Even if it takes 3 months of you not being to take it, I'd rather keep him than take £25m.
It is not clear that he wants to go. It can be assumed that he is considering his options, some of which probably haven't even materialised yet.
Grow some!
Grow some what?
Im not crapping myself that he is off. Its inevitable. if not this season, the next. Lets just get it over with and move on. Summer after Summer we make a complete arse of something and we very rarely go into a season having had a full productive pre-season. If the offers are there - get it done and lets move on.
Considering his options means that he clearly wants to go imo. Or at least, it means it does not definitely want to stay. What ever it takes for you to be able to 'take' a few months of mere speculation.
Considering his options does not mean he 'clearly wants to go'. He might 'definitely want to stay' and be waiting for his agent to get him the best deal, but I think it's more probable he is happy to wait for all his options, including staying, before deciding.
It is correct that summers involving contract negotiations, purchases and sales, speculation and often downright rubbish about players are common for our club and most other clubs. I see no need for us to rush to accepting the first offers, just to 'get it done'. I'm not sure he will stay any more than it is 'inevitable' that 'he is off'.