I lie somewhere in the middle of your view and BOF's view.
We should most certainly give a ****.
But there's a difference between giving a **** and feeling responsible for deaths that have nothing to do with you. We should be aware of the dangers of thi sgame (and of anything) and people should be encouraged not to participate in things that put them in that sort of danger.
But, like I said before, you can't ban stuff that isn't dangerous, because a tiny minority have made it dangerous for them. Similarly, I feel absolutely no guilt, and neither should I, that those people have died as a result of them approaching a relatively harmless game idiotically.
I feel sympathy, especially for the families, and I hope it doesn't happen to anyone else, and I hope people are more cautious as a result. But I don't feel guilt. It's not my fault and neither is it the game's fault.