's not the one for you, it really is that simple. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
legov Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 I'm fairly sure the only thing I'm missing in my life right now is a missus and my brain is going mad with me. I met a girl tonight at this fireworks party I went to with my parents. She's fairly attractive, but not entirely clever and still into One Direction. I know I should run a mile but meeeeehhh Baaaail Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 Well the girl I bit the bullet with has replied..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 It's okay Stefan, I know what you mean. It's not a checklist of things you think you must have in order to have a happy life, you just want someone special now that everything else in your life seems to be sorted out. No harm in seeing where things with this girl go. If you find out you really do have nothing in common with her then you probably know she's not the one for you, it really is that simple. And things aren't really gonna go anywhere with this girl. It was more of a 'Christ I am desperate' realisation Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 Ha fair enough. I wanted to remain positive, but if she's a 1D fan then there's not much hope for her. Sounds like you dodged the bullet instead of bit it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 Yeah she seems pretty immature. It seems like her best mate is 16 (she's 19) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 My mum's best friend's daughter is like that. She's 20 now but has the mindset of a 14 year-old, which is a shame because she has an amazing body. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 Yeah sounds about right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 Where'd you go for fireworks? Lich? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villaguy Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 I wouldn't let someones immaturity get in the way of a bit of fun, if you're single get some practice in before you meet the 'one' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 I'm sure he's gotten practice in before, but if it's a relationship he's after then playing the field probably isn't the right approach. Not that I speak for Stefan of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villaguy Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 Yeah I guess, when word gets around that you're just after one thing it can be hard to shake off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ginko Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 (edited) This drudging up any memories that you might want to share in the confessions thread? Edited November 3, 2013 by Ginko 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StefanAVFC Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 (edited) I'm sure he's gotten practice in before, but if it's a relationship he's after then playing the field probably isn't the right approach. Not that I speak for Stefan of course. Been there, done that. You may speak for me again Ginks Regarding the fireworks, it was just a party at a friends house in Aldridge. I'm going to a proper one on Tuesday night but I have no idea where it is. Edited November 3, 2013 by StefanAVFC 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
villaguy Posted November 3, 2013 Share Posted November 3, 2013 I'll let a few others fess up a few of theirs before I make anymore revelations, I think people must have some but are a little self conscious to make them public info Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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