Its all in the mind, look at my pic in the rogue gallery then look at the girl im taking for a meal next week and youd think hypnosis/rohypnol/blackmail were all involved* Whereas my mate at work is a good looking athletic chap and he is more useless than i am.
Youve just gotta think, '**** it im going for it' and not worry about consequences, your on this planet for an infitismal amount of time, ive spent a good portion of my time so far moping around, thinking what if, if only etc......then i met the now ex, took a chance, had a 4 year relationship and a mahoosive confidence boost, just because i said 'fancy going to see that film?.
Just ride the clouds of ignorance and go for it, you will fall off now and again but just jump straight back on again.
*they arent.